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Old 01-31-2012, 08:33 PM   #1
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Old 01-31-2012, 08:39 PM   #2
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Old 01-31-2012, 08:53 PM   #3
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I've just asked... no reason to beat around the bush...

I really think you are a special guy.. I'd love to get to know you better... are you married? this might be why I scare men.. is this too forward?

however in a married relationship it can be different.. how about.. I'd love to get to know you better.. You seem really great. and then let it go from there.. if you become friendly with them you will find out if they are available or not within the first few chats...
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I'm not sure any of us know the answer to this.. and I imagine we've all been running the idea around in our heads off and on since around 14 years of age...

It's not just married people.. It's always hard to guess who might be attracted to us or open to something.

you usually just have to take a leap of faith.

As a married person, your leaps just have to be a little more careful.. especially if you're leaping close to home.
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Old 01-31-2012, 09:04 PM   #6
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And then there is the indirect approach.......
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Old 01-31-2012, 09:07 PM   #7
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And then there is the indirect approach.......
Yeah...indirect is showing my ass
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Wow, a tough and serious question. Of course each situation will be unique. In general it helps if each of you has been married awhile. Being good friends helps, but then there's the added pressure of fear of screwing up a friendship. Seriously ladies, do you think a true friend is going to be upset to find out your sexually attracted to him? But friends or not, be a grownup, dont pout or turn hateful if your rejected (or worse-become persistant). I have friends who are wild about a girl and I just dont see it, and other girls that aren't the belle of the ball but Something about them stimulates me. So it really is true, it's not you-its them! Most important of all, way most important of all...at least TRY. We've got one shot at life, every opportunity for happiness (and pleasure) that we let slip by is gone forever. And if you need practice...I'M AVAILABLE!
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Old 01-31-2012, 09:41 PM   #9
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I've made direct statements of interest......with no success

I've played post stalking....still didn't work

I've shown friendly interest.....no goal but makes me feel better

So it doesn't matter. If it's meant to happen it will otherwise you are just SOL.
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When you see the little green light on
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I think most will assume you are talking here at M&F ... which I think is a bit easier .. after you get to know them its really up to them to let you know they are "taken" and your relationship will be on the friend type level ... kiss of death but one you should respect.

In R/L ... those are some treacherous waters to navigate ... especially if you have friends whom know the individual .. one wrong move, bad comment and you are strutin around with the Scarlett letter on your forehead labeled as "Pervy-guy" .... good luck either way ...
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Do you mean the one below the red light at some of the major intersections ?
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Do you mean the one below the red light at some of the major intersections ?
No the green light on your forehead!
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and you are strutin around with the Scarlett letter on your forehead ...
The letter goes on your forehead??? I thought it went on your chest...kinda like superman...
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When I mention I am used but in good condition.
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When I mention I am used but in good condition.
Quit being modest, you're in great condition......just look at those heels
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How can I tell what's in that blue bottle behind ya
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How can I tell what's in that blue bottle behind ya
Seriously, what is it? You were focusing on his dong and you saw the blue bottle huh?
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Seriously, what is it? You were focusing on his dong and you saw the blue bottle huh?

u must think I'm some kinda perv er' sumfin....
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Still confused... Who is really available? And this information will help how ?
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Old 01-31-2012, 11:46 PM   #23
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I'll actually pay attention to you and give you more than one word answers...on here or in real life
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I agree with Littlemiss. But sometimes it's hard to tell in a thread.. I've asked someone sorta & been asked.. I guess in all subtle ways... But sometimes people out here "like"/"interact" with multiple people at once.. How? Beats me! I can't... So hence confused & being flirty & friendly and that's it... For now..
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I usually hang a neon sign out that says "available", thought it was better than "open for business"
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