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Old 12-04-2008, 09:29 PM   #26
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BEcause the spouse is just "a friend now".. And I need more..
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Old 12-04-2008, 10:58 PM   #27
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Because sex feels really good.....moreso when you're not getting it at home.
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Old 12-05-2008, 12:27 AM   #28
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well ...3 word Somme's this up for most of us...

lack of attention!!!! you can add adjectives in front of this phrase and in back of it but it still spells the same thing!!!
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Old 08-13-2010, 10:43 AM   #29
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Probably the same reason men do I would think.
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Old 08-13-2010, 10:22 PM   #30
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To get to the other side of the road???
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Old 08-13-2010, 10:24 PM   #31
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because looking at my husband laying in bed in his underwear and his shirt pulled halfway up his chest is a huge turn off, ugggggg
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Old 08-13-2010, 10:29 PM   #32
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i'm just guessing, same as men???
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Old 08-13-2010, 10:31 PM   #33
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Cuz it feels so good to be with another person than your spouse????
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Old 08-15-2010, 09:42 PM   #34
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because the attention is not the same as home.
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Old 08-16-2010, 02:29 AM   #35
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Because we're Addamses!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Old 08-16-2010, 09:12 AM   #36
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You give more than you get back. His behaviour toward you has changed, you might still be having sex, but the emotion has gone out of it. Almost like the attention he use to give to you is going to someone else.
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Old 08-16-2010, 09:15 AM   #37
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because lack of attention
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Old 08-16-2010, 11:03 AM   #38
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Another guy opinion for you all and I would have to say that besides just being horny, it is probably the need for someone to feel close to in a relationship that has lost it's fire.
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Old 08-16-2010, 11:38 AM   #39
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Pretty much all of the above really
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Old 08-16-2010, 01:01 PM   #40
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Because someone else can make you feel sexy and wanted when your spouse doesn't any longer. Because sometimes you want to be someone else..
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Old 10-24-2010, 06:14 PM   #41
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few reasons, different for different people
1) fill emotional void
2) to feel attractive
3) accidental falling in love
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Old 10-24-2010, 06:17 PM   #42
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Old 10-24-2010, 09:12 PM   #43
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I cheated on my husband before we were married, but we were living together. He had absolutely no interest in sex and he refused to talk to his doctor about it or anything. The opportunity came up with someone that I worked with and we went for it. We were together for a few months and it was great, I have no regrets. Never told my husband, but I think he suspects something was going on.

Not sure if I would ever do it again. I wouldn't right now because things are pretty good with us. But if he ever continually refused me like that, I probably would.
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Old 10-24-2010, 09:39 PM   #44
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Lack of emotional connection after being married so long, drift apart
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Old 10-24-2010, 09:45 PM   #45
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I had my first affair to feel loved, needed, desired, all the things people mentioned here earlier. But now, in a different situation, I realize that I simply crave sex and the connection that comes with it - physical, mental, emotional - and when I find that "trifecta" I'm going to take advantage of it, be it one time or many.
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The man I fell in love with knew my husband very well....because of that, I could talk to him and he made me feel safe and protected, beautiful and special....four years later we still have love for one another.
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Old 10-30-2010, 12:11 PM   #47
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For me it was different reasons at different times. When I first got married, I had to deal with the loss of my mother three months after my wedding. I was 22. I was lost, I felt alone, he was young and missed my mother as much as I did, so he really wasn't the "rock" that I needed. I got to talking to a coworker....he suggested 'hanging out' after work. I laugh now, because it was literally a "five night stand". We hung out a few times, then I switched jobs.

I was okay for a while, good marriage, good sex life....then a few years later, met another coworker....who showed an interest. (He was as interested in oral sex as I was, LOL.) For a good year or more, we'd drive to pick up lunch together....funny though, we never slept together....never even discussed it. Oral was our thing, and we enjoyed it. That ended when I started working for him and his wife, LOL.

A few years ago, I gave my husband the ultimatum to either start showing interest, or I'd stop. I was chatting online in a chatroom at the time....met a guy who I clicked with. We ended up meeting and having a r/l relationship for four years. I fell hard for him.

We ended it as friends....and I recently met a guy on ashleymadison.com that works near me. He's sweet, funny, hot....and things are going well so far. He provides that spark that I don't get at home anymore.
Glad to hear it from a womans perspective, funny it sound like we lived the same home life does your hubby have a female twin? Like you I found my missing spark on AM but sadly it has ended for reasons of falling for each other when we knew we could not.
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Old 10-31-2010, 04:15 AM   #48
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Loneliness and the need to feel desirable. I have always liked adventure .So I have wondered if maybe the fact that it was illicit and knowledge that at anytime we could be caught was what made it more enticing . I think as a women we give and give to family . So the fact that we can find something that is ours only and is so secret is what pushes us over the edge.But then this is just from my own experience.
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because they want to?
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Boredom and or assholes
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