Lena

TomIAm · 07-24-2020, 12:46 PM

Just an FYI, but it's been over 2 months since Lena signed on. I don't have any information but I hope everything is well with her.

But absent any information, everyone should probably be aware that if the site were to go down, that might be all she wrote. I know it's not like it used to be here, but it would still be a sad way for it to end.

Hopefully, she's just taking a break. But now might be a good time to reach out to people you might want to stay in contact with should the site go *poof* suddenly.

gdgrl · 07-24-2020, 01:06 PM

I don't log in here much anymore, but I'm sorry to hear Lena has gone MIA. She always seemed like such a nice person. Funny how some of us here made connections that had nothing to do with flirting at all. While I know I'll be ok without the site, as most will, it will be sad to see it go. Thank you to all that have touched my life, even if briefly, that even includes you, Tom. You're one of the good guys.

FlowerGirl228 · 07-24-2020, 01:15 PM

So sorry to hear this. I know I haven't posted in a long time and I've disappeared at times before , but if this place disappears - I will definitely miss it. I will always remember some of you !

cougarmomma · 07-24-2020, 02:30 PM

I do hope all is well with Lena, I never got to know her but appreciate what she’s done for this site and me as a result of her starting the site.

This is like my adult, x-rated Facebook!

hijiller · 07-24-2020, 03:17 PM

I sent her a note saying the coast is clear now.

hikergeek · 07-24-2020, 11:05 PM

Did the bots take her away?

Seriously, I hope she is okay, site or no site.

hikergeek · 07-24-2020, 11:11 PM

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Originally Posted by TomIAm

Just an FYI, but it's been over 2 months since Lena signed on. I don't have any information but I hope everything is well with her.

But absent any information, everyone should probably be aware that if the site were to go down, that might be all she wrote. I know it's not like it used to be here, but it would still be a sad way for it to end.

Hopefully, she's just taking a break. But now might be a good time to reach out to people you might want to stay in contact with should the site go *poof* suddenly.

Open note - ********************************

flirtingenie · 07-25-2020, 01:30 AM

I have not been on much my self but I am thankful that I can log on when I can. I hope Lena is okay. I have met some wonderful people on here. Some has become close friends with. Some sadly I have lost contact with them. I hope everything is okay with Lena and with all the awesome members of this site.

LuckySometime · 07-26-2020, 01:36 AM

It all starts from the top. The best parts of this site start there.

I never communicated with Penny (sadly) but Lena is as gracious as they come. When she tells us she's fine it will be in the quietest subtlest way and I'm looking forward to it.

Atrebla Rose · 07-31-2020, 01:48 AM

I have come and gone over many years as well. I hope and pray Lena is ok, and life has just gotten in the way. This place is fabulous....definitely my f place, fun, flirt, friends and I hope forever!

The peeps I have met are amazing, the fun and laughs we have shared. And the friendships priceless! I will definitely miss this place if one day it is gone!

Stay safe and healthy everyone! I miss you when I am gone! Would grieve if you are gone as well!

scoobertina · 08-01-2020, 12:59 AM

I sure hope all is well and we hear from her soon.

redcat · 08-11-2020, 10:38 PM

There was a time I couldn't imagine not being here daily. Thirteen years and many changes later, I find myself thinking, "oh, I haven't checked in at M&F in a while". Though I sometimes completely forget about it, I would miss this place if it disappeared.

I certainly hope all is well with Lena! With everything going wonky this year, maybe she just needed a breather and figured this was a good time. *fingers crossed*

My life has been changed, challenged and enriched by my interactions here. To those that have been part of that, whether we exchanged hellos or truly became friends....thank you for enriching the journey. I hope to see y'all for a long time to come.

boudinballs · 08-20-2020, 11:04 AM

i don't know her, but like many others here, i come and go to M&F and certainly hope she is doing well.

TomIAm · 08-25-2020, 06:42 PM

Update: I heard from Lena. She is fine...has just had a lot of things to deal with of late and hasn't been able to get out here often. So all's well.

cougarmomma · 08-25-2020, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by TomIAm

Update: I heard from Lena. She is fine...has just had a lot of things to deal with of late and hasn't been able to get out here often. So all's well.

Thank you for the update. I’m glad she’s ok and hope her life settles down for her soon.

madmax · 08-26-2020, 07:40 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TomIAm

Update: I heard from Lena. She is fine...has just had a lot of things to deal with of late and hasn't been able to get out here often. So all's well.

Thanks for the update.
I hope things settle down for her and look forward to seeing her back when she is ready

gdgrl · 09-23-2020, 02:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TomIAm

Update: I heard from Lena. She is fine...has just had a lot of things to deal with of late and hasn't been able to get out here often. So all's well.

