Do You Wonder If Someone Misses You??

msu · 01-13-2013, 11:29 AM

A twist on the "Do You Miss Someone" thread.....can be someone from here or elsewhere on the road of life....

I definitely have one that I wonder about; was once by closest, best friend who shared secrets with me that she would share w/no one else....

Then POOF. And this was IRL, not online.....been five years now. I wonder....

sexilicious · 01-13-2013, 11:32 AM

Yes I do. Not a romantic relationship but a friendship that ended and to this day I'm still baffled by it. I do wonder if they miss us and if their friendship was genuine.

ByronBay · 01-13-2013, 11:45 AM

I was stalked by him for a while so I guess he did miss me in a very odd way! I still see him in passing nearly every day. I keep completely poker faced but am acutely aware of exactly where he is! We didn't have an affair but there was a strong connection. I hope he doesn't think of me now. It's not really a great memory here.

Just A Girl · 01-13-2013, 11:49 AM

I do but I'm also fairly confident I would be disappointed in the answer.

Kyhoncho. · 01-13-2013, 12:02 PM

Chances are, if somebody does, it's the least one you would expect!

scoobertina · 01-13-2013, 12:27 PM

yes, I often wonder... there are few I feel a strong connection with... and when they feel it's best to not talk to me.. even when i miss them desperately... I try to give them their space... but I do really wonder if they ever think of me.. if they miss me at all.. if I meant anything at all to them.. was I just a ship that passed in the night?

Kyhoncho. · 01-13-2013, 12:29 PM

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Originally Posted by scoobertina

yes, I often wonder... there are few I feel a strong connection with... and when they feel it's best to not talk to me.. even when i miss them desperately... I try to give them their space... but I do really wonder if they ever think of me.. if they miss me at all.. if I meant anything at all to them.. was I just a ship that passed in the night?

Well maybe but!! a ship with beautiful tits!

joemerchant · 01-13-2013, 12:48 PM

nope

got my answer this morning

Just A Girl · 01-13-2013, 12:54 PM

I re-thought this while I was off getting coffee...I think that it's always our instinct to wonder but the bottom line is that if said person knows how to contact you and they don't, it's safe to say that you have your answer.

JJ_HappyFace · 01-13-2013, 12:55 PM

Yes I have a few people like that.

daisyduck · 01-13-2013, 02:13 PM

I have no clue but I hope so

moon&stars · 01-13-2013, 02:16 PM

Sometimes though seems pretty clear the answer is no.

Shawn · 01-13-2013, 02:27 PM

My ego just assumes you all miss me until I log on.

Bailey~* · 01-13-2013, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by Just A Girl

I re-thought this while I was off getting coffee...I think that it's always our instinct to wonder but the bottom line is that if said person knows how to contact you and they don't, it's safe to say that you have your answer.

I don't think that's necessarily true.. Life is long and tough with complex paths.. Sometimes people collide.. but there are good and valid reasons life took you apart.. both friends, and lovers.. It doesn't mean you don't cross their mind.

DomesticDiva · 01-13-2013, 06:46 PM

I wonder all the time

bradlydavis · 01-13-2013, 06:47 PM

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Originally Posted by DomesticDiva

I wonder all the time

well, some do

sammee · 01-22-2013, 07:58 AM

Hmmm i wonder .... maybe yes possibly no

3pmac · 01-22-2013, 08:29 AM

jake4play · 01-22-2013, 09:00 AM

No, I don't have time to worry about people from the past. I've had people pull the same thing.

Chrysalis. · 01-22-2013, 09:07 AM

No. People come and they go.

Caddidlehopper · 01-22-2013, 09:47 AM

I think of people from my past
Do I wonder if they even think of me
Probably not
We have all moved on we can remember them fondly
But that's about it
Life moves on

Dahlia · 01-22-2013, 11:40 AM

I have really learned it is a waste of energy wondering...cause those that do miss you...will always let you know..

countryliving · 01-22-2013, 11:57 AM

In the real world No, because there were not that many and I was never in love with them like I am with my hub believe it or not lol!So I could care less.

