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Old 02-07-2009, 11:10 PM   #1
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Old 02-07-2009, 11:31 PM   #2
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I get over things pretty easily and I don't think I hold grudges very often. If someone gives me a reason to, I may be extra cautious with them...but I don't hold a grudge.
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Old 02-07-2009, 11:35 PM   #3
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Ok, this is one of my major flaws. yes, I hold grudges. Takes alot to really piss me off but when you do, watch out!
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Old 02-07-2009, 11:37 PM   #4
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Depends on the situation.. If you were mean or rude to my boys, forget it I'm ruthless.
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Old 02-07-2009, 11:41 PM   #5
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Not really. But I don't let you forget it either.
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:29 AM   #6
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Not at all...life is too short...
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:30 AM   #7
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No! but I don't forget either.
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:30 AM   #8
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I'm Irish.

It's genetic.
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:32 AM   #9
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:54 AM   #10
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I'm Irish.

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LMAO!! Me too! I'm Irish and a Scorpio. It can't be helped.

I'm learning to not stay so angry after something happens that causes a grudge since it only hurts me and not the person that slighted me....but I never forget. EV-er.
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Old 02-08-2009, 11:59 AM   #11
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Old 02-08-2009, 12:02 PM   #12
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I am Irish too and a Leo, but somehow never a grudge holder....life is too short or my attention spam is too short,,,,
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Old 02-08-2009, 12:03 PM   #13
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Those people are usually not worth it....f'ck 'em!!
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Old 02-08-2009, 12:05 PM   #14
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LMAO!! Me too! I'm Irish and a Scorpio. It can't be helped.

I'm learning to not stay so angry after something happens that causes a grudge since it only hurts me and not the person that slighted me....but I never forget. EV-er.
I didn't say I stayed angry.

My favorite book is The Count of Monte Cristo. At the end of the book, Monte Cristo's advice boils down to two words: Wait and hope.

Remember, revenge is a dish best served cold.
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Old 02-08-2009, 12:16 PM   #15
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I'm Irish.

I used to.

But in the long run, it just poisons your own soul. Letting go of anger is the single most freeing experience one can enjoy (well, without using AstroGlide, but I digress).

He's my theory now: when wronged, be angry. And then let it go. The person who wronged you doesn't really care (if they had, they wouldn't have hurt you or tried in some way to make it better). So you being angry isn't hurting anyone but you. i like to visualize my anger, burning on a raft, floating out to sea. Eventually, the raft sinks, the fire goes out and the clouds of smoke and steam give way to a warm sunset.

Just my method, it might not work for everyone. Or anyone.
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LMAO!! Me too! I'm Irish and a Scorpio. It can't be helped.
I am too!-- Irish and Scorpio-- and I think I used to have a tendency to hold grudges way more than I do now... somehow I got past it...
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Old 02-08-2009, 01:04 PM   #17
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Who me?! Nah....it just ain't worth it. I let my Irish out and then I settle down
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Not me ... it takes too much energy to be mad
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I don't like to hold anything that long, my arms get tired. But in the right circumstances, I mean if you really cross me, I am a Capricorn and I NEVER forget!
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Those people are usually not worth it....f'ck 'em!!
LMAO!!! My thoughts exactly!
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nah...life's too short
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Who me?! Nah....it just ain't worth it. I let my Irish out and then I settle down
Are all Irish likıe you,Tiglet?
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Not me. I don't get mad. I just patiently wait for when the opportune moment arises, and then exact my REVENGE! But it's nothing personal.
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why hold a grudge... it wastes precious time that can be spent living your life and smiling for other people.. I usually get mad, then forgive and forget.. so much easier to be grown up about things than to be childish..
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Capricorn here, and I chose not to waste time and energy on it.

But I NEVER forget..... locked in the vault, and proceed with caution.
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