Good to know!

msu · 09-24-2020, 08:39 AM

Very happy to hear that Lena is okay!

madmax · 06-04-2021, 02:38 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TomIAm

Update: I heard from Lena. She is fine...has just had a lot of things to deal with of late and hasn't been able to get out here often. So all's well.

Any update Tom? Hoping Lena returns at some point

TomIAm · 06-09-2021, 12:12 PM

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Originally Posted by madmax

Any update Tom? Hoping Lena returns at some point

Unfortunately no. I have a feeling she has followed in Penny's footsteps and moved on. I am assuming somebody (Penny?) is still paying for this site for whatever reason. But yes...it seems as if we are the last occupants of an internet ghost town here.

madmax · 06-09-2021, 01:37 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TomIAm

Unfortunately no. I have a feeling she has followed in Penny's footsteps and moved on. I am assuming somebody (Penny?) is still paying for this site for whatever reason. But yes...it seems as if we are the last occupants of an internet ghost town here.

Thanks Tom

gdgrl · 06-09-2021, 02:29 PM

Now can we get a toaster?

redcat · 06-09-2021, 07:50 PM

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Originally Posted by gdgrl

Now can we get a toaster?

I regret to inform you the used toaster and re-gifting program has been temporarily suspended for an indefinite period. If you never received your toaster and wish to file a complaint, please proceed to the Chat Room and speak with the manager in charge.

TomIAm · 06-09-2021, 08:17 PM

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Originally Posted by gdgrl

Now can we get a toaster?

No toaster, but we ARE going to relax the rules on posting full nudes, so have at it!

gdgrl · 06-09-2021, 08:34 PM

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Originally Posted by TomIAm

No toaster, but we ARE going to relax the rules on posting full nudes, so have at it!

Hmmm, not sure you'd want to have me post a nude. We've aged a bit, it's Married and Flirting and Saggy.

07-24-2020, 12:46 PM	#1
TomIAm Not even 1/2way decent! Join Date: Nov 2009 Age: 57 Posts: 42,635 Thanks: 10,602 Thanked 17,828 Times in 10,427 Posts Blog Entries: 10	Lena Just an FYI, but it's been over 2 months since Lena signed on. I don't have any information but I hope everything is well with her. But absent any information, everyone should probably be aware that if the site were to go down, that might be all she wrote. I know it's not like it used to be here, but it would still be a sad way for it to end. Hopefully, she's just taking a break. But now might be a good time to reach out to people you might want to stay in contact with should the site go poof suddenly. __________________ *"Will you shut up, man?!"*

07-24-2020, 01:06 PM	#2
gdgrl Follow me Join Date: May 2008 Location: Cali Age: 54 Posts: 19,637 Thanks: 9,562 Thanked 10,658 Times in 6,266 Posts Blog Entries: 19	I don't log in here much anymore, but I'm sorry to hear Lena has gone MIA. She always seemed like such a nice person. Funny how some of us here made connections that had nothing to do with flirting at all. While I know I'll be ok without the site, as most will, it will be sad to see it go. Thank you to all that have touched my life, even if briefly, that even includes you, Tom. You're one of the good guys. __________________ Multilingual: English, profanity, sarcasm and real shit! ~unknown

07-24-2020, 01:15 PM	#3
FlowerGirl228 Perfct@beingMisunderstood Join Date: Jul 2009 Location: Third rock from the sun. Age: 56 Posts: 7,066 Thanks: 2,512 Thanked 3,023 Times in 1,983 Posts Blog Entries: 5	So sorry to hear this. I know I haven't posted in a long time and I've disappeared at times before , but if this place disappears - I will definitely miss it. I will always remember some of you ! __________________ "Unless someone like you cares a whole awful lot, nothing's going to get better. It's not." The Lorax We all bleed red. Anger , hatred and hostility have never solved a single problem!

07-24-2020, 02:30 PM	#4
cougarmomma Sail away Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Hometown Age: 53 Posts: 16,684 Thanks: 3,596 Thanked 4,125 Times in 3,048 Posts	I do hope all is well with Lena, I never got to know her but appreciate what she’s done for this site and me as a result of her starting the site. This is like my adult, x-rated Facebook! __________________

07-24-2020, 11:05 PM	#6
hikergeek Yet another invisible man Join Date: Mar 2017 Location: Stranded On the Island of Misfit Toys Age: 65 Posts: 7,143 Thanks: 2,440 Thanked 1,185 Times in 1,034 Posts Blog Entries: 43	Did the bots take her away? Seriously, I hope she is okay, site or no site. __________________ "We are made of star stuff. We are a way for the cosmos to know itself.” -Carl Sagan

07-24-2020, 03:17 PM	#5
hijiller One foot on land, one on Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: In a New York state of mind Age: 47 Posts: 29,889 Thanks: 11,366 Thanked 13,306 Times in 9,089 Posts Blog Entries: 3	I sent her a note saying the coast is clear now.