Cheekee71 · 01-22-2013, 12:02 PM

Yes, it makes me wonder all the time, if he thinks of me as much as I do and as much as he says he does.

Sensual Woman · 01-25-2013, 03:52 PM

I may wonder, but I know that the answer is no.

01-13-2013, 11:29 AM	#1
msu recalculating..... Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Mid-Atlantic Age: 51 Posts: 23,554 Thanks: 9,644 Thanked 6,499 Times in 5,456 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Do You Wonder If Someone Misses You?? A twist on the "Do You Miss Someone" thread.....can be someone from here or elsewhere on the road of life.... I definitely have one that I wonder about; was once by closest, best friend who shared secrets with me that she would share w/no one else.... Then POOF. And this was IRL, not online.....been five years now. I wonder.... __________________

01-13-2013, 11:45 AM	#3
ByronBay Perpetually Sporadic Join Date: Nov 2010 Location: back to life, back to reality Age: 50 Posts: 3,374 Thanks: 2,712 Thanked 2,214 Times in 1,042 Posts Blog Entries: 3	I was stalked by him for a while so I guess he did miss me in a very odd way! I still see him in passing nearly every day. I keep completely poker faced but am acutely aware of exactly where he is! We didn't have an affair but there was a strong connection. I hope he doesn't think of me now. It's not really a great memory here. Last edited by ByronBay; 01-13-2013 at 11:47 AM.

01-13-2013, 11:49 AM	#4
Just A Girl The Notorious J.A.G. Join Date: Oct 2010 Age: 45 Posts: 63,251 Thanks: 32,702 Thanked 36,249 Times in 22,461 Posts Blog Entries: 22	I do but I'm also fairly confident I would be disappointed in the answer. __________________ *I'm mostly peace, love and light & a little go fuck yourself...*

01-13-2013, 12:27 PM	#6
scoobertina scoobalicious Join Date: Apr 2007 Age: 53 Posts: 77,516 Thanks: 21,174 Thanked 18,158 Times in 12,293 Posts Blog Entries: 87	yes, I often wonder... there are few I feel a strong connection with... and when they feel it's best to not talk to me.. even when i miss them desperately... I try to give them their space... but I do really wonder if they ever think of me.. if they miss me at all.. if I meant anything at all to them.. was I just a ship that passed in the night? __________________

01-13-2013, 12:48 PM	#8
joemerchant Flirting God Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: northeast Age: 68 Posts: 10,877 Thanks: 3,484 Thanked 1,680 Times in 1,500 Posts	nope got my answer this morning __________________ my first love was a wicked twisted road i hit the million mark at seventeen years old never saw the rainbow much less the pot of gold

01-13-2013, 11:32 AM	#2
sexilicious Flirting God Join Date: Jun 2012 Age: 39 Posts: 6,561 Thanks: 3,108 Thanked 2,416 Times in 1,709 Posts	Yes I do. Not a romantic relationship but a friendship that ended and to this day I'm still baffled by it. I do wonder if they miss us and if their friendship was genuine.

01-13-2013, 12:02 PM	#5
Kyhoncho. Gone!!!! I Love It Here Join Date: Sep 2011 Age: 58 Posts: 18,725 Thanks: 5,411 Thanked 4,332 Times in 3,965 Posts	Chances are, if somebody does, it's the least one you would expect!

01-13-2013, 12:54 PM	#9
Just A Girl The Notorious J.A.G. Join Date: Oct 2010 Age: 45 Posts: 63,251 Thanks: 32,702 Thanked 36,249 Times in 22,461 Posts Blog Entries: 22	I re-thought this while I was off getting coffee...I think that it's always our instinct to wonder but the bottom line is that if said person knows how to contact you and they don't, it's safe to say that you have your answer. __________________ *I'm mostly peace, love and light & a little go fuck yourself...*

01-13-2013, 12:55 PM	#10
JJ_HappyFace Post Whore Join Date: Dec 2012 Location: Arizona Age: 34 Posts: 943 Thanks: 24 Thanked 90 Times in 75 Posts	Yes I have a few people like that.

