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Old 02-28-2009, 12:57 AM   #1
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I've felt so alone most of my life, most of the time like I'm drowing in a sea of people, but there's no one to really care about me. Haven't been here in a couple weeks, but it's like it doesn't matter...I'm not missed anywhere. This is a stupid thread, I know, but I'm just so lost and alone.
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Old 02-28-2009, 12:59 AM   #2
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Hey Tammy. I missed you. I remember you as someone who cared when I was down. Glad to see you!
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Often girlie... very often... I am sorry you feel that way... you know I love ya.. and I am sorry...

but yes.... I have... I think everyone has...
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I'm right there with ya.....

hope it gets better...
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Quit often Tammy. Sorry but I don't know you but I'm sure your friends have noticed you haven't been around. Hope things improve for you, it's such an awful place to be.
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Old 02-28-2009, 01:09 AM   #6
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I'm sure they would notice when they ran out of clean socks.
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Old 02-28-2009, 06:09 AM   #7
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Although I don't know you well, Tammy, you left a big enough impression on me that I did wonder about you and your whereabouts, especially as things seemed tough for you at the moment.

You seem a very genuine person...intelligent, insightful - you easily hold your own here - but it can feel tough sometimes for everyone; when you feel unappreciated by life in general, it's easy to think you'll be overlooked here, too. It's all in your frame of mind, I think!

I'm sure if you throw yourself into posting - with positivity - many people will enjoy learning about you. Think you've got a lot to give the site! Not a silly thread at all, might prove very helpful for people!
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Old 02-28-2009, 08:17 AM   #8
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I've felt so alone most of my life, most of the time like I'm drowing in a sea of people, but there's no one to really care about me. Haven't been here in a couple weeks, but it's like it doesn't matter...I'm not missed anywhere. This is a stupid thread, I know, but I'm just so lost and alone.
Dying alone in a room full of people....know it well...sorry to see you say the same thing, love...I tried disappearing once...not one call...next time I'll leave a number to test the theory properly...seeing as how we have just met....next time you wander off, Tammy...I'll miss you...lets just hope there isn't a next time, eh?...welcome back, Lady.
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I have, and they didn't. I know exactly how you are feeling.
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Sigh...me too
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Tammy i'm new here but i'm sure you would be greatly missed and that you do stand out in a crowd. We all do in our own unique way. and if you do ever if down like that again then please feel free to look for me in the chatroom or if you would like i could chase after you....;-)

have a great day and remember that there is aways someone wondering about how you're doing
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Oh come on Geek, I would definitely miss whipping your ass in the daily quiz if you disappeared!!!!
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Old 02-28-2009, 04:31 PM   #13
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Hi, all! I'm doing a little better today. It just seemed like everything that's bad in my life came crashing down on me yesterday and really put me in a funk.
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Hi, all! I'm doing a little better today. It just seemed like everything that's bad in my life came crashing down on me yesterday and really put me in a funk.
Not too worry....next time you feel down, just take a read through the fisting or rimming threads.......you will realize that there are people in WAY WORSE shape than any temporary set back you may be having.........things can never be that bad when you compare yourself to those people........it's all a matter of perspective
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I've felt so alone most of my life, most of the time like I'm drowing in a sea of people, but there's no one to really care about me. Haven't been here in a couple weeks, but it's like it doesn't matter...I'm not missed anywhere. This is a stupid thread, I know, but I'm just so lost and alone.
Tammy, I fll this way a lot...and I know at times it's been my own fault because I don't think others really care or give a shit or I've been too afraid, or just didn't care to reach out to someone and say "Hello, I'm here!"

Sometimes when we are feeling alone and drifting away from everyone, we need to do the reaching, like a drowning person going down for the 1st time, then the 2nd....there isn't much you can do but fight for every breath...

Tammy, grab that life line and fight for what you need and want, try to find away out of this hell hole...keeping in mind that others are going through similar things and they too are afraid to reach out...so someone has to find the strength and do the reaching and the pulling... "It is a sad, sad world Master Jack"
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Old 02-28-2009, 08:34 PM   #16
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Glad you are feeling better! I'm feeling that way tonight. Nothing to do, noone around. I'm in a funk! UGH!
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I think we ALL feel that way, Tammy! But I'm glad to hear it's better.

But I also think part of the issue on M&F is that when someone leaves we never know why...and reaching out to see what's happened could make things more complicated....
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honestly tammy... I think everyone here would be missed a little by someone.. but in reality... I don't think anyone would miss any of us for long... I have friends here who I don't talk to anymore... we are still on the same site but don't talk.. I am forgotten, as they are.. and we are still on site... this is just a place to flirt, vent, or whatever... so this site doesn't matter... there is only one person on from this site who I miss very much and I will for the rest of my life.. someone who was so influential in my life that I think about him daily to this day.. months after he left my life.. so the people we love will always be missed or miss... while the "friends" will miss for a bit and move on..

in real life however I know I would be missed... my kids.. my few friends..
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honestly tammy... I think everyone here would be missed a little by someone.. but in reality... I don't think anyone would miss any of us for long... I have friends here who I don't talk to anymore... we are still on the same site but don't talk.. I am forgotten, as they are.. and we are still on site... this is just a place to flirt, vent, or whatever... so this site doesn't matter... there is only one person on from this site who I miss very much and I will for the rest of my life.. someone who was so influential in my life that I think about him daily to this day.. months after he left my life.. so the people we love will always be missed or miss... while the "friends" will miss for a bit and move on..

in real life however I know I would be missed... my kids.. my few friends..
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i think a lot of us feel taken for granted but if you think about it,imagine if you were no longer in the lives of the people you are close to and what they would then do when you weren't there to do the things they relied on you to do.then you realize you would be missed,maybe not for the reasons you'd like but you would be missed.
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I've felt so alone most of my life, most of the time like I'm drowing in a sea of people, but there's no one to really care about me. Haven't been here in a couple weeks, but it's like it doesn't matter...I'm not missed anywhere. This is a stupid thread, I know, but I'm just so lost and alone.
Tammy, I am new here so we don't know each other, with that being said, it is nice to meet you.

I am sorry you feel lost and alone. I tend to think we all feel that same way on occasion. Hang in there.

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I am going to have to go with no...I have a big mouth someone would miss me...
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I think I would like it if no one noticed I had disappeared. There are days I would love to be invisible.
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I'm with stellabelle, I wish nobody would notice, I could come and go as I please.
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