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Old 08-26-2007, 02:45 PM   #1
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since this is the married & looking forum....what are you looking for??



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Old 08-26-2007, 02:50 PM   #2
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Both actually. I am looking for an affair, but she would have to be my friend first. I also think there are plenty friends to be made here, and most of those friends are just not close enough to really have an affair with.
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Old 08-26-2007, 02:54 PM   #3
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First I would want to be friends and see how we connect. If it feels right and we like what we see, hopefully we end up making love. Cause I like it sweet and slow. To cuddle and touch each other. Kiss all the time, hold hands. All the things that have stopped or come to a slow crawl with the relationship I in now.
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I came here looking for friendship - and I found alot of friends..
It is so easy to fall in love with someone just by talking to them.. you open up, they open up, you finally decide to meet, and then someone gets hurt.. it might be one of the members of the affair, a friend who finds out and gets upset by it, the spouses if they figure it out..
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Since all the lovely women here turned me down for an affair--I settled for the friendship...couldn't ask for a better place for friends..
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Old 08-26-2007, 03:01 PM   #6
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First I would want to be friends and see how we connect. If it feels right and we like what we see, hopefully we end up making love. Cause I like it sweet and slow. To cuddle and touch each other. Kiss all the time, hold hands. All the things that have stopped or come to a slow crawl with the relationship I in now.
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I came here for friendship and fun and have stayed because of the friends I've made along the way. Would I have an affair? Quite possibly, if I found the right connection with someone.

So far, made lots of friends but no special someone... *sigh*
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Old 08-26-2007, 03:15 PM   #8
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I came for friends, but could easily have an affair if I met someone close enough.


Question: Is it an affair if you have a "friend with benefits", and/or if your spouse knows and says OK?
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Old 08-26-2007, 03:25 PM   #9
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Obviously you need to dig a little deeper...he might be posting right in front of your very eyes




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I came here for friendship and fun and have stayed because of the friends I've made along the way. Would I have an affair? Quite possibly, if I found the right connection with someone.

So far, made lots of friends but no special someone... *sigh*
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Old 08-26-2007, 03:48 PM   #10
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Depends on the moment I am being asked.. Right now? Hmmm. Have found a couple of great friends... but I don't know the answer to the other part.... have to wait and see I guess.
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Since all the lovely women here turned me down for an affair--I settled for the friendship...couldn't ask for a better place for friends..
It would have been nice to be asked.. ..I guess I don't count cause I live in Canada! WELL
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Old 08-26-2007, 05:25 PM   #12
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I came here cause I was really lonely and wanted to chat with some people...I have a few real good friends and we are real tight but never face to face met. In 5 days I will meet someone that was here, and yes we are going to have an affair....it may be a long one too!
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Old 08-26-2007, 05:28 PM   #13
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It would have been nice to be asked.. ..I guess I don't count cause I live in Canada! WELL

Canadians can't have affairs? That's a tough country!


As for myself, I'm just looking for some electricity, a connection. Guess that's somewhere between a friend and an affair.
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I came here cause I was really lonely and wanted to chat with some people...I have a few real good friends and we are real tight but never face to face met. In 5 days I will meet someone that was here, and yes we are going to have an affair....it may be a long one too!

Good, may it be a long and pleasurable affair. I am in the same boat. missing something at home and came on here just looking around. Still feeling the place out. May one day soon, I be able to post that I am going to have an affair. keep you posted no doubt.
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Old 08-26-2007, 05:30 PM   #15
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I came here cause I was really lonely and wanted to chat with some people...I have a few real good friends and we are real tight but never face to face met. In 5 days I will meet someone that was here, and yes we are going to have an affair....it may be a long one too!

Guess Canadians CAN have affairs... Is he local, or is it long-distance?
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Friends stimulate the mind......affairs develop from passion. i'm clueless where this might lead, but what a great place to journey on!!!
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Guess Canadians CAN have affairs... Is he local, or is it long-distance?
This time I go there, next time he comes here!
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Does one look for either? Friendships are made whatever your circumstances or needs, whereas an affair may happen as a result of them...
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Does one look for either? Friendships are made whatever your circumstances or needs, whereas an affair may happen as a result of them...
Wow. Deep thoughts, but true. Thanks for making me think.
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couldn't have said it better pragJen!! that's the "journey" part!!
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Does one look for either? Friendships are made whatever your circumstances or needs, whereas an affair may happen as a result of them...
Very well put Jen.. those friendships can lead to affairs, very easily.....
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so is that a good thing or a bad thing, Tina???
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so is that a good thing or a bad thing, Tina???
it can be a very very good thing, but it can also be a very bad thing... let me get back to you when I have an affair.....
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LOL.......does that make it eminent???
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it can be a very very good thing, but it can also be a very bad thing... let me get back to you when I have an affair.....

Haven't had one myself, but have seen a lot of them play out. And it's usually been both, in that order!
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