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Old 09-20-2011, 08:17 AM   #1
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Question What's your style?

So after my first foray into the forums as a newbie, I'm pretty intrigued by all the different personalities of everyone. So my questions to y'all are...what's your style of flirting? Are you the aggressive, put it all out there type or the subtle, innuendo type? What kind of flirting attracts you the most? Do you prefer to be the hunter or the hunted? Feel free to elaborate
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Old 09-20-2011, 08:27 AM   #2
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TIMING is everything.

Sometimes you feel patient, really wanna delve deep into WHO the person is...

Other times you are just in a hurry to just go deep, evil grin.

Innuendo can be a great "feel out" tool as well, to see if you are kinda on the "same page" with someone...
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You'll learn pretty quickly that I am the hunted. I'm quite naive and don't usually understand the subtleties that some implore to garner my attention. So...if you are interested, you'll just need to come out and say "hey let's do it", then I'll give you a price sheet.

Ok..yeah...I'm a bit sarcastic, but it is all in good nature. *if you weren't new, I would never have included this disclaimer*
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You'll learn pretty quickly that I am the hunted. I'm quite naive and don't usually understand the subtleties that some implore to garner my attention. So...if you are interested, you'll just need to come out and say "hey let's do it", then I'll give you a price sheet.

I'm being completely honest and there is no disclaimer.
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You'll learn pretty quickly that I am the hunted. I'm quite naive and don't usually understand the subtleties that some implore to garner my attention. So...if you are interested, you'll just need to come out and say "hey let's do it", then I'll give you a price sheet.

I'm being completely honest and there is no disclaimer.
Uh...copyright rules!! Moderators!!!
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Old 09-20-2011, 08:40 AM   #6
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Oh brother @ THAT ^^^^^.......


For me it's all just fun & goofballishness...Not many are gonna get to know the me on the inside anywho...Agressiveness I find is a turn off for many rather just be yourself and take it a day at a time...you'll click with people a lot easier that way....As for hunter/hunted....I don't hunt
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Oh brother @ THAT ^^^^^.......


For me it's all just fun & goofballishness...Not many are gonna get to know the me on the inside anywho...Agressiveness I find is a turn off for many rather just be yourself and take it a day at a time...you'll click with people a lot easier that way....As for hunter/hunted....I don't hunt
LMAO @ "I don't hunt" - You painted a target on my back...wtf?
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Old 09-20-2011, 08:42 AM   #9
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i like doggie style...oh wait...wrong thread...I just read the title, sorry about that.
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I believe this comes from the official rule book for the site. See page 42, paragraph 3. Under title "When a newbie asks about different flirting techniques, what will you say?"

This was technique 1 which surprises me as most newbies start in the chatroom. I'm surprised number 1 isn't "If you are male, approach female with a private message that says "Do you shave your pussy or not?" And, then something blah blah blah about the females.

This information is therefore within the site's public domain and not protected by copyright law.

I just wanted to point out to the newbie to watch out for wily men with no imaginative skills and the inability to adapt to differing situations. See all previous posts by Barkiss with female newbies who ask this question, sweetheart. But, don't feel embarrassed. He has tricked at least two females with this response.
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I believe this comes from the official rule book for the site. See page 42, paragraph 3. Under title "When a newbie asks about different flirting techniques, what will you say?"

This was technique 1 which surprises me as most newbies start in the chatroom. I'm surprised number 1 isn't "If you are male, approach female with a private message that says "Do you shave your pussy or not?" And, then something blah blah blah about the females.

This information is therefore within the site's public domain and not protected by copyright law.

I just wanted to point out to the newbie to watch out for wily men with no imaginative skills and the inability to adapt to differing situations. See all previous posts by Barkiss with female newbies who ask this question, sweetheart. But, don't feel embarrassed. He has tricked at least two females with this response.
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Such words of wisdom and discernment...awesome
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Look...it pays well...don't hate the man, hate the game
Actually, I believe we should ask the ladies in question. Oh, that's right. We can't because both of them left the site shortly after "catching" you. According to one, it was like "being pursued by Wily Coyote in a ravenous state of hunger. I didn't know what to do or where to go because when I asked Shawn about it he shrugged his shoulders and said 'Boys will be dogs' or something like that. I had to leave. Too bad. For those 8 hours I was really enjoying myself."

So sweetie, it does not pay well for you. It really doesn't for him either (success rate being 2%) but he really suffers from what we in the profession like to call "delusions of grandeur".
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My style...hmmmmm! Dangle the carrot until the rabbit walks into the trap and bites!!!! YEP...THAT sums it up!!!!

On a serious note, I am here to just flirt and have fun. I have ZIP expectations and if anything happens beyond that then yeah for me. I prefer to lay it out thick (humor and sarcasm and flirting) on the threads and if he can handle it and dishes it back to me, then he has caught my attention. I don't believe in that hunter/hunted stuff....I prefer a game of equals.
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My style...hmmmmm! Dangle the carrot until the rabbit walks into the trap and bites!!!! YEP...THAT sums it up!!!!

On a serious note, I am here to just flirt and have fun. I have ZIP expectations and if anything happens beyond that then yeah for me. I prefer to lay it out thick (humor and sarcasm and flirting) on the threads and if he can handle it and dishes it back to me, then he has caught my attention. I don't believe in that hunter/hunted stuff....I prefer a game of equals.
I agree...
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It's kind of like going to one of those very expensive seafood bars..you have to get in line and often the best stuff is taken. Try the crabmeat cocktail, if you can.....yummy.

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