01-13-2013, 02:13 PM	#11
daisyduck *Beautiful disaster * Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: Down south Age: 37 Posts: 30,100 Thanks: 6,667 Thanked 6,134 Times in 4,887 Posts Blog Entries: 1	I have no clue but I hope so __________________

01-13-2013, 02:16 PM	#12
moon&stars Flirting God Join Date: Nov 2011 Age: 52 Posts: 3,443 Thanks: 1,659 Thanked 773 Times in 647 Posts	Sometimes though seems pretty clear the answer is no.

01-13-2013, 02:27 PM	#13
Shawn Forum Surfer Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: Greatest place on earth Age: 47 Posts: 25,043 Thanks: 7,605 Thanked 17,608 Times in 9,224 Posts Blog Entries: 58	My ego just assumes you all miss me until I log on. __________________ My Life is just a bunch of "It seemed like a good idea at the time" strung together.

01-13-2013, 06:46 PM	#15
DomesticDiva ~Concentrated Awesome~ Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: "In That WalMart Parkin' Lot" Age: 42 Posts: 66,252 Thanks: 28,943 Thanked 17,141 Times in 11,409 Posts Blog Entries: 30	I wonder all the time __________________ ~If you smash into something good, you should hold on until it's time to let go.~

01-22-2013, 07:58 AM	#17
sammee Experimenting with Life Join Date: Aug 2012 Age: 45 Posts: 8,493 Thanks: 986 Thanked 606 Times in 545 Posts	Hmmm i wonder .... maybe yes possibly no __________________ From the first time I saw you I knew I was going to have real and/or imaginary sex with you.

01-22-2013, 08:29 AM	#18
3pmac ~~Breaking a Habit~~ Join Date: Jul 2009 Age: 50 Posts: 17,470 Thanks: 4,048 Thanked 5,417 Times in 3,776 Posts	nope __________________

01-22-2013, 09:00 AM	#19
jake4play Flirting God Join Date: Nov 2011 Location: All over Age: 44 Posts: 2,510 Thanks: 232 Thanked 371 Times in 317 Posts	No, I don't have time to worry about people from the past. I've had people pull the same thing.

01-22-2013, 09:07 AM	#20
Chrysalis. Flirting Guest I Love It Here Join Date: Jan 2009 Age: 52 Posts: 31,575 Thanks: 5,260 Thanked 8,909 Times in 6,216 Posts Blog Entries: 10	No. People come and they go.

01-22-2013, 09:47 AM	#21
Caddidlehopper Bringing confusion to all Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Calgary Age: 60 Posts: 17,460 Thanks: 1,990 Thanked 4,070 Times in 3,532 Posts	I think of people from my past Do I wonder if they even think of me Probably not We have all moved on we can remember them fondly But that's about it Life moves on __________________ Gee willickers

01-22-2013, 11:40 AM	#22
Dahlia Je ne sais quoi Join Date: Mar 2011 Location: Wonderland Age: 49 Posts: 9,980 Thanks: 1,914 Thanked 3,114 Times in 2,497 Posts Blog Entries: 3	I have really learned it is a waste of energy wondering...cause those that do miss you...will always let you know..

01-22-2013, 11:57 AM	#23
countryliving Flirting Guest I Love It Here Join Date: Jun 2011 Age: 43 Posts: 2,209 Thanks: 1,090 Thanked 569 Times in 426 Posts	In the real world No, because there were not that many and I was never in love with them like I am with my hub believe it or not lol!So I could care less.

01-22-2013, 12:02 PM	#24
Cheekee71 Pinky Princess Join Date: Aug 2010 Location: pinky land Age: 47 Posts: 4,466 Thanks: 366 Thanked 914 Times in 661 Posts	Yes, it makes me wonder all the time, if he thinks of me as much as I do and as much as he says he does. __________________

01-25-2013, 03:52 PM	#25
Sensual Woman Dog Lover Join Date: Sep 2007 Age: 56 Posts: 18,579 Thanks: 10,476 Thanked 5,336 Times in 3,711 Posts	I may wonder, but I know that the answer is no.