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Old 09-09-2011, 08:09 AM   #51
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My kids need and love their father … He's a great dad, just not a very good friend to me! That's something I can live with.
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Old 09-09-2011, 08:34 AM   #52
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My kids need and love their father He's a great dad, just not a very good friend to me! That's something I can live with.
You are a lovely girl pj ....you deserve much more
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Old 09-09-2011, 09:23 PM   #53
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Same boat, have a son that needs me and his happiness is far more important than mine
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Old 09-17-2011, 01:07 AM   #54
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Four kids, She is not nice to me, but I don't count as long as the kids are still needing their father. I'll wait till the youngest is old enough to understand then I am gone.....

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Old 07-22-2012, 11:16 AM   #55
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I am stubborn and I haven't found a good enough reason to leave yet! I want my boys to have a father figure in their lives and I have issues from my childhood that keep me from leaving!
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Old 07-25-2012, 04:59 AM   #56
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Most common reason: Money.
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Old 06-16-2013, 12:18 AM   #57
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Most common reason: Money.
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Old 06-16-2013, 12:29 AM   #58
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Old 06-16-2013, 01:53 AM   #59
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At this point after 18 years, and him changing into a different person.. He won't change even after my continued pleas. He's no longer the man I married, now my kids are old enough to understand, and I don't want them to think its ok to be treated like this anymore. It's quickly coming to an end...
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Old 06-16-2013, 02:35 AM   #60
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I need a better job first and then I hope I have the guts to leave. At this point anything is better than being constantly disappointed. If I'm going to be 90% responsible for every goddamn thing then what do I need him for?
I'd rather be alone at this point.
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Old 06-16-2013, 02:38 AM   #61
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At this point after 18 years, and him changing into a different person.. He won't change even after my continued pleas. He's no longer the man I married, now my kids are old enough to understand, and I don't want them to think its ok to be treated like this anymore. It's quickly coming to an end...
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Old 06-16-2013, 07:25 AM   #62
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Because I feel a strong sense of responsibility for my kids, and maybe because I'm already being told it's my fault that things have gotten to the state they have, and I don't want to have the guilt of destroying a family on top of the guilt of wrecking a marriage.
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Old 06-16-2013, 09:43 AM   #63
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Because I feel a strong sense of responsibility for my kids, and maybe because I'm already being told it's my fault that things have gotten to the state they have, and I don't want to have the guilt of destroying a family on top of the guilt of wrecking a marriage.
That's how he is keeping you there. You know who's to blame and the kids will to
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Old 06-16-2013, 12:11 PM   #64
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Because even though he can be a flaming asshole (which he admits), I love him. And I am not the easiest person in the world to live with either.
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Old 06-16-2013, 11:54 PM   #66
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Um...change the "he" to a "she"--I suppose men can be kept by their sense of responsibility as much as women?
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Old 06-25-2013, 07:49 PM   #67
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Money. When I make a little more, I will leave.
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Old 02-16-2014, 06:53 PM   #68
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In my case things went south after about 18 yrs and now it is just cheaper to stay together, no sex just sharing house.
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Old 02-21-2014, 07:44 AM   #69
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We actually get along really well....have two wonderful kids.....and being a housewife mean I'm dependent financially. Just wish we could have the passion and love that it seems every other couple has.
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We actually get along really well....have two wonderful kids.....and being a housewife mean I'm dependent financially. Just wish we could have the passion and love that it seems every other couple has.
it only seems that way from the outside looking in, the majority of people are in a similar situation, its how we deal with it that counts
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At this point after 18 years, and him changing into a different person.. He won't change even after my continued pleas. He's no longer the man I married, now my kids are old enough to understand, and I don't want them to think its ok to be treated like this anymore. It's quickly coming to an end...
I hope you can find the strength to call it quits, you deserve better and I know you will find it
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I decided to end the marriage in December of last year and I don't for a second regret that decision. Yes, my children are still young, but the are resilient and will understand as they get older why mommy and daddy aren't together anymore. I just can't continue being upset and angry as to why my marriage took the turn that it did. I would much rather end it and start new with a life that I want and hopefully with someone who actually wants and desires me.
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Just a routine at this point.....
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Kids.... I think it would crash my college daughter, my other would just use it for a excuse to be nothing in life. So just keep chugging along...
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We still love and like each other very much, things may not be like they used to be but after 22 years neither one of us expected them to be.
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