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Old 09-17-2012, 01:05 PM   #26
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oh sweetheart you live in a world full of rainbows and unicorns. wake up!!!!!!!
ummm ok. You really know little about me.
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Old 09-17-2012, 01:15 PM   #27
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I don't like to argue and he doesn't like to let things be. We're not very good at communicating with each other.
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Old 09-17-2012, 01:17 PM   #28
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We talk it out right away or if one has to cool off then we re-visit it once the person has cooled off.
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Old 09-17-2012, 01:38 PM   #29
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She yells I listen she yells more I listen less she yells more I tone her out

Then tell her she's right I'm wrong
I'm always wrong
Then she yells more
Just goes that way till she winds down
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Old 09-17-2012, 01:52 PM   #30
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My husband will not argue with me, he shuts down completely. We have been married 8 years and Never had an actual fight. So when I get pissed I just tell him why I am mad and he ignores me. It makes for a great relationship, lol
Don't you just love being ignored? It just makes all that anger disappear right?? lol

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Old 09-17-2012, 01:55 PM   #31
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I argue to same way at home as I do I work. I keep calm, control my breathing and facial expressions, and talk in a very even, almost monotone, tone of voice. It's very unnerving to my wife when she says stuff just to get a specific reaction out of me and I don't react. It takes her off her game.
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Old 09-17-2012, 01:58 PM   #32
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it depends with the disagreements about.. I use to just fly off the handle and say what was on my mind at that very moment.. now however I have learned to cool down, gather my thoughts and go into the disagreement logically.. and always admit first and foremost if I was wrong and what I was wrong about, that tends to diffus the other persons anger almost immediately..
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Old 09-17-2012, 03:11 PM   #33
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I was never much of an arguer. I have usually been pretty good at keeping the emotions below the surface during heated moments like that.

My wife resented that I could keep control and she couldn't. Lately, however, I've become more "expressive" and she's not digging it so much. Funny, huh?

Careful what you wish for...
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Old 09-17-2012, 04:45 PM   #34
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... We honestly follow any tension by a good anger fuck. It typically makes everyone feel better. Always argue naked is a rule at our house.
I might get slap for this buttttt . If you like hard fucking how many tables and chairs get broken and anger fucking must be wild .!!!!
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Old 09-17-2012, 04:50 PM   #35
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I try to stay calm and remove myself when it gets too heated. Unfortunately I inherited my father's Scottish temper and my mother's extensive vocabulary....so it isn't a good thing if I get really angry
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Old 09-17-2012, 05:09 PM   #36
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I nod, roll my eyes and say uhu a lot and yeah yeah ok
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Old 09-17-2012, 05:11 PM   #37
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Old 09-17-2012, 05:17 PM   #38
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I say what I need to say then that's the end of it.
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Old 09-17-2012, 06:38 PM   #39
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Rarely do we argue but we talk in a sane and rational manner with no yelling. It's more like a debate. Nobody ever wins.
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Old 01-03-2013, 05:08 AM   #40
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We havent argued for mths and mths now ... We get annoyed with each other but there is no arguing ..If we do argue then there is a fair bit of yellin . Followed by the silent treatment from me .
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Old 02-24-2013, 08:38 PM   #41
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I absolutely hate the silent treatment it drives me nuts. I much prefer to get it out and get it over with it.
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Old 02-24-2013, 08:41 PM   #42
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Old 02-24-2013, 08:42 PM   #43
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Not well apperantly since I always seem to lose.
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Old 02-24-2013, 08:45 PM   #44
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I don't argue..I just calmly explain how very wrong you are. With big words. And powerpoint.
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I don't argue..I just calmly explain how very wrong you are. With big words. And powerpoint.
Powerpoint? Is that one of those laser things??
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It's my nipple...the left one.
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Of course I do. Now run along with your dainty fingers.
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I admit I am childish.

I typically go silent for as long as I can which admittedly isn't very long (an hour is probably my record and that might have included an intervening phone call). There are some tears on my part. I get very emotional.

But, then when I rally my intellect again, I begin to use my lawyering skills (that $150k law degree is worth SOMETHING I'm happy to say) until I irritate them into submission or at least into skulking away which I take as a measure of their defeat.

Note however, this technique is much better when used in relationships that have been in existence for long periods of time and not best tested in new waters. They have been known to entirely capsize new relationships (see my newest relationship for example)
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I listen, she rants, I analyze, she gets more pissed off!
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