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Old 11-06-2014, 08:28 AM   #1
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If you woke up 16 again, would you let your life steer its course back to where you are now and live with your regrets, or would you try to change your entire life and experience something different entirely?

I for one, would ensure no matter what i did, i still met my wife and had my 2 beautiful children, even if it meant living with the regrets i do today.
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Old 11-06-2014, 09:13 AM   #2
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I can't remember being 16! That's ages ago!!! I love my life, so I wouldn't change a thing.
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I'd do somethings differently for sure. I'd have spent more time with my Mom when she was still coherent. I would've spent more time with my loved ones that have passed. But my life choices? I don't think so. I regret marrying so young and the choice of first husband but I have an amazing kiddo out of the deal. I'll keep him.
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Old 11-06-2014, 09:17 AM   #4
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Im genuinely interested in seeing how many people have made mistakes (all of us) but will come to the realization reading this, they call it a regret or a mistake, but wouldn't change it because they got something from it for the better, or learned a very hard lesson that they could have certainly learned in a worse way.
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i would certainly do some things different but like some people say you regret the things you didnt do more than the things you did do if that makes any sense at all
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Old 11-06-2014, 10:00 AM   #7
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i would certainly do some things different but like some people say you regret the things you didnt do more than the things you did do if that makes any sense at all
Perfect sense. At least to me anyway haha.

It's interesting everyones opinion on the matter is quite similar.
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Old 11-06-2014, 10:12 AM   #8
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This is absolutely the truth...I woke up on my 16th birthday a non-virgin! Yayyyyyyyyyyy... however would I want to go through that again? No it bloody hurt!
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Oh I would do things different. Being shy and nice for me nothing for almost a decade!

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I would spend less time and energy chasing that blonde girl that I thought hung the moon. Reminds me of that song about unanswered prayers!
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No cause then I wouldn't have to amazing life I have now. And the regret are few and far between. Life is what you make it good or bad.
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I would buy Microsoft, Apple, and Harley stock...but wouldn't change anything i did...it all makes you what you are and i'm pretty Happy with my life now!!!
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I am what my past made me and I can face the mirror everyday..I won't change anything.
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If you woke up 16 again, would you let your life steer its course back to where you are now and live with your regrets, or would you try to change your entire life and experience something different entirely? I for one, would ensure no matter what i did, i still met my wife and had my 2 beautiful children, even if it meant living with the regrets i do today.
Okay, not to overthink this but it sounds like from your explanation, that I'm 16 w/ the knowledge/wisdom I've already learned...like Back To The Future (shout out to my fellow Gen X'ers who saw the movie before it was on VHS).

In that case, I'd change my self-confidence and would know that I'm far more capable to do whatever I want than what I thought back then and the girls/women I dated.

If I just woke up being 16 again w/o the knowledge/wisdom, I'd be depressed cause I'd hate to be 16 in this world today.
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I would have more sex in my 20's... oh hang on... not sure that's possible :
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It would appear I was right in as much sense as Noone would really change anything...not even the minor details save a few. Everyone would happily let it unfold back to now and not attempt to change anything along the way for the better or worse.

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About it sums it up, hey diva?
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If I woke up at 16 again I'd probably be sitting on a couch with a Hawt guy and his hand up my skirt playing with my pussy...wait hell that happens now. So nope I wouldn't change a thang.
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I Iike you Dixie.I like you a lot.
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I wouldn't have fucked about in school as much and got better grades. I never did horribly, 3.1 overall GPA. But I could have had a 4.0 if I had wanted to apply myself, got into a better school. I loved my time at WKU, but yeah, I could have done better than that if I wanted to.
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