How do you mend a broken heart? - Page 47

flirtingenie · 06-21-2018, 05:43 PM

Years years and years to go by .

Cristal · 06-21-2018, 06:15 PM

Don't open yourself to fall ever again

David · 06-21-2018, 06:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Cristal

Don't open yourself to fall ever again

oh, no... say it ain't so?

In sports, if someone scores on you and you're losing, you don't take yourself out of the game...

Arcon · 06-21-2018, 06:21 PM

Cristal · 06-21-2018, 06:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by David618816

oh, no... say it ain't so?

In sports, if someone scores on you and you're losing, you don't take yourself out of the game...

I'm out of the game turned in all equipment .

Arcon · 06-21-2018, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Cristal

I'm out of the game turned in all equipment .

I call technical foul

flirtingenie · 06-21-2018, 06:37 PM

Only time and good friends will heal a broken heart.

Bikerjoe · 06-24-2018, 09:01 AM

I think its like the death of a loved one. You move on but are permenantly changed. But you cant let it hold you down. I dont think it is something that you ever truely get over. IMO

Bikerjoe · 06-30-2018, 08:42 AM

I hpnestly dont know if it is entirely possible. The pain gets lesser with time, but i dont know if youre ever thebsame afterwards. Whether you lost a much loved SO or the loss of a parent or child.... i think the pain is similar. But you ahoukd take comfort in that..... this way you feel is not your new normal. It will just take some time. Hope you feel better soon. <3

Amonte · 07-01-2018, 04:21 PM

you don't, guys are just assholes

Masada · 07-01-2018, 04:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by flirtingenie

Only time and good friends will heal a broken heart.

This.

Just A Girl · 07-01-2018, 04:48 PM

You never really do. I think you're heart is forever changed. The intensity of feelings diminish over time but it's never really the same. Battle scars.
And Hole blasting for a few weeks helps

SpecialK · 07-01-2018, 04:51 PM

Duct tape seems to work on a temporary basis..

RisingSun · 07-01-2018, 04:53 PM

Conceal, carry?

gabrielle22 · 07-01-2018, 04:53 PM

It's not a problem if you don't have one

madmax · 07-01-2018, 05:37 PM

Duct tape?

Just A Girl · 07-12-2018, 09:27 AM

Hole blasted through earbuds.

David · 07-12-2018, 11:00 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just A Girl

You never really do. I think you're heart is forever changed. The intensity of feelings diminish over time but it's never really the same. Battle scars.
And Hole blasting for a few weeks helps

Each heartbreaks leaves a scar. Too many scars and it's harder for people to find a soft spot...

Just A Girl · 07-12-2018, 12:11 PM

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Originally Posted by David618816

Each heartbreaks leaves a scar. Too many scars and it's harder for people to find a soft spot...

I have pretty sharp edges.

This is my honest question and perhaps it belongs in another thread. I'm not unhappily married. My husband annoys me like any typical married couple but he's overall good to me. We have a better than it's ever been before sex life. That being said, why on earth would I ever allow another person, that I'm not leaving my husband for, that close? I understand the risk versus reward logic. I understand chasing the feeling of butterflies. I understand wanting to have a special someone to visit fantasy land with.
I don't think the risk of being lied to, used, toyed with and otherwise manipulated is worth any reward. I have met and had feelings for exactly one man that didn't lie, use or toy with me in this online venue. You know why? Because he was always honest about the love for his wife. He never told me frilly things to make me all twitterpated. We were both firmly planted in reality.
Perhaps I'm really bitter at the moment. In my defense hearing other women recite verbatim the things that some douche bag professing undying love and devotion said to me is soul crushing.
So where is the reward in being soft? I don't think there is one for me.

David · 07-12-2018, 12:18 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Just A Girl

I have pretty sharp edges.

