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Old 10-09-2010, 07:10 PM   #1
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Default How do you get time away for your trysts?

Whenever I get lucky enough to to have a tryst the problem of getting out of the house for five or six hours is a daunting task. I usually make up some innane excuse about having to go a long distance to procure some new stock or some such. I usually figure an hour for drive time and four hours of play time. Just curious what works for others and if it may work for me as well.
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Old 10-09-2010, 07:20 PM   #2
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I schedule the day off of work..........head out as if I'm going to work which is about 6:30 a.m...... play all day.........wear him out.......and then go home.

I'd rather miss a day at work.........than miss playtime.........just sayin........
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nice Madame Whispers, I used to take off every thursday for that very reason but economic pressures stopped that for a bit but it is in the cards for the future.
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Old 10-10-2010, 01:49 AM   #4
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LOL... I love stomping on married ground...


I don't have to get time away... I just take vacation time or sick time and go! Or I would.. but I dont have to hide it from anyone.. god life is good
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It was MUCH easier when I worked.
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Old 10-10-2010, 01:57 AM   #6
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I would go "to work" and meet him, and hope the H didn't call, looking for me..If he did (and I think he did once) I just would say I took a "me" day. Which was true.
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Old 10-10-2010, 02:43 AM   #7
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Well, I tell my dog that I am going to get him treats and when I arrive home I give them to him and all is forgiven.
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Old 10-10-2010, 05:56 AM   #8
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So far it looks like skipping a day of mind numbing work for mental rejuvenation is the preferred method so far. I run the risk
of W calling after me, except she dials me direct on my cell.
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Old 10-10-2010, 08:12 AM   #9
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It's good I have a cheap cell phone. Sorry hun:

1) battery was dead
2) dropped the call
3) my phone is acting up again.

Not that I had a tryst yet, but sounds good.
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Old 10-10-2010, 08:31 AM   #10
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pick a outing that she is horrified with ( can change with seasons ) now that's solved next one
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Old 10-10-2010, 09:11 AM   #11
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I like the cell phone, have used a variant of that one before it don't have to be a cheap cell I got an expensive one that eats batteries like they are going out of style.

As far as outings that she can't stand go, well good call, but limlted. That one would require a bit of advanced planning
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Old 10-10-2010, 10:00 AM   #12
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not feeling well at work
leave early and have a good time
if he calls say I was in meetings all day
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Hey looking good call on I'm not feeling well, gotta leave for some medicine.

BTW, very sexy available u got there, awesome legs!!!
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Old 10-10-2010, 11:12 AM   #14
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When I was married, I was blessed with a man that can sleep through anything and did. So my "friend" would just drive past the house and pick me up. We also met every day during our lunch hours.
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Old 10-10-2010, 11:17 AM   #15
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hey disturbia,

I love your style, but clearly not going to work for me lol

BTW, you said when u were married, did he wake up one day while u were getting ride?
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hmmm good thread..... sounds all too stressful too me but with the right person..(well it is stressful enough when your on the computer.. and well he just comes.. home no warning and he accuses you of all types of things..geez ..) yes.. would be worth it..
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Was pretty easy when I was in outside sales...
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Getting time away for trysts is easy. I just say I'm off to play with some other musicians somewhere and, since my wife hates the music I play, she never wants to join me :-)

Trouble is tryst-able ladies seem to agree with my wife .... so don't go where I go either ... so I'm tryst-free ... Does that make my post off-topic? :-)
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Girls night out always worked for me.....
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hey disturbia,

I love your style, but clearly not going to work for me lol

BTW, you said when u were married, did he wake up one day while u were getting ride?

No....I woke up, filed for divorce and life is good again....LOL
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When I was having trysts I was in grad school...man, those long hours are grueling!
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clearly some good answers.

disturbia you are just awesome girl, like i said i like your style!

Joys i been toying with starting a boys night out. I have to make it a habit then it will be an easy thing. The only thing about that is you have to have a partner that can meet that schedule as well.

there might be a new thread how to get your partner out of their house lol.
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Sometimes you have to get creative. And keep your voice down. But it can be done when you REALLY want to.
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