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Old 10-14-2010, 04:34 PM   #26
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Eventually the heart heals and someone makes you giddy.
I've sworn off love a bazillion times but go back for more.
I think eventually you will too.
I love your thoughts too many of them unappreciated, to me the heart speaks of the very caharacter you are, Kisses thy hand and thanx you sincerely for your kindness.
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Old 10-14-2010, 04:35 PM   #27
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And his Av. WTF is that thing???


I *knew* you were paying attention to me!

As for the av... I lost a bet, okay?
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Old 10-14-2010, 04:39 PM   #28
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I *knew* you were paying attention to me!

As for the av... I lost a bet, okay?
I HATE IT.
It's really fucking awful.
I can't even LOOK at it. LOL.
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Old 10-14-2010, 04:46 PM   #29
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Love isn't supposed to hurt, but it can... everything in life worth doing or feeling has the potential for hurt. You just have to be able to accept that and jump in with both feet. I was so in love with my husband when we first started out... but he did nothing but hurt me in the last 4 years. And eventually broke my heart. That doesn't mean I'll block any chances at love in the future.... but it's like falling off a horse. Sooner or later, ya gotta get back up on and give it another go.
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Old 10-14-2010, 04:47 PM   #30
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Old 10-14-2010, 04:59 PM   #31
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I think love hurts in so many ways.. thats why I quit love it Sucks.. I used to think love meant being made to hurt physically and emotionally but I know better now.. and that was not love..(and if you love that person it kills your love) But I do know healthy love can hurt(I wouldnt know personally know but I have seen it with other people). So I wish I could have felt the healthy type of love first..



You will love again....and I know how hard it is to get passed what you have gone through! But remember you cannot love if you let your past haunt you....and unfortunately its very hard to let go of our past!
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Old 10-14-2010, 05:04 PM   #32
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Worst hurt in the world, bar none. Why do you think people jump off bridges? I still believe, however, that if you don't keep looking for it, you'll die inside anyway. Without true love, or the yearning for it, there's nothing.It's out there... it really is.
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Old 10-14-2010, 05:05 PM   #33
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Yes, love hurts but if it didnt would it be love?
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Old 10-14-2010, 05:17 PM   #34
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True love always hurts... its the only real way to know it is true...
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Old 10-14-2010, 05:27 PM   #35
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I think love hurts only if the one you love doesn't love you back.
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Old 10-14-2010, 05:31 PM   #36
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If it hurts then it's not.. or it wasn't love.
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Old 10-14-2010, 05:33 PM   #37
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Yes. It's why it freaks everyone out.
At some point you will miss that person....that hurts.
At some point you will have difficulty communicating or be misunderstood..that hurts.
At some point you will be careless and hurt someone you love...that hurts to too...

It's how you move on from it.
But to open yourself up to love is to open yourself up to some hurt.
Morbid, but true.
Spot on Sneaky, I don't think it's morbid at all. Can't have the sweet without the sour.
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Old 10-14-2010, 06:07 PM   #38
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Unless you're primed with the perfect set of skills and circumstances when love comes knocking then, potentially, you will be welcoming in a World of hurt right to your doorstep!

But I don't think this hurt exists as a companion to the love or that it ought to go hand-in-hand with the experience...Just that by letting someone into your heart, you invariably give them a direct route into your inner-most feelings. It's unlikely, even if you trust them entirely, that they - or the World around them - will never trip up accidently and make a horrible mess in there...Or, all the more worrying, that by getting to know you so well, they don't learn exactly where to jab when they want to be heard.
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Old 10-14-2010, 06:11 PM   #39
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Old 10-14-2010, 06:20 PM   #40
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Love can hurt....But time heals...I would rather have loved and lost than not loved at all.....
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Old 10-14-2010, 06:26 PM   #41
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Love doesn't hurt, it is not being loved in return that really hurts.Also once you realize the other person doesn't feel the same towards you, it is very difficult to let go of someone you truly care about.
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It can hurt when it ends...especially if you care for the other person more than they cared for you.
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Old 10-17-2010, 08:00 AM   #43
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Love itself is wonderful and precious and never to be taken for granted.

That being said, when you love truly, you open yourself up to that person and when doing that, you give them the ability to hurt you like others can't.

An off handed comment by someone could piss you off but not injure you. If your love said the same thing, it would devastate you.

So I do believe that hurt is part of it . . . . . BUT

I also think that forgiveness and understanding make up the best part of love, whether it is with your friends, lover, spouse or children.
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Old 10-17-2010, 08:14 AM   #44
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Savvy when ya named this one ya put a hard thing down to feel good about.
Every answer here is either negative or struggling to find something positive. Mine probably won't be any different, but while the fact that love can make us hurt, it can make us joyous, happy and most importantly enjoyable to be around. Parents love their kids unconditionally, so any bad decisions or things they don't agree with hurt them. Other relationships are kinda conditional in that, for the most part, we can leave them and start over.
But the hurt of losing someone, even someone who hurt you (intentionally or with their own weakness), shows how strong an emotion this is. You can realize the bad times, but try to remember the good times. Hate and hurt won;t hold anything over you then. (easier said then done isn't it?)
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Old 10-17-2010, 08:35 AM   #45
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yes very much

I thing that I don't understand is you see the hurt that your actions caused. So you try very hard not repeat , then your cause more hurt by not doing it again
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Old 10-17-2010, 03:13 PM   #46
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I don't think that love itself actually hurts, but when you truly open up to someone else, and deeply share yourself, it leaves you vulnerable. And without intentions (well, most of the time), yeah...that part sucks a whole lot!
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Old 10-17-2010, 03:18 PM   #47
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Well since we are human and fallible we are going to screw up even with the ones we love the most! So yes all kinds of love hurts...

Romantic
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All of it has the potential to hurt us because its perpertrated upon us by people!

I can live with that!
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Old 10-17-2010, 03:21 PM   #48
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I thing that I don't understand is you see the hurt that your actions caused. So you try very hard not repeat , then your cause more hurt by not doing it again
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Old 10-17-2010, 03:25 PM   #49
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Yes, both physically and emotionally. There have been times my heart is so heavy emotionally, it literally feels like an anchor is sitting on top of it.
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Old 10-17-2010, 03:27 PM   #50
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No , I really don't think so....maybe the loss of love can hurt, but not love.
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