This is my honest question and perhaps it belongs in another thread. I'm not unhappily married. My husband annoys me like any typical married couple but he's overall good to me. We have a better than it's ever been before sex life. That being said, why on earth would I ever allow another person, that I'm not leaving my husband for, that close? I understand the risk versus reward logic. I understand chasing the feeling of butterflies. I understand wanting to have a special someone to visit fantasy land with.
I don't think the risk of being lied to, used, toyed with and otherwise manipulated is worth any reward. I have met and had feelings for exactly one man that didn't lie, use or toy with me in this online venue. You know why? Because he was always honest about the love for his wife. He never told me frilly things to make me all twitterpated. We were both firmly planted in reality.
Perhaps I'm really bitter at the moment. In my defense hearing other women recite verbatim the things that some douche bag professing undying love and devotion said to me is soul crushing.
So where is the reward in being soft? I don't think there is one for me.

wow... um, that's a lot to digest. I always try to be honest but, I try not to get too close. I also have a great relationship with my wife and I am very open about that with anyone who I get close to. Still, I do get close and I do share things and I do love the fantasy. Maybe, when I am able to PM, we should chat more...

Just A Girl · 07-12-2018, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by David618816

wow... um, that's a lot to digest. I always try to be honest but, I try not to get too close. I also have a great relationship with my wife and I am very open about that with anyone who I get close to. Still, I do get close and I do share things and I do love the fantasy. Maybe, when I am able to PM, we should chat more...

Sorry. I think you had poor timing and I was #triggered.

SpecialK · 07-12-2018, 03:46 PM

mend a broken heart?? ...why would you need to... as long as it's still pumping blood..

hotgary · 07-12-2018, 03:51 PM

Duct Tape, mends every thing.

leggy · 07-12-2018, 03:58 PM

first you've got to have a heart to get it broken I am thinking...

Apparition · 07-12-2018, 04:01 PM

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06-21-2018, 05:43 PM	#1151
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Just A Girl The Notorious J.A.G. Join Date: Oct 2010 Age: 45 Posts: 63,258 Thanks: 32,705 Thanked 36,251 Times in 22,463 Posts Blog Entries: 22	You never really do. I think you're heart is forever changed. The intensity of feelings diminish over time but it's never really the same. Battle scars. And Hole blasting for a few weeks helps __________________ *I'm mostly peace, love and light & a little go fuck yourself...*

06-24-2018, 09:01 AM	#1158
Bikerjoe Super Flirt Join Date: Jun 2018 Location: Alabama Age: 40 Posts: 192 Thanks: 14 Thanked 10 Times in 7 Posts	I think its like the death of a loved one. You move on but are permenantly changed. But you cant let it hold you down. I dont think it is something that you ever truely get over. IMO

06-30-2018, 08:42 AM	#1159
Bikerjoe Super Flirt Join Date: Jun 2018 Location: Alabama Age: 40 Posts: 192 Thanks: 14 Thanked 10 Times in 7 Posts	I hpnestly dont know if it is entirely possible. The pain gets lesser with time, but i dont know if youre ever thebsame afterwards. Whether you lost a much loved SO or the loss of a parent or child.... i think the pain is similar. But you ahoukd take comfort in that..... this way you feel is not your new normal. It will just take some time. Hope you feel better soon. <3

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07-01-2018, 04:51 PM	#1163
SpecialK not feeling it anymore... Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Currently Panhandling Age: 52 Posts: 20,339 Thanks: 8,513 Thanked 7,346 Times in 5,745 Posts Blog Entries: 5	Duct tape seems to work on a temporary basis.. __________________ Why do they play this music on elevators if we're not supposed to slow dance?

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Just A Girl The Notorious J.A.G. Join Date: Oct 2010 Age: 45 Posts: 63,258 Thanks: 32,705 Thanked 36,251 Times in 22,463 Posts Blog Entries: 22	Hole blasted through earbuds. __________________ *I'm mostly peace, love and light & a little go fuck yourself...*

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SpecialK not feeling it anymore... Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: Currently Panhandling Age: 52 Posts: 20,339 Thanks: 8,513 Thanked 7,346 Times in 5,745 Posts Blog Entries: 5	mend a broken heart?? ...why would you need to... as long as it's still pumping blood.. __________________ Why do they play this music on elevators if we're not supposed to slow dance?

07-12-2018, 03:51 PM	#1173
hotgary Flirting God Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Boston, MA Age: 59 Posts: 3,061 Thanks: 240 Thanked 501 Times in 426 Posts	Duct Tape, mends every thing. __________________ I was scared the first time I had sex... ...It was dark and I was all alone.

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