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Old 04-14-2015, 12:30 PM   #1
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Mine were pretty much all in college.
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Old 04-14-2015, 12:34 PM   #2
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My very best friend was from Jr. High through high school.

College friends all scattered (except her).

I now have a very tight knit group of parents from play group and I know I'll have at least a few lifers... So, 20-30's.
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:06 PM   #3
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Hmmm tough question
I dont realy have any lifelong friends
Heck I don't have friends
Seems I have acquaintances not friends
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:07 PM   #4
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Hmmm tough question
I dont realy have any lifelong friends
Heck I don't have friends
Seems I have acquaintances not friends
You will always have me. Let's hug it out.
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:13 PM   #5
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I guess when something was missing.
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:23 PM   #6
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I can get them in bulk. Like a bundle package? My BFF I've known since Jr. High and most of my other lovies...I've met along the way. Probably within the last 7 years or so. That's when I became even more rebellious and defiant, so...
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:24 PM   #7
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I have a couple from school but the rest of them are from when we all hit the pubs at 18. Great group of girls.
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:25 PM   #8
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:28 PM   #9
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Well, life isn't over yet, but my best friends I met at work early on, and though none of us works together now, we are still the Octopussies.

Couple friends? We had one marriage-long couple that were the ones we always had no matter where we moved or worked . She died of cancer two years ago, and the three of us..

Well, it's never going to be the same.
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Old 04-14-2015, 01:41 PM   #10
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In college. I'm still close with the guy I thought was my soul mate when I believed in such things (but it IS 30 years later) and my best girlfriend and I are still close, even if we don't talk much.

I've always made a good friend here and there. From all the different schools I've been to, work, now choirs I'm in. But, while I'm very sociable and out-going in appearance, I truly find it hard now to let people in. I'm pretty lonely actually.
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Old 04-14-2015, 09:51 PM   #11
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Primary school grade 2, I've moved countries yet am fortunate enough to have girlfriends I know from Primary school visit me...

there's so much comfort in a friendship with someone who knows you like family
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Old 04-14-2015, 09:57 PM   #12
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Old 05-12-2015, 08:54 AM   #13
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10+ years ago .. but they really cemented our friendship's during my separation a few year's ago.
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Old 05-12-2015, 09:28 AM   #14
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I have my best friend from 5th grade on that is still in my life. My first room mate/maid of honor/partner in crime from when I was 18/19 yrs old who is still in my life. But the majority of my friends are from 20s-30's which is a collection of people I've worked with, kids friends parents, neighbors. The best part is that over the years they have all gotten to know one another and we have parties twice a year where it seems like a family reunion, lol

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Was it:

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Mine were pretty much all in college.
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My very best friends I've made after school. I still keep in touch with my best friends from junior high, high school and college but they aren't the people in my innerest of circles
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Interesting question. I've lost contact with most of my HS friends. Saying hello on FB is ok but it's just a status thing.I'm realizing ive met really good friends online...like here or answering misc. Posts on forums etc...
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my closest & very best friends I made in around 2001- now...met online

Then I have 2 friends from grade 1 who get together every few months for dinner

And my best girl from high school & I still keep in touch, mostly FB
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I'm pretty sure my lifelong friends would hate being referred to as bulk
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I have one LLF I met in graduate school. Another is an ex-wife. Met both of them during my 20-30s. And then, my wife, who I met when I was in my 40s.
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Grade school.. Although.. We aren't very close anymore.. We ARE still in contact and we see each other whenever we can..
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Most of my friends I made..were in Jr High...and they carried on through Senior year...until work.
Best thing I ever did though..was to marry my best friend

PS : His name is Bob..and yes..he CAN cook
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The ones I talk to most are from HS. We all settled back in the same areas. My friends from college are the kind where we go long times between talking but reconnect effortlessly. It's just that we scattered more after college.
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Lifelong? Doesn't that sort of limit someone? Can't say yesterday or 5 years ago, right?

On a serious note....I grew up with 2 guys when I was 5 they were both 7 Still very tight to this day...
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definitely mid-20's to mid- 30's. I still keep in touch with kids from school but my tribe didn't form really til my 30's.
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I've moved so much that it's been difficult to maintain friendships. Yet, I remain in contact with close friends from university and a few old girlfriends.
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