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Old 08-18-2012, 07:47 PM   #1
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I'm a guy so I think sex is extremely important in the relationship. I'm thinking like a 70% sex to 30% Communication. I like to talk but I want to be a freaking wild man in the bedroom, not just the same stuff all the time. What does everyone else think?
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Both are equally as important as the other one
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Old 08-18-2012, 08:15 PM   #6
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I agree with Jelly, 100% for both except after 3 or more sessions of sex in a row then sex drops to 95% and communication to 105%
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If we talk about sex 50% of the time & have sex the other 50% does that count as 100% sex ?
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If it's mind blowing sex I'm good with 90% sex and 10% communication ...

Now if only I can find mind blowing sex...
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Sex is mechanical without communication that expresses love, desire, appreciation.

So, if I can't say Jelly's answer, I'd divide it as such:

7 percent sex/93 percent communication.....
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A 50/50 split. If your talking, you're having sex. If you're not talking, you're just moving farther away from each other.
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I noticed you didn't say wife....what sort of relationship is this you are referring to?
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I am with Jet. 70% sex and 30% communication. I don't want too much talking, as long as that 30% is clear & concise and rational. That's all I want. BUT I am at 40% and 40% which kinda sucks.. oh well...

Humor, companionship (to be able to understand and be content with the silence), and geeky, comprise of a whole other aspect of the pie chart.
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Im with you Jelly. Communication is as important or more important than sex. The problem is that in most relationships there is no communication. Just assumptions. So nothing ever gets solved.
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Id say both, sex without communication is boring as hell.
Geeky communication without real communication is totally acceptable by me, as long as there is sex... damn it but there isn't not nearly as enough.. sucks.
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Geeky communication without real communication is totally acceptable by me, as long as there is sex... damn it but there isn't not nearly as enough.. sucks.
ok What is geeky communication? like talking mathematical equations?
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ok What is geeky communication? like talking mathematical equations?
I can't explain.. my hubby and I discuss some pretty cool things, and we have a fabulous friendship & we both are pretty effective in solving communication issues (since we went to counseling - didn't need much) but all that rationality doesn't solve the SEX DRIVE issue.

And yes: also mathematical equations sometimes.
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I can't explain.. my hubby and I discuss some pretty cool things, and we have a fabulous friendship & we both are pretty effective in solving communication issues (since we went to counseling - didn't need much) but all that rationality doesn't solve the SEX DRIVE issue.

And yes: also mathematical equations sometimes.
ohhh would it excite him if you said "Are you 2x? Because I want to integrate you from 10 to 13!"
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ohhh would it excite him if you said "Are you 2x? Because I want to integrate you from 10 to 13!"
It would get the giggle and some chasing around going... but... if someone said they want to explain how a car is engineered, something is designed, equations written, what fermions and bosons are... I'll be aroused in a heart beat Wouldn't you Libra?
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