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Old 07-01-2008, 04:11 PM   #1
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Default Do you ever find that becoming "friends with everyone" at M&F....

..ends up preventing you from getting closer to anyone in particular?

From my experience, it can become difficult to get closer to a single person that exists in a "we are all friends" peer group.

I am not saying its impossible, but since I am a newbie here, I would like to know the thoughts of the veterans on this subject.

I can see it becoming awkward or cause jealousy among "friends".

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not that I am trying to get "near" anyone here...but I have a couple really close friends that I can say anything too...but yet have alot of other people I can BS with at anytime!!!!
Does that help any??? Or am I just talking out my ass????
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Old 07-01-2008, 04:38 PM   #3
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You can get to know one or two people particularly well from late-night session s when few are online...just my experience
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Old 07-01-2008, 04:38 PM   #4
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I could see it being difficult if you and the friends do not share the same expectations. One friend may think you want more while you do want more but from someone else. (are u confused yet) Honesty is best and make sure everyone is on the same page.
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Old 07-01-2008, 05:05 PM   #5
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Friendships here allow me to get to know people, to have fun with them and to share life experiences/sad times/ happy times/support them etc. I will always value that above all else, infatuations come and go. I enjoy general flirting with everyone and it makes my day when it is returned. Do I regret that it might close a door to a "possible connection"? No. Because if its in the cards then it'll happen anyway. JMHO
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Becoming friends with many here doesn't hurt and if you choose to stay here awhile, you can make some really close friends
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I like being friends with everyone. Besides, "friends first" is a good way to get closer to that one person you want to.
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..ends up preventing you from getting closer to anyone in particular?

From my experience, it can become difficult to get closer to a single person that exists in a "we are all friends" peer group.

I am not saying its impossible, but since I am a newbie here, I would like to know the thoughts of the veterans on this subject.

I can see it becoming awkward or cause jealousy among "friends".

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That's why you have to be very honest and be sure that everyone involved has the same expectations. If you chat with a few people, you should be honest about that. It's fine, a lot of people here do.

If a friendship evolves into something more it's important that the other person you are talking to doesn't have a different perception of what is going on.


On the flip side of that.....have some fun and talk to many people if you like. That's how you know the special ones when you meet them.

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I think there are "levels" if you will... atleast for me.. their are people i just dont know... ones i know and keep at a far distance, a few i know and let them in a little... even fewer that are in the inner circle and only a handful that really know me. Having said that... none of these people would say.. you are not allowed to talk and make friends with anyone else...it really seems to be a "the more the merrier" Kinda group here
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You can get to know one or two people particularly well from late-night session s when few are online...just my experience
I completely agree. If you spend enough time becoming friends with the other members of the site you will eventually find someone that you really "click" with. For some it happens quickly and others it takes time.
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Being friends with all of the people here is very special in itself. There will always be some you are closer to than others.
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From another Newbie...I like being friends with everyone - but I've already developed a couple of close relationships that I wouldn't change for anything! It's possible to have both.
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being friends with many keeps me from getting too close to many... there are a few who have made it very close to me... but I have many acquaintances... I won't say friends... friends maybe on my friends list but in reality... my friends are the ones who PM, IM, Text, call me... they are the ones who are there for me when I am down in the dumps.. they are the ones who pick me up when I need it... they are the ones I turn to if I am having a bad day...

so no... I have many friends... but only a few close ones...
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..ends up preventing you from getting closer to anyone in particular?

From my experience, it can become difficult to get closer to a single person that exists in a "we are all friends" peer group.

I am not saying its impossible, but since I am a newbie here, I would like to know the thoughts of the veterans on this subject.

I can see it becoming awkward or cause jealousy among "friends".

Thoughts?
Sorry, I'd love to offer a comment here but I don't know that I'm the most credible source here....I only seem to attract the crazy, mentally unbalanced chicks!.........so just do the opposite of me and you'll be fine
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Sorry, I'd love to offer a comment here but I don't know that I'm the most credible source here....I only seem to attract the crazy, mentally unbalanced chicks!.........so just do the opposite of me and you'll be fine

Can you direct me to any sane non-bi-polar women>?..not that i am in need of one... but just one of those things i have never seen
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Sorry, I'd love to offer a comment here but I don't know that I'm the most credible source here....I only seem to attract the crazy, mentally unbalanced chicks!.........so just do the opposite of me and you'll be fine
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I do see what you are saying, and I kind of agree. I have a lot of people on here that I just ADORE... they keep me laughing and thinking with their posts, or in chat, and I simply don't have enough time to develop the realtionship into a TRUE friendship. And I have found that there are some people on here that get very snippy if you don't pay enough attention to them. And that makes me sad... they take it so personally, when actually, it has nothing to do with them, but rather that my online time is kind of limited.

But I would say only one or two people here are truly "close" to me. But there are SO many more that I really, really would like to be better friends with!
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Can you direct me to any sane non-bi-polar women>?..not that i am in need of one... but just one of those things i have never seen
This request is just fraught with danger for me.....I'm bound to draw the ire of one group or another here so I better just lay low on this one for a bit...
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I'm thinking appearing in front of everyone swinging the baseball bats was not exactly your best defense.....just sayin
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Can you direct me to any sane non-bi-polar women>?..not that i am in need of one... but just one of those things i have never seen

Ummm... did you just call me Bi-polar??
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This request is just fraught with danger for me.....I'm bound to draw the ire of one group or another here so I better just lay low on this one for a bit...

LMAO... BAAAAAWWWWGGGAAAWWWCKKKKKKK


I understand... i was just asked if i called someone "bi-polar" ... i was like NO..Yes...NO...YEs... that usually throws em off
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Yeah.... WAY off on the bi-polar thing... way off
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I understand... i was just asked if i called someone "bi-polar" ... i was like NO..Yes...NO...YEs... that usually throws em off
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