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Old 03-11-2008, 12:58 AM   #26
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Old 03-11-2008, 05:06 AM   #27
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How do you protect yourself from being crushed here on M&F?



M&F is after all this is a flirting site and its set up for flirting, so how do you mange, how do you protect yourself from being hurt or used? Cause I'd really like to know....please.

Talk to the friends you have made here as well. Perhaps, we've seen something that will help you!
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Old 03-11-2008, 07:27 AM   #28
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Old 03-11-2008, 07:51 AM   #29
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Try to keep your feet on the ground....and if you do make a jump...well try not to fall when you land
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Old 03-11-2008, 07:57 AM   #30
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it can't be helped I tell ya... someone is going to get hurt today... and tomorrow... it is nature... no natural... no nature...
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Old 03-11-2008, 08:21 AM   #31
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I don't! Already been hurt a little once, but what can you do? I tend to be a risk taker and the passion and energy I get from meeting someone incredible far outweight the risks.
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Old 03-11-2008, 08:27 AM   #32
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thank you everyone....its just hard to let go sometimes and to move forward, I also realize that this is a flirting space meant for fun --but with guys asking you--umm, me to be more open I panic...and want to run the other way...

Thats the great thing here, you can choose to tell what you like, go at the pace you like and find out what the other persons wants to share. Don't panic, tease!!!!
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Old 03-11-2008, 08:38 AM   #33
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Trust your instincts!!!!

I could write a novel on this subject, but I will spare each of you the details of a long, and what I considered mutually beneficial online relationship. Through the entire relationship I felt something wasn't right, but it wasn't until well over a year of "being in the relationship", that I realized that all my instincts were right. Nothing, and I mean nothing, about the relationship was true. If I had listened to myself, I could have spared a great deal of time and heartache...with that said, I learned some valuable lessons which I will treasure for the rest of my life.

So as the old cliche' states, "Don't believe everything you read"....well you didn't think it was just for journalists, did you? And for all of you that say time will solve all...please remember it wasn't until after a year that I realized the truth. Maybe I'm just stupid and naive, but ask yourself...how well do I really know this person?, or how much do I know that he/she tells me? Your answer might surprise you...

Yes...I was naive...and I was stupid...so my advice is...

Don't be a Barkiss.
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Old 03-11-2008, 09:48 AM   #34
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I know of what i speak - I spent 35 years in that bubble. Mine was thicker, though -- nothing got through. Nothing. Finally, somebody found a crack, and got inside. It was glorious, it was wondrous -- it was unlike anything I remembered. Eventually, I got hurt again ... but this time, it's ok --- it was well worth it. I learned that I can't live without feeling, I can't live without loving. For THAT lesson, I am eternally grateful.

Don't die inside that bubble - I almost did. Live your life -- love your life. Take a chance. The only thing worse than getting hurt is to feel nothing at all.

Good luck, hun ....
WOW spare... that was so great of you to open up like that...I have always be true to myself here and if I fall for someone, it hurts but I know I still have a heart.
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Old 03-11-2008, 10:59 AM   #35
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Old 03-11-2008, 11:37 AM   #36
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I think it's best to keep things on a friendship level for a very long time. Even if they seem like a great person, you still need to be careful. It's not healthy to build a wall around yourself and not let anyone in. However, not everyone is the person they make themselves appear to be. So, just take things slow and really get to know someone well before you decided to take things further.
Just have fun and be careful everyone
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Old 03-11-2008, 11:53 AM   #37
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well Annie that is a good question....when i joined M&F i was looking for someone to talk to have fun with...never expected to develop feelings for someone....but scoob is right...you chat day and sometimes even night with him/her and a connection, a bond is formed...it happens. I too am ALWAYS honest to all i talk to...as for the getting hurt part...welllll i cant comment on that one as i have been slightly jaded. I guess it would be to be patient, wait take it slow. Personally i think the bubble would be a sure bet on not getting hurt
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Old 03-11-2008, 12:06 PM   #38
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Thats the great thing here, you can choose to tell what you like, go at the pace you like and find out what the other persons wants to share. Don't panic, tease!!!!
Tease??!! Well that just brings up another issue for me lol, I dont tease well cause I dont know how to---part of it is my shyness, my inexperience and I shock easily---dropped jaw and blushing included.
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Old 03-11-2008, 12:16 PM   #39
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Tease??!! Well that just brings up another issue for me lol, I dont tease well cause I dont know how to---part of it is my shyness, my inexperience and I shock easily---dropped jaw and blushing included.

Uh-huh....I see....yes, can just see ur shyness ooozing all over the place...oh wait...it's a bit...omg, thats not shyness....

Hun, ya can't protect yourself from every hurt out there...unless you choose to be a hermit....no one likes to be hurt...and everyone has been...but ya just keep trying and hoping....just take it slow and trust your instincts....
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Old 03-11-2008, 12:24 PM   #40
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[quote=cherokeered]Uh-huh....I see....yes, can just see ur shyness ooozing all over the place...oh wait...it's a bit...omg, thats not shyness....

ROFLMAO too funny
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I agree with a lot of what has been said here - esp. what spare said about risk vs. reward. Retreating into a wall protects you from feeling pain ... but it also protects you from feeling love. You really can't be open to love without being open to pain. That knowledge helps me through the pain I have to endure. Be ready for it.

But, yeah - being sharp, keeping both eyes open, and taking things slowly are all good things as well in keeping the schmos at bay.
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Old 03-11-2008, 12:57 PM   #42
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Old 03-11-2008, 12:59 PM   #43
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This Site Is For Entertainment Puposes Only! Thats what I have been preaching since the first day. Do with it as you will but you cant say you weren't warned
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And what entertainment it is Penny! Thanks!
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I realize that Penny, but there are a lot of great people on this site and I have made some good friends. And it has helped me feel more self-confident and worth being loved and desired again. I am grateful to you and your husband for that.
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Old 03-11-2008, 01:22 PM   #47
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Old 03-11-2008, 03:01 PM   #48
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Living behind the walls of protection is not living! It is better to have loved and lost than to have never ever have loved at all. I will be honest, be myself and take my chances! It is so much better than being lonely!
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Honestly, as much as it pains me to not insert a smart ass remark here....I think they way you don't get hurt is to rely on yourself for the things you feel you lack, then just relax and if someone comes along and offers something interesting you are not fully relying on that new person to fulfill your needs, less pressure for you both and then maybe you can relax a bit and just enjoy each other with out the apprehension concerning getting hurt....If that does not work just eat lots of ice cream
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Damn!!! And you were soooooo close that time too
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