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Old 02-11-2013, 11:40 PM   #1
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You may have had one. You may be in one. You may want one so bad it just hurts. But what exactly is a successful affair? And how do you make it work?
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Old 02-11-2013, 11:52 PM   #2
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Not getting caught is a pretty important factor in a successful affair.
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Old 02-11-2013, 11:54 PM   #3
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I think in order for it to successful .. both parties must want the same thing, and respect the same limits .. once one wants less or more than the other.. it seems to be doomed.
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Old 02-11-2013, 11:56 PM   #5
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I'd have to agree...not getting caught ranks pretty high.

That said, if there is to be an affair, finding the right person to have it with is probably the most important single factor. It takes someone very special to be the "other" partner and be ok with it.
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Old 02-12-2013, 12:07 AM   #6
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That or someone so lonely but to scared to ask for a divorce. They make the other person have the affair , in a way that's a success
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Old 02-12-2013, 10:28 AM   #7
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If your occupation requires frequent overnight travel, you have the makings for a successful affair. The rest of us are fucked.
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Old 02-12-2013, 11:47 AM   #8
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If your occupation requires frequent overnight travel, you have the makings for a successful affair. The rest of us are fucked.
One just needs a little creativity like "I'm going shopping ... see you in a couple of hours." And of course your cell phone is off because there's no signal in "the shop".
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Old 02-12-2013, 12:23 PM   #9
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Old 02-12-2013, 12:40 PM   #10
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I had a hot and heavy affair for a year, had some one nighters back in the day. You just need to be creative and crafty.....it can be done without getting caught, you just need to be wicked good. There is a reason I'm called Tenacity.
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Old 02-12-2013, 12:58 PM   #11
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I believe my wife is having an affair. Too many suspicious things going on. Should I be concerned when she just wants to get away for the night? There are other signs too
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Old 02-12-2013, 01:27 PM   #12
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You what is a successful affair. When its over for any other reason than spouse finding out. The two just say its over and they both walk or stop and stay friends .
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Old 02-12-2013, 01:29 PM   #13
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I would make a thread or look for the correct thread. This might get passed over it here if you speaking the truth .
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Old 02-12-2013, 03:08 PM   #15
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Old 02-12-2013, 04:21 PM   #16
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I would think that you would need to be a good liar for a affair to work for a long period of time....
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I judge it by how quickly she gives up the ass. If it takes more than 2 afternoons at the Red Roof Inn (50/50 split on the bill of course), then fuck that...time to move on.
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I judge it by how quickly she gives up the ass. If it takes more than 2 afternoons at the Red Roof Inn (50/50 split on the bill of course), then fuck that...time to move on.
If you are already going to the Red Roof, without her giving up the ass you are a sucker.....she doesnt get past the men's room at the Flying J by the highway without giving it up.
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If she is...don't get angry, get even. But make sure, first.
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You have to have absolute trust with the person you're messing with, and you have to be satisfied with "stolen moments", however brief or lengthy they may be. Creativity is a must!! Voice of experience here? Yes, for six years in a town of 300....never got caught, but I'm glad it's over!
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