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Old 10-26-2018, 02:52 PM   #1
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What's the hardest advice you've ever received? The ones that you've come to accept as truths that you didn't want to hear at the time?

"It's better to be alone than to wish you were"
My mom told me that. As a young woman I couldn't possibly think there was anything good about being alone. As an old lady, I understand the wisdom in those words.
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Old 10-26-2018, 02:55 PM   #2
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From my mom -

What you give out in the universe you will get right back, so think hard what kind of person you want to be! And live with your choices!
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Old 10-26-2018, 02:56 PM   #3
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Allow yourself to be loved, make time for it and the ones who love you - a female friend
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Old 10-26-2018, 02:57 PM   #4
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It's a tough question, I'm going to need a while
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Old 10-26-2018, 06:08 PM   #5
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From my Gramma -

If you can not even love yourself, how do you expect anyone else to love you! Loving you first, will open your heart to being loved!
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Old 10-26-2018, 06:18 PM   #6
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"The best way to avoid disappointment is to not expect anything from anyone." ...my uncle told me this, and too many times I forgot that along the way. I'm getting much better now though..
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Old 10-28-2018, 12:25 PM   #7
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You can't change how people behave, what the say or what they think. You can only change your reaction to it.

I always thought most people were reasonable and that even if didn't agree we could remain polite and respectful of one another as humans. Sadly, that's not always true and you just have to take a step back and control your own behavior and emotions first.
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"There will be a time when you have to consider the right path. You either do what's best for others or you do what's best for you. Either way you win." - a very wise Navy Chief mentor of mine
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Old 10-28-2018, 05:13 PM   #9
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“Only trust those that have as much to lose as you”
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Old 10-28-2018, 05:49 PM   #10
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You don't tug on superman's cape
You don't spit into the wind
You don't pull the mask off that old lone ranger
And you don't mess around with Jim
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Old 10-30-2018, 10:47 AM   #11
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"When people show you who they are, believe them."

I used to be a words girl. I believed words before looking at actions. I think because it's what I really wanted to believe. Now I'm more the opposite and judge by actions before I trust words. Actions tell you everything.
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Old 10-30-2018, 12:48 PM   #12
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My father,
"Everyone has baggage to carry, it's how you carry it that makes you a man"
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My parents were not much for words of wisedom.

I do remember my mother's frequent comment when I was backing out of her driveway into a busy view obstructed street.

“If your're gonna go, go!”

I find this helpful in other situations as well.
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My parents were not much for words of wisedom.

I do remember my mother's frequent comment when I was backing out of her driveway into a busy view obstructed street.

“If your're gonna go, go!”

I find this helpful in other situations as well.
Potty training?
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Old 10-30-2018, 04:26 PM   #15
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“Do what you think is right.” Thanks! Put the onus back on me!
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It's none of your business what people think of you.
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It's none of your business what people think of you.
So C's username, Jillisapieceofshit, just vaporized.

He's entitled to his opinion.
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“Don’t marry the first woman that says she loves you” from my dad


I ignored that one unfortunately.
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A person who values you, will never put themselves in a position to lose you! A very good friend!
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When life gives you a hundred reasons to break down and cry, show life you have a million reasons to smile and laugh. Stay strong!
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Years ago a friend told me of a Buddhist parable. I don't remember the exact quote but the gist is a story of a man chasing the arsonist that lit his house on fire, while his house is burning down.
Sometimes you gotta take care of your house and let the arsonist go.
I spent far too much time chasing arsonists in my day. The truth is, no matter how good it feels to beat the shit out of someone figuratively speaking, you gotta take good care of your own house first.
I miss that friend but I'll never forget what she brought to my life and introducing me to that philosophy.
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