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Old 10-17-2010, 03:30 PM   #51
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Yes or No. And for good measure toss in a "why"


Not love, itself...but the people we love can say or do things that cause us hurt. I don't think any of us would choose to live our lives without love, though. So, we run the risk (sometimes time after time) that the joy will outweigh the hurt.

We can't appreciate the view from the mountaintops if we didn't go through the valley.
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Old 10-17-2010, 11:12 PM   #52
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Yes! For reasons others have already listed...but's that's no reason to avoid love if it finds you because there is also great pleasure to be found in it.
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Old 10-17-2010, 11:28 PM   #53
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I am playing ignorant.. as I haven't read all the posts.. but I want to post my thoughts..
yes.. love hurts.. and it should.. it should be painful when it's not working out.. it should hurt when things aren't right.. and it should be within all of us to do what we can to make it work...

it hurts that I can't have the man I love.. it hurts that I can't see him (or even talk to him) every single day of my life.. it hurts that I know he loves me like mad and I can't make him happy every moment he breaths.. it hurts like hell.. but dammit.. I wouldn't give away that pain for the world.. it is so worth it!
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Old 10-17-2010, 11:42 PM   #54
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I would like to say no since the love I have is so strong and real
But I must say yes since there is a love that is in my mind ever day thats different than the one I live
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Old 10-17-2010, 11:55 PM   #55
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I don't think it is love so much that hurts. What hurts sometimes is the memories of the love that came before. My mind races with the pain of my marriage for example. And, every so often when my sweetheart now says or does something, I rush back to that time when that wounded me. And, it is like I get trapped inside of that with my present love. Don't know if that makes sense. But, because I am with lion and not my ex-husband any longer, I can untangle myself from that mess and bring myself out of the pain faster.
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Old 10-18-2010, 12:17 AM   #56
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Love is the most complex scenario in a mass spectrum of human emotions. It’s something everyone strives for, whether it’s to find the “one” to love and who will love them, or love a parent or child, to find a profession they love.

There are many varying degrees of love. People love their pets, their cars, their friends. But love is not free, and it comes with plenty of risk. Anytime you expose yourself to vulnerability, you risk rejection. It’s happened to almost everyone at one time or another.

With love comes some pain. The death of a loved one, the loss of a friend, these are part of the deal. No one wants to feel this pain, yet it is a part of life.

But along with these pains, hopefully there are many more days of joy and happiness to be shared with all. Just as we grieve for those loved ones we lose, we rejoice and cherish all the new loved ones who enter our lives.

Yes, love hurts at times. But it ALWAYS gives more to each of us than it takes away.
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Old 10-18-2010, 09:11 AM   #57
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it does when it's one sided
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Old 10-21-2010, 08:57 AM   #58
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Love cannot always be perfect as we as humans are not perfect....what can make the concept of love perfect is the belief that through good times and bad times it endures if both parties want it to....I believe that is what love intended and if we expect anything more than we set ourselves up for disappointment and discord....so yes love at times hurts
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Nope~ real love feels better than anything else I can think of
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Old 10-21-2010, 09:04 AM   #60
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Love heals
Love strengthens
Love concurs

And love hurts
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Old 10-21-2010, 09:06 AM   #61
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Not with the right person
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Old 10-21-2010, 09:15 AM   #62
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hurts like a bitch
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Old 10-21-2010, 09:17 AM   #63
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Only when I feel used by the ones I love!!!
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Old 10-21-2010, 09:21 AM   #64
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Well she told me that it hurt one time...............................but it was really dark and I missed the intended target and.........well........the rest was a bit of a shock to her
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LOVE hurts only if you let it.... my heart was broken 25 years ago..... and it never really mended... not totally
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Better to have known love and lost then to have never loved @ all
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Well she told me that it hurt one time...............................but it was really dark and I missed the intended target and.........well........the rest was a bit of a shock to her
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Old 10-21-2010, 12:12 PM   #68
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I think love heals
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Old 10-21-2010, 01:30 PM   #69
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Real love is not the giddy feeling its the contented safe happy feeling deep inside. When its ok your not with the person because you know they love you and you them. When real love hurts, is when it ends. That hurts more than anything, having your soul ripped open.
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IF it didn't hurt it wouldn't be worthwhile going after.......
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i dont think its love itself that hurts, its the loss of it that hurts
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It depends on how deeply you love.
The english language is poor - we only have one word for love. But in greek, it translates in to numerous meanings. Three such ones are:

"Eros" is lustful love. It passionate, it's earthly. It's prone to irrational, selfish, materialistic expression. You give nothing...you just take. It's lovers who know nothing of the heart of another. In someway, it hurts less when two live here...they can easily move on and find another for they gave nothing away of their heart.

"Phileo" is brotherly love, humanistic love. It is a conditional love - where love says "if you do, then I will love". But it also says "if you do not do, then I will withhold my love". And it hurts when one's conditions are unattainable...or one will not offer forgiveness so the other can again be conditionally accepted.

"Agape" is divine love. It is an unselfish love. It is a love that is unconditional, as a mother to a child. And it hurts the most - for the deeper you love, the more your love cannot be disconnected. And when another does not love you in the same way...they can walk away, and your love is still unfailing. Your care is no less.

The deeper you love...the more of your heart you place in the hand of another, as if to say..."I give it to you...it's yours. Do with it what you will."

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depends on if both love each other or not
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In my experience Love is very painful. I hope one day to find someone that will make me eat those words.
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Love may hurt the mind. But the mind must be stronger.
Love may hurt the heart. But the heart is only a muscle.

True love shouldn't stress. All of life's distractions cut into one to one love.
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