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Old 08-24-2016, 11:57 PM   #26
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Really depends on you doesn't it. I think online its easy to project all the things we dream and desire onto someone else regardless of what they are 'really' like we can make him/her into virtually anything we want and all they have to do is say the things we long to hear, fill holes we have that are emotionally neglected and to trigger that lust button that's been dormant so long.

That being said ... guys fall in love on a daily in the Show me thread.
But I'm not in the show me thread yet!! Indulge me. Lol
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Old 08-24-2016, 11:59 PM   #27
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You don't always see that, even if you know the person face to face.
I completley agree too. I suppose I'm very protective of my heart. One might say to a fault.
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Old 08-25-2016, 12:08 AM   #28
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I think most of the posters here have said exactly what I was thinking....it is completely possible to fall in love in the virtual land...keeping it long term can be a challenge....I think real life at some point follows, or wants to follow.
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Unfortunately, I can fall in love virtually anywhere. And, not just virtually.
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Old 08-25-2016, 02:14 AM   #30
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This is a similar thread to one that Bella answered much more eloquently than I.

Online can cultivate the infatuation, which many inappropriately attribute to love. But, as Shawn appropriately states, people can promote a false persona, catfish.

Meeting a person, after feeling the inclinations of love from an online infatuation, multiple times, is a much better measure of whether you truly fell in love.

We all have our warts. When someone loves you after you have shown your warts, it's love.
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Old 08-25-2016, 03:05 AM   #31
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But you only know what they tell you about themselves - truthful or not, and they can omit the bad shit.
I wouldn't fall for anyone who isn't open with me. When they're open and are relaxed with you then you do get to see the bad shit as well as all the good stuff. And as long as the good stuff far outweighs the bad shit then it's very possible to fall. But I agree that closed people could be anyone or anything and it'd be foolish to fall in love with a fantasy that they portray.
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Old 08-25-2016, 05:32 AM   #32
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Robert Browning & Elizabeth Barrett fell in love writing poems & letters to each other & had never met.

Hey things can happen just saying..
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Old 08-25-2016, 07:04 AM   #33
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I fell hard (years and years and years ago). I think being online with a "safer" person let me share more (feelings, emotions, fears etc) than with anyone else ever and she felt the same way. Even after all that, we realized we still liked each other, which led to real love, which eventually led to conflicts with real life and then the hurting like furk. Somehow it fell back to being friends, and still is these almost decades later.

These days, the walls go up pretty quick and I avoid walking down that emotional path, both consciously and subconsciously. I remember there highs all those years ago and wish I could have them again but then I remember the lows.
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Old 08-25-2016, 08:14 AM   #34
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Once there was this breadmaker I got off ebay. I lost the little paddles. Broke my heart.
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Old 08-25-2016, 08:19 AM   #35
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Old 08-25-2016, 09:36 AM   #36
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I believe it's possible, but I'm personally not completely sold on the idea.
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I love some of the friends I have on here men and women

So yea you can love a person as far as fall in love maybe fall in lust ..either way no thanks for falling for any man anywhere

hard enough being friends with a man without gossip and rumors that you want them...
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Old 08-25-2016, 02:22 PM   #38
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I love some of the friends I have on here men and women

So yea you can love a person as far as fall in love maybe fall in lust ..either way no thanks for falling for any man anywhere

hard enough being friends with a man without gossip and rumors that you want them...
The last bit is SPOT ON
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Old 08-25-2016, 02:22 PM   #39
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Sure as long as your local and can meet up often . Other than that I'd say no.
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....and the first time you hear that voice.

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Don't mind me. I'm just passing by.
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Sure as long as your local and can meet up often . Other than that I'd say no.
But then that's not an online exclusive relationship. That's an in-person relationship.
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Speaking of falling in love in bars and voices....

https://youtu.be/EtLVXBqfqBY?list=RDHkOMiA_uGso
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But then that's not an online exclusive relationship. That's an in-person relationship.
That's how they start.
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....and the first time you hear that voice.

*ahem*


Don't mind me. I'm just passing by.
I'm not thanking you because it deserves personal thanks...

more like, haven't I given you my phone number yet?
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That's how they start.
Most of them end at online only.
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I've said this in another similar thread before - I don't think you can fall in love online, I think you would have to meet in person to fall.

Infatuation and lust sometimes feel like love. Just saying.

Or maybe I'm wrong, and it's just me that thinks this way. Prove me wrong
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I'm not thanking you because it deserves personal thanks...

more like, haven't I given you my phone number yet?
You've kept me waiting long enough.
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....and the first time you hear that voice.

*ahem*


Don't mind me. I'm just passing by.
that was you?
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You've kept me waiting long enough.
Well, quite frankly, I'm a little scared of what would happen if our voices were to meet one dark night.
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Most of them end at online only.
I think it all depends on the attraction, or lack thereof.
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