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Old 09-10-2017, 04:26 AM   #1
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Default Do Women Talk Too Much?

I thought this might be interesting as a kind of sister thread to the "Why Don't Men Listen?" one.

Do women talk too much?

I'm of the opinion that it may be a twofold thing.

Firstly...I think we would all agree here that women tend to be emotionally driven much more than men, and are not afraid to voice whats bugging them at any particular time, unlike most guys who tend to sit with their thumb up their asses and bottle shit up..yes?
Could this be the reason we think females are the more vocal side of the species?

Or maybe this?..and this remember..is only MY opinion, so put the pitchforks away ladies..just for a minute..ok?

I think its inherently ingrained in women..to abhor silence. I don't think they know what to do with silence..and feel an overwhelming need to fill it.
It doesn't matter what with...so long as that nasty silence goes away!
Take Rosie for instance..if I'm not listening to what she has to say for some reason(oh dammit!..busted in the other thread!)..that big bad old silence comes creeping in...and she'll then talk to herself..or the dog..or the kettle..or a spoon..just to ward Senor Silence off!

So which is it?

Anyone else want to have a stab at this one?
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Old 09-10-2017, 08:49 AM   #2
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I personally lurve silience...

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Old 09-10-2017, 09:50 AM   #3
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The answer to this probably depends on how much you want to live
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Old 09-10-2017, 01:23 PM   #4
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I think it's personal and not dependant on the gender. Anyone who is in tune with the reality won't be afraid to voice it. It's the ones who are quite and secretly try to hide the truth, are the ones that we all need to be careful of.
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Old 09-10-2017, 02:05 PM   #5
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I know I talk a lot, but I also take care of most of the business type stuff within the household. When something goes wrong, needs to be done or something needs to be taken care of by means of phone calls and such...my ability to communicate effectively comes in handy. If it were left of to the hubs we'd be sunk.
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Old 09-10-2017, 02:12 PM   #7
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I talk a lot at work. When I get home it is the absolute last thing I want to do. I prefer to be the listener.
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I think the first post proves who talks a lot MEN!
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Some do..but most talk just the right amount.

Unfortunately, many men are limited in the conversational skills. That's why my most fun friends are gay guys. They can converse for more than 2 minutes about a good movie.
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absolutely not at all!!
Men listen to much ?
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Old 09-12-2017, 04:37 PM   #11
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Jill nailed it.. It's true men .. or boys.. score quite low on verbal .. but if they want to talk.. boy oh boy we had better listen up.. good thread meathead
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Old 09-12-2017, 04:51 PM   #12
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Typically men in general are taught at a very young age that to express any emotion is a sign of weakness. "Boys don't cry" .... right or wrong it's the social stigma placed on men to never act out, always appear stoic and strong regardless the situation "keep your cool" whereas with women it's typically accepted to go off and be emotional... have a good cry, share with your girlfriends .
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Old 09-12-2017, 06:17 PM   #14
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Isn't this because men don't listen?
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I must have missed that memo.

I usually talk about the wrong things and appear more ok than I probably am.

I like comfortable silences but yeah, I do notice people have to fill the gap.
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Old 09-12-2017, 07:06 PM   #16
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Your intro is so fucking long.
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Your intro is so fucking long.
That's because I wrote it on a weekend..and as everyone knows..I'm "Cassandra" on a weekend
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Some do..but most talk just the right amount.

Unfortunately, many men are limited in the conversational skills. That's why my most fun friends are gay guys. They can converse for more than 2 minutes about a good movie.
"Hey..did you see that movie the other night?"

"Yeah..I did"

"What did you think about it?"

"Thought it was good"

"I Liked the part where...."

"Oh ffs..stop analyzing shit so much!"

Did I make the two minute mark?
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If women are so good at conversation why are men always begging for more oral?
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Nope!
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I can't say it any better than this guy
He makes some funny points but the last bit was totally reversed, in my house.
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"Hey..did you see that movie the other night?"

"Yeah..I did"

"What did you think about it?"

"Thought it was good"

"I Liked the part where...."

"Oh ffs..stop analyzing shit so much!"

Did I make the two minute mark?
No. Unfortunately you missed the gay guy part where he says, " oh I loved that part too!"

And then we are off and running..the acting, the music, the script..omg, and then the big laugh and hug we have before we move on to Degas exhibit at the Met.
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to be fair here there are certain times when guys like to here women moan all the time ??
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