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Old 02-14-2006, 01:24 PM   #1
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Do you ever talk about them with your partner? Do you ever see any of them and wonder what it would be like if you stayed together?
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Old 02-14-2006, 01:35 PM   #2
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We talk about what and if, and wonder, I think we all do, sometimes I think what would life been like the changes wether we would have had children and what would I be doing now. Chris talks about her sailor boyfriend long before me, and I ask if she has regrets and she says she doesnt, who knows. Yes I often wonder what past lover would have been female enough to take me on. Life can be cruel but also wonderous, and dreams help people along, fantasies of the past are but a mere port in the storm.
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Old 02-14-2006, 02:42 PM   #3
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Yes we do! A whole lot lately since one of them still wants to "be my friend". Friends like him I do not need! Actually hubby might try to get him to leave me alone if he doesn't take a hike soon! It would have been a nightmare for me if we stayed together, no doubt about it!
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Old 02-14-2006, 02:43 PM   #4
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I have never really talked about my past lovers , just causes jealousy . But I have and do see a couple of close ex's , and I wondered for a minute what it would be like, only one I have wondered alot about untill lately , but I think well enough is left to the past . And I think people are really looking for that connection they once thought they had, and then you have to think , there is a reason they are your past lovers.
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Old 02-14-2006, 03:01 PM   #5
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Oh that has been a FUN one over the years! She has an ex that was a police officer in our old precinct and he would stop by to vist aLOT. And as I have a child from one of my past ooppsses we have that family situation to contend with regularly. Includeing being invited over for parties etc. Her ex and his latest girlfriend have even come over to our new house and hung out in the pub.
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Old 02-14-2006, 04:19 PM   #6
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yes we've talked about our exs, and no neither one of us would want to go back to them.
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Old 02-14-2006, 04:28 PM   #7
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yes we've talked about our exs, and no neither one of us would want to go back to them.
Isn't that what we all tell or partners.
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Old 02-14-2006, 04:31 PM   #8
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Isn't that what we all tell or partners.
I have to agree Trev...I don't see saying, "well hell, they won't have me, so I'm stuck with you!"
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Old 02-14-2006, 04:45 PM   #9
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i choose to be with him. believe me i'n not stuck
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Old 02-14-2006, 06:35 PM   #10
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I have only really had one other lover than my hubby....and that was during the 18 months we were split up...would i like to go back to him??? No i think I have finally gotten over him....I love hubby just not his drinking!!!!
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Old 02-14-2006, 06:49 PM   #11
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When my kids were younger they used to tease me when I would run into an old boyfriend in the grocery store. I have only had 1 lover and he is right here with me everyday.
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Old 02-15-2006, 04:54 AM   #12
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my ex hubby and i used to talk about our ex's and there is only 1 of my ex's that i have wondered about we stayed friends but have not seen him in a few years
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Old 02-20-2006, 10:46 AM   #13
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There are a couple that my wife and I talk about, there's even one that calls the house from time to time, pisses my wife off, but this ex-gf thinks she can whip my wifes butt, and my wife keeps telling her to just bring it. She hasn't called back since.


Naw, I don't really wonder what it could have been. With any one else from my past.
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Old 02-20-2006, 10:50 AM   #14
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there were several gfs way back in the dark history of my life that I often wonder what happened to. But I have never been good at keeping in touch with the past. Never been much back there I want to hang on to.
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Old 02-20-2006, 11:34 AM   #15
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Nope we don't talk about them, I think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, besides there are reasons they are called ex's!
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Nope we don't talk about them, I think it's best to let sleeping dogs lie, besides there are reasons they are called ex's!
true, and there are some back there that I am still wondering why..... but not losing sleep over it. Already lost enough over them and moved on.
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Old 02-20-2006, 11:41 AM   #17
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true, and there are some back there that I am still wondering why..... but not losing sleep over it. Already lost enough over them and moved on.
Uhhhh huh, you said a mouthful!
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Old 02-20-2006, 11:54 AM   #18
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No not that much at all. I was her first and I only had a handfull so there isn't much to talk about
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Old 02-20-2006, 11:54 AM   #19
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past lovers..very interesting ..how many could you have married?
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past lovers..very interesting ..how many could you have married?
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Old 02-20-2006, 12:10 PM   #21
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Old 02-20-2006, 01:11 PM   #22
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Yeah isnt she Beautiful !!
And you are not bad yourself! So be sure you smile when you say things like that!
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And you are not bad yourself! So be sure you smile when you say things like that!
Aww , Now that was sweet !! Thank you !
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