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Old 09-17-2012, 12:01 PM   #1
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If and when you argue with your significant other...how do you do it? Are you a yeller? Do you give the silent treatment? Are you calm and want to talk things out??

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Old 09-17-2012, 12:06 PM   #2
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i shut him in a cage until he clams down then we go for a walk and talk things through , but never go to bed angry.
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:08 PM   #3
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HOW TO ARGUE
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1. Say or do something inflammatory.
2. When held accountable for it, lie.
3. The opponent begins to yell.
4. Yell back.
5. The opponent begins to bring in thousands of other unrelated issues that she has
been waiting to chew your ass out about, anyway.
6. Accuse your opponent of either being fat, crazy, or just like her mother.
7. Dodge any items which will inevitibly fly at your head.
8. Let her go when she runs out crying.
9. Carefully step around broken glass and pottery shards as you exit the ring.
10. Un-mute the TV, and resume life.
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:11 PM   #4
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I typically withdraw myself until I'm over any initial emotions and then talk things through. I do that to protect him from me .. I tend to say things I shouldn't when I try to talk when I'm upset.
In all honesty we talk things through very easily of we time it right. I can count on one hand the number of times we've ever not been calm during a disagreement.
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:13 PM   #5
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I am currently ignoring my hubby. I need to calm down and collect my thoughts so I don't explode all over him....not the good kind of exploding either
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:18 PM   #6
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I used to say every thought I ever had. That resulted in a whole lot of venom and not a lot of productive conversation. Now I try desperately to take the emotion out before I address it. Nine times out of ten, I don't even address it unless it's a really big deal. Why bother? It doesn't fix anything, not in the long term anyway.
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:21 PM   #7
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I don't like to argue, so I tend to keep things to myself till I explode. Then I get ugly... everything that I have held in since the last fight comes flying out of my mouth. Bad, Bad Violet!
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:22 PM   #8
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generally silent treatment but you need a good yelling match to clear the air sometimes
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:27 PM   #9
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... We honestly follow any tension by a good anger fuck. It typically makes everyone feel better. Always argue naked is a rule at our house.
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Like all things no matter the issue we seem to end up arguing about the way we argue...
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:33 PM   #11
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It really just depends on how right I am
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:34 PM   #12
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Old 09-17-2012, 12:36 PM   #13
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I generally cuff him to my bench, dump my anger out on him, redden his ass for being such a dick, then let him stew for a bit until he apologizes. This is followed by a few word such as, "thank you for correcting me, my Mistress". I release him and he kisses my feet. Arguement over!
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I generally cuff him to my bench, dump my anger out on him, redden his ass for being such a dick, then let him stew for a bit until he apologizes. This is followed by a few word such as, "thank you for correcting me, my Mistress". I release him and he kisses my feet. Arguement over!
thank you, may I have another
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thank you, may I have another
Can you stop by tonight for an arguement?
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Can you stop by tonight for an arguement?
my ass still has not recovered from the last one, on my way
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We never argue...she is always right.....
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my ass still has not recovered from the last one, on my way

you used to say romatic things like that to me...
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my ass still has not recovered from the last one, on my way
Stop and pick up LC on your way! He likes to watch.
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Stop and pick up LC on your way! He likes to watch.
You know we are a packaged deal.
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Tonight is my turn, he had you last night.
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I generally cuff him to my bench, dump my anger out on him, redden his ass for being such a dick, then let him stew for a bit until he apologizes. This is followed by a few word such as, "thank you for correcting me, my Mistress". I release him and he kisses my feet. Arguement over!
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He doesnt argue at all and I am not one of those people who cant talk when i am upset , He will tell you the only time is ever concerned about anything is when I go silent ... Then he just leaves me be ... one secret though is if one of us walks away we let that one go no sense if making the situation worst than it has to be.
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My husband will not argue with me, he shuts down completely. We have been married 8 years and Never had an actual fight. So when I get pissed I just tell him why I am mad and he ignores me. It makes for a great relationship, lol
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