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Old 10-02-2010, 10:18 PM   #51
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my ex husband slept on the couch.....but only cuz he snored so damn loud!
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Old 10-02-2010, 10:47 PM   #52
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not what I would want. we don't have separate bedrooms, I enjoy waking up with him in bed next to me. always nice to have him to cuddle up to.
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Old 10-03-2010, 02:05 AM   #53
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Well, for a while I was having my little ones sneaking into our bed in the middle of the night. I therefore started sleeping in their room every night. This lasted for about a year or so. It was nice while it lasted.
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Old 10-04-2010, 06:49 AM   #54
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It wouldn't be something I wanted in my marriage. My mum and her partner sleep in different bedrooms, reasons being my mum snores and he thrashes about all night so they simply want sleep, their relationship is still exactly the same despite not sleeping in the same bed.
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Old 10-06-2010, 02:16 AM   #55
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Old 10-06-2010, 02:25 AM   #56
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Most of the time he sleeps on the couch because the intimacy in our relationship is virtually non-existant...but even before that we both have awful sleeping habits, he snores VERY loudly and i grind my teeth equally as bad...so next place we get is going to have separate bedrooms so we can sleep!
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Old 12-13-2010, 09:37 PM   #57
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I think separate bedrooms is not a good idea, if your happy you should sleep together. If your not happy, then separate beds..she can have ours and I will sleep in someone elses bed
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Old 12-13-2010, 09:40 PM   #58
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I think separate bedrooms is not a good idea, if your happy you should sleep together. If your not happy, then separate beds..she can have ours and I will sleep in someone elses bed

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Old 12-13-2010, 09:50 PM   #59
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If you're asleep, what difference does it make?

I only sleep in the guest room because the mattress is much better on my back! When it's feeling good, I head back into bed with him. Which means I wake up with a terrible back ache.

It's a vicious cycle.
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Old 12-13-2010, 09:59 PM   #60
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The wife and I keep separate hours, I get up at the crack of dawn, she get's up at the crack of noon. On week nites I usually go to bed hours before she does. The best thing we ever did was decide on separate bedrooms. No more bitching about snoring, farting or stealing the covers. She got real tired of me complaining about those the things. Now she has her bed, The dog and I have mine.
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:02 PM   #61
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The wife and I keep separate hours, I get up at the crack of dawn, she get's up at the crack of noon. On week nites I usually go to bed hours before she does. The best thing we ever did was decide on separate bedrooms. No more bitching about snoring, farting or stealing the covers. She got real tired of me complaining about those the things. Now she has her bed, The dog and I have mine.
my husband leaves and the dog stays with me!
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:08 PM   #62
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Because of my schedule in the morning, my son has taken over my side of the bed at times to watch TV. Which can get frustrating as he leaves his stuff all over the place, whether it be pajamas, clothes, toys, etc. We try to get him to clean up as much as possible, but there are times when I just say "screw it" and find my way to the sofa.

It's passive-aggressive, I know. But there are times when I wish my wife would just notice and fight for ME to have my space back...
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:19 PM   #63
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Old 12-13-2010, 10:23 PM   #64
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If you're asleep, what difference does it make?

I only sleep in the guest room because the mattress is much better on my back! When it's feeling good, I head back into bed with him. Which means I wake up with a terrible back ache.

It's a vicious cycle.

Does it hurt in the upper or lower part of your back?

Spending as much as 7 or 8 hours with my wife always gives me a pain in the ass.
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Does it hurt in the upper or lower part of your back?

Spending as much as 7 or 8 hours with my wife always gives me a pain in the ass.
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what's the point of marriage if you dont share a bed?
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Old 12-15-2010, 12:04 AM   #68
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we have a sleep number bed.. his side hard my side soft..so we each get what we want... well mostly .....
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Old 12-15-2010, 09:04 PM   #69
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I like the idea of separate countries....
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I go to sleep late and wake up early, she doesn't even know I am there.
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Old 12-16-2010, 09:15 PM   #73
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This just makes me sad ...
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Old 12-16-2010, 09:17 PM   #74
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Been married for 28 yrs on Saturday,never slept in separate beds. I have a difficult time sleeping without his body in the bed for me to press my naked self up against and cuddle.
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Old 12-16-2010, 09:40 PM   #75
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