07-25-2020, 01:30 AM	#8
flirtingenie Silver Hair Lady Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: Arkansas Age: 62 Posts: 17,119 Thanks: 4,591 Thanked 3,827 Times in 3,109 Posts Blog Entries: 3	I have not been on much my self but I am thankful that I can log on when I can. I hope Lena is okay. I have met some wonderful people on here. Some has become close friends with. Some sadly I have lost contact with them. I hope everything is okay with Lena and with all the awesome members of this site. __________________

07-26-2020, 01:36 AM	#9
LuckySometime Organ Donor Join Date: Nov 2011 Age: 60 Posts: 9,565 Thanks: 3,810 Thanked 3,212 Times in 2,417 Posts	It all starts from the top. The best parts of this site start there. I never communicated with Penny (sadly) but Lena is as gracious as they come. When she tells us she's fine it will be in the quietest subtlest way and I'm looking forward to it. __________________ When quarantine is over let's not tell some people.

07-31-2020, 01:48 AM	#10
Atrebla Rose Loving where life has me! Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: Canada Age: 57 Posts: 20,836 Thanks: 2,930 Thanked 3,121 Times in 2,616 Posts Blog Entries: 6	I have come and gone over many years as well. I hope and pray Lena is ok, and life has just gotten in the way. This place is fabulous....definitely my f place, fun, flirt, friends and I hope forever! The peeps I have met are amazing, the fun and laughs we have shared. And the friendships priceless! I will definitely miss this place if one day it is gone! Stay safe and healthy everyone! I miss you when I am gone! Would grieve if you are gone as well! __________________ If you expect your woman to be an angel in your life, then you must first create heaven for her. Angels do not live in hell!!

08-01-2020, 12:59 AM	#11
scoobertina scoobalicious Join Date: Apr 2007 Age: 56 Posts: 78,335 Thanks: 21,320 Thanked 18,428 Times in 12,481 Posts Blog Entries: 87	I sure hope all is well and we hear from her soon. __________________

08-11-2020, 10:38 PM	#12
redcat Forum Leader Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Currently NC Age: 65 Posts: 31,433 Thanks: 19,939 Thanked 13,565 Times in 8,640 Posts Blog Entries: 32	There was a time I couldn't imagine not being here daily. Thirteen years and many changes later, I find myself thinking, "oh, I haven't checked in at M&F in a while". Though I sometimes completely forget about it, I would miss this place if it disappeared. I certainly hope all is well with Lena! With everything going wonky this year, maybe she just needed a breather and figured this was a good time. fingers crossed My life has been changed, challenged and enriched by my interactions here. To those that have been part of that, whether we exchanged hellos or truly became friends....thank you for enriching the journey. I hope to see y'all for a long time to come. __________________ *Meddle not in the affairs of dragons, for you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup*

08-20-2020, 11:04 AM	#13
boudinballs Super Flirt Join Date: Sep 2011 Location: Atlanta area Age: 60 Posts: 350 Thanks: 15 Thanked 25 Times in 23 Posts	i don't know her, but like many others here, i come and go to M&F and certainly hope she is doing well. __________________ well, i'm standing next to a mountain, chop it down with the edge of my hand

08-25-2020, 06:42 PM	#14
TomIAm Not even 1/2way decent! Join Date: Nov 2009 Age: 57 Posts: 42,635 Thanks: 10,602 Thanked 17,828 Times in 10,427 Posts Blog Entries: 10	Update: I heard from Lena. She is fine...has just had a lot of things to deal with of late and hasn't been able to get out here often. So all's well. __________________ *"Will you shut up, man?!"*

09-24-2020, 08:39 AM	#18
msu All In.... Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Mid-Atlantic Age: 54 Posts: 30,706 Thanks: 11,443 Thanked 7,757 Times in 6,540 Posts Blog Entries: 2	Very happy to hear that Lena is okay! __________________

06-09-2021, 02:29 PM	#22
gdgrl Follow me Join Date: May 2008 Location: Cali Age: 54 Posts: 19,637 Thanks: 9,562 Thanked 10,658 Times in 6,266 Posts Blog Entries: 19	Now can we get a toaster? __________________ Multilingual: English, profanity, sarcasm and real shit! ~unknown