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Old 11-18-2009, 03:45 AM   #26
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I have been playing around with a friend and we have been discussing the benefits angle. But I am opting out to keep with just the friend part as I am already falling a bit too far and I know I could easily tumble all the way down. So now I am building barricades and posting the friend only signs again. There is still some hurt there, but the friendship is worth it so I plan on having us survive.
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Old 11-18-2009, 03:57 AM   #27
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It can work.....but its a challenge ... and you have to be very honest with yourself and both of you have to be very respectful and kind of the other.. no useing allowed.. if u want to remain friends...
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Old 11-18-2009, 09:21 PM   #28
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I still want to try it. But I agree ground rules have to be laid.
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Old 11-18-2009, 09:36 PM   #29
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there is only one person worth having as a FWB...and I know...that is nto ever going to happen with us...so I will just keep him near and dear as just a plain ole friend!!!!
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Old 11-18-2009, 09:43 PM   #30
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I honestly think it can happen.. if both parties agree to keep it platonic.. and if things change for either of them they tell each other...

and personally for me, I don't think I could do it.. I thought about it a few times..
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Old 11-19-2009, 12:53 AM   #31
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Yes FWB's can work. I have a friend now and she knows I'm married and have no plans to change that, and she is fine with it. She is getting divorced and is not looking for anything serious. As long as you both know where you stand.
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Old 11-19-2009, 11:50 AM   #32
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Only as a last resort. Oh yeah, I'm there. I vote yes.
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Old 11-19-2009, 05:46 PM   #33
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i wish...

i ended up marrying my friend with benefits...
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Old 11-19-2009, 05:47 PM   #34
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Old 11-19-2009, 06:28 PM   #35
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I honestly think it can happen.. if both parties agree to keep it platonic.. and if things change for either of them they tell each other...

and personally for me, I don't think I could do it.. I thought about it a few times..

Tina...how can it be platonic...I thought FWB's were friends having sex???
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Old 11-19-2009, 06:33 PM   #36
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Tina...how can it be platonic...I thought FWB's were friends having sex???

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Old 11-19-2009, 06:36 PM   #37
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Old 11-19-2009, 06:41 PM   #38
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Old 11-19-2009, 07:00 PM   #39
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I don't need any benefits, just a friend would be nice.
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Old 11-19-2009, 07:41 PM   #40
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I wont be bashful...

I would love a RL FWB...

Preferably a married woman from the Tampa, St Petersburg area...
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Old 11-19-2009, 08:17 PM   #41
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You have to be friends with them...leaves me out!!!

i want a FWB ...no I want a FB...Fuck Buddy...I got Real friends
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Old 11-20-2009, 02:30 PM   #42
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it works. .... fuck buddies too
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Old 11-20-2009, 06:52 PM   #43
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Hey Happy girl I'm looking for fwb, Maybe?
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Old 11-20-2009, 07:05 PM   #44
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someone always gets emotionally involved, like it or not...keep it in mind
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Old 11-20-2009, 08:22 PM   #45
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someone always gets emotionally involved, like it or not...keep it in mind
I agree, usually someone gets attached so if you can keep as strickly friends or buddies then All the power to you
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Old 11-20-2009, 09:51 PM   #46
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I agree, usually someone gets attached so if you can keep as strickly friends or buddies then All the power to you

Being attached (by body parts) is the best part
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I don't need any benefits, just a friend would be nice.

puhhhleeeeze, like you don't have that
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Actually very true.
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Old 11-20-2009, 11:37 PM   #49
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Friends with benefits...Benefits from friends...I need both and want both!!!
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