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Old 04-23-2010, 12:18 PM   #1
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It's not that I don't like being the nice guy, but just once I'd like to play that bad guy role.

I'd like to stop being the poor sucker who everyone likes, but one would consider to hook up with.

I just hate finishing last....
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Old 04-23-2010, 12:30 PM   #2
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I don't really think it is a good guy versus bad guy thing, although the scenario can apply in certain circumstances.

I think it is confidence you are searching. There is a fine line between egotistical and confidence; however there is a huge gap between confident and lack of confidence. I've read your posts for years, and find you to be an incredibly nice guy that avoids hurting anyone at all costs. It's time for you to realize that is a plus, and that plus can provide you with some swagger. Hold your head up, pump your chest out, and make sure that every woman knows that you want what you want, but you won't jeopardize your morals to get it. If she isn't interested...her loss...move onto the next.

Don't ever go for the bad boy role...the enjoyment is short lived and the payback is hell.
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Old 04-23-2010, 12:37 PM   #3
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What you need is a mutanator ray that will change all women into wanting nice guys for once. Or we can just erase all the bad boys somehow. Then the women would have no choice but to go for the nice ones.
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I like the nice guys...its the bad boys I attract...lol nawwwww

I tired to get you to cybah me Lear but you said no...friendship or sum such crap as that!!!
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Old 04-23-2010, 12:49 PM   #5
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I tired to get you to cybah me Lear but you said no...friendship or sum such crap as that!!!
The nice guy is what got you to ask him to cyber, but if he did then you'd know he's not a nice guy. So keep up the act and to attract more women, he's got to remain the nice guy. The problem is it will never pay off...Can I move over to the bad boy camp? I'm ready to cyber with someone other than myself now...
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Awww. I think most of the girls want a nice guy.The bad boys are exhausting. Just be yourself.
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I tired to get you to cybah me Lear but you said no...friendship or sum such crap as that!!!
Sorry, but my crotch was on fire?
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The nice guy is what got you to ask him to cyber, but if he did then you'd know he's not a nice guy. So keep up the act and to attract more women, he's got to remain the nice guy. The problem is it will never pay off...Can I move over to the bad boy camp? I'm ready to cyber with someone other than myself now...

Oh my!!! LOL...No we need the nice guys!!! You will get yours the nice guys may finish last here but they finish the best!!!

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FireCrotch!!! OMG...LOL
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Old 04-23-2010, 01:00 PM   #10
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That's too funny, Learman. I hope no one was hurt.
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Stick with the nice guy approach. All the hot sexy lovely ladies like that......at least that's what I read once or twice.

A long-term friend is always better than a short-term lust filled sexual relationship....at least that's the story I'm sticking with today.......maybe for a few more minutes at least.
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It is true lots of chicks dig bad boys...it may be the sense danger and intrigue that a bad boy has or the thrill of the chase or most likely the huge ego trip that tells them that they alone have the power to change this man and he will be all theirs...forever and ever...happily ever after...However not all girls want a prick errr.....well...not in that sense. Some of us would love a nice guy but one that is fun, exciting....one who can hold our interest and keep us wanting more....although having a good guy that is a bad boy in the bedroom can be a great thing. Dont ever stop being a good person there is nothing special about being an asshole the world already has plenty of them,
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I like the nice guys 6 days a week its just Friday night that i want the bad boy
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It's not that I don't like being the nice guy, but just once I'd like to play that bad guy role.

I'd like to stop being the poor sucker who everyone likes, but one would consider to hook up with.

I just hate finishing last....

Yeah I think Barkiss hit it on the head.... its all about confidence. And really .. "trying" to be the bad boy is never going to work, being something you are not is never going to work.... on both sides male or female we do not want someone who is fake, after you are here long enough you can see right through someone who is trying to be someone they are just not built to be. I think in your case, its all about just taking a few more chances, throw your self out there just a little, flirt a little more aggressively than you normally would ... hell man get out of your comfort zone just a little, and do this with a "hey I am just experimenting here a touch" in mind, do not get down if you are not getting feedback ... just keep at it, if you want to change ..... you have to work at it and do it a little at a time, your confidence will go up and sooner or later you will have the newbies asking you how you got so many women knocking your door down ... good luck!!
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I would say Lear, continue to just be yourself..It's pretty exhausting I would think always trying to be a fake... One day someone will come along.. like you exactly for who and what you give... They will like you for you and the best part will be that they won't try to change you...
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Lear, you couldnt be bad if you tried, youre a wonderful guy and one hell of a flirt...

Believe me, being the good guy thing will pay off for you...bad boys are a dime a dozen...you are worth your weight in gold, baby...
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Lear, you couldnt be bad if you tried, youre a wonderful guy and one hell of a flirt...

Believe me, being the good guy thing will pay off for you...bad boys are a dime a dozen...you are worth your weight in gold, baby...
Damn....what is gold going for an ounce right now?

Hmmmmmm at 300 lbs that is a lot of dough.
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Damn....what is gold going for an ounce right now?

Hmmmmmm at 300 lbs that is a lot of dough.
And any girl thats lucky enough to knows you...knows youre worth every cent...

your damn av is killin' me, Lear...lmao
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the best you can be is to be yourself, Lear! Good doesn't have to equate w/finishing last. That, and everyone has some streak, small or large, of naughty in them. It's just a question of when and how it comes out to play. *grin*
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I was just about to say you are "Smokin" Learman..
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Awww Learman, bad reputations are sooooo overrated. pfffft!!!


Stick with what you know. You will come out ahead soon enough.
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I don't know you, but I will say this....a nice guy here would be quite refreshing....not that there aren't any....but I had to walk through alot of crap to get to the green grass.....I'm sure you are worth the same journey and there is a woman out there who is willing to take that walk.
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I'd like to stop being the poor sucker who everyone likes, but one would consider to hook up with.

I just hate finishing last....
Well the fire doen't help
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