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Old 10-06-2008, 09:35 PM   #1
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I am a happily married 24yr old man who is currently 1600 miles from my wife as I have recently moved to the Tempe Arizona area and she will be coming after the holidays.

She has a girlfriend back home and they take care of their needs, my wife suggested I look for something that was "just sex" or a fwb type of thing and I'm fairly inexperienced at the game as she has been the only person I've been with so I am kind of looking for advice on what to do and any possible locals to hook up with and give it a shot, I'm a bit nervous but I love to please and am quite selfless in bed.
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Old 10-06-2008, 10:21 PM   #2
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ummm wow ... welcome to the site and good luck finding what your looking for!
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I am a happily married 24yr old man who is currently 1600 miles from my wife as I have recently moved to the Tempe Arizona area and she will be coming after the holidays.

She has a girlfriend back home and they take care of their needs, my wife suggested I look for something that was "just sex" or a fwb type of thing and I'm fairly inexperienced at the game as she has been the only person I've been with so I am kind of looking for advice on what to do and any possible locals to hook up with and give it a shot, I'm a bit nervous but I love to please and am quite selfless in bed.
welcome aboard...
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Old 10-06-2008, 11:24 PM   #6
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Ohhhhh ur gonna like it here.... I'm guessing you will have fun searching for your fwb.

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Old 10-06-2008, 11:29 PM   #7
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Welcome to the site, Mike, enjoy and good luck
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Your wife is quite the generous one....welcome aboard!
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Old 10-06-2008, 11:32 PM   #9
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I am a happily married 24yr old man who is currently 1600 miles from my wife as I have recently moved to the Tempe Arizona area and she will be coming after the holidays.

She has a girlfriend back home and they take care of their needs, my wife suggested I look for something that was "just sex" or a fwb type of thing and I'm fairly inexperienced at the game as she has been the only person I've been with so I am kind of looking for advice on what to do and any possible locals to hook up with and give it a shot, I'm a bit nervous but I love to please and am quite selfless in bed.

um........you're wife sounds REALLY cool.
Did you just make that up to get lucky?
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Old 10-07-2008, 01:58 PM   #10
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I am a happily married 24yr old man who is currently 1600 miles from my wife as I have recently moved to the Tempe Arizona area and she will be coming after the holidays.

She has a girlfriend back home and they take care of their needs, my wife suggested I look for something that was "just sex" or a fwb type of thing and I'm fairly inexperienced at the game as she has been the only person I've been with so I am kind of looking for advice on what to do and any possible locals to hook up with and give it a shot, I'm a bit nervous but I love to please and am quite selfless in bed.
Hi Mike, welcome to the site. It sounds like you are just jumping in, are you sure you even want to do this and do you understand what you may be getting into? Did you know that your wife had a "friend" or is this something she just dropped on you...did you talk about it? I would advise you to think carefully and read some of the treads on FWB, FB and see what other couples have to say about the experience...it can be good and then it could cause some real damage to your marriage...best of luck
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Old 10-07-2008, 02:30 PM   #11
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Since you are now in Tempe, Arizona, go visit Arizona State and hook up with a hot sorority chick. They are cheap dates, usually like to go out and party, and are pretty easy at the end of the night. Just don't make her do the walk of shame in the morning...that is just bad form.
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Old 10-07-2008, 02:31 PM   #12
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Since you are now in Tempe, Arizona, go visit Arizona State and hook up with a hot sorority chick. They are cheap dates, usually like to go out and party, and are pretty easy at the end of the night. Just don't make her do the walk of shame in the morning...that is just bad form.
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Old 10-07-2008, 02:39 PM   #13
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welcome Mike. Make sure you know what you want, but i'm sure eitherway you'll enjoy this place!
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Hey! A warm welcome hug for you. Lucky you, your wife sounds like she is...supportive! I hope you find what you are looking for. As far as advice, one, make sure you make your self clear with the ground rules (like...just sex and no strings attatched...no intereference with home life...no trouble-just fun). Two, if you can't be good, at least be careful! Three, have fun-that's what it's all about. Good luck! xoxoxo
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Old 10-07-2008, 08:40 PM   #15
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okay thanks for all the warm welcomes and advice.

I'm 99.9% sure this is something I would like to do, and yes wife is very "supportive", I've always been rather shy and she asked me out in high school then asked me to marry her lmao. So my initiative is the main thing holding me back. I'm not very good at starting anything let alone something casual like this, "Hey my wife says i need to get laid, can we go to your place?"

Oh and I'd never dream of being unsafe, stupidity and adventure don't necessarily have to go hand in hand.
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Old 10-07-2008, 08:43 PM   #16
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addenum: I really don't even know where to begin because going out has never been my strong point and most of the Adult Friend Finder or craigslist things are just bot services lmao. Perhaps someone knows of a good chat room for such a crazy idea, but it seems like that too would get swarmed with spam and such.
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I am a happily married 24yr old man who is currently 1600 miles from my wife as I have recently moved to the Tempe Arizona area and she will be coming after the holidays.

She has a girlfriend back home and they take care of their needs, my wife suggested I look for something that was "just sex" or a fwb type of thing and I'm fairly inexperienced at the game as she has been the only person I've been with so I am kind of looking for advice on what to do and any possible locals to hook up with and give it a shot, I'm a bit nervous but I love to please and am quite selfless in bed.
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Welcome and Enjoy!
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so to update, had my first little escapade and think I found a nice FWB.

Actually found her on Craiglist's casual encounters, the only human response I got. We chatted for several hours online, met up at a public place and shared some drinks and I explained exactly what my situation was and found out about her history befoe we did anything.

Was defitnaly any interesting encounter. Kind of a weird feeling when you've only been with your spouse...ever lol, I was reileved that she was equally nervous about the whole thing, if she'd been extremly comfortable that'd been a big red flag.

On a side note, first time I've ever had to use protection lmao, kind of a buzzkill but I got what I wanted out of it anyway which was to make a woman squirm, odd that I'm like that but I honestly have more fun pleasing than being pleased. From what I hear its a rarity in the male sex.
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Cool, 37 hours to score and no money changed hands. You Da Man!
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can i ask a really really dumb question? what the heck is NSA? *hiding head in shame of naivety*
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it's only 3 .. i don't do 3's
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