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Old 10-31-2010, 11:38 AM   #51
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I have of couse been with other women in our married life, however only been with thy husband only in an imitate way, tho leaves me curious indeed.
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Old 10-31-2010, 04:54 PM   #52
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attention seeking, too much time on my hands, bored, affection, admiration, good conversation, love or lust, the list goes on and on
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Old 10-31-2010, 06:47 PM   #55
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feeling sexually and emotionally abandoned at home
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Old 11-03-2010, 04:37 PM   #56
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I did it because her made me feel special and HOT We never had sex and mainly wrote each other fantasies.I would have to say me turning 40 and knowing that I could still get my high school sweetheart going was a huge confidence builder.
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Old 11-07-2010, 04:50 PM   #57
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Old 11-07-2010, 10:30 PM   #58
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need to connect emotionaly and sexually
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haven't physically cheated yet ... but for me its definitely the lack of sex .. and when there is sex, its lacking....

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Old 11-08-2010, 09:05 AM   #61
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haven't physically cheated yet ... but for me its definitely the lack of sex .. and when there is sex, its lacking....

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Old 11-08-2010, 09:39 AM   #62
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All good and true, but I'm more interested in the other side of the animal... why is it some couples never cheat, why is it some are happy to sit in a platonic household happy and content.... Yet here there are tonnes of sex starved emotionally strangled people all looking for something else, so why is it the first thing you do is go looking for a replacement, thats like taking up smoking to stop smoking, one drug for another, why not take up knitting or sport.... well I'll tell ya! Its because were hot blooded humans filled with desire and need, like an itch thats got to be scratched it bites and eats you till you deal with it, when the hunger has been satisfied you can slot right back in where you were in the hope you don't get caught or found out, for the sake of a couple hours pleasure you're worried sick or riddled with guilt for days.... I suppose the bigger question is if you were found out could you live with the backlash, would you be happy to lose everything, would you give it all up for these small moments of pleasure.... probably.... yes, were all depraved horny bastards who are not thinking straight... its a double sided knife...
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Is it for the companionship and emotional connection and the sex is the thank you?
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Old 11-08-2010, 01:28 PM   #64
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Needing to be held tightly and kissed and licked and sucked. Just what I do not get at home . Oh and it feels good!!
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Needing to be held tightly and kissed and licked and sucked. Just what I do not get at home . Oh and it feels good!!

I have to agree with you. Being held,kissed, licked and sucked does feel good! You must have read my mind!
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Its all for the emotional and physical needs. Its the need to be wanted. Its the feeling of being attractive to someone sexually. When the person whom you share your life with stops looking, you stop feeling attractive and wanted. So you flirt and when others pay attention, you feel good. We, as humans, are social creatures who want to be petted and loved. Sex is the most intimate thing we have and when we go without, those of us who have drive for more, and aren't getting it at home, are going to go for the path of least resistance. Going without for some, is like starving. It is a pure need.
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Old 11-20-2010, 01:47 PM   #67
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Sometimes the reasons are rather complex, sex is just a factor, but not the main reason for an affair. When almost everything that makes a relationship successful is gone, you begin to look elsewhere, even if it's not the right thing to do, it makes sense at the time.
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Old 11-20-2010, 01:50 PM   #68
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All good and true, but I'm more interested in the other side of the animal... why is it some couples never cheat, why is it some are happy to sit in a platonic household happy and content.... Yet here there are tonnes of sex starved emotionally strangled people all looking for something else, so why is it the first thing you do is go looking for a replacement, thats like taking up smoking to stop smoking, one drug for another, why not take up knitting or sport.... well I'll tell ya! Its because were hot blooded humans filled with desire and need, like an itch thats got to be scratched it bites and eats you till you deal with it, when the hunger has been satisfied you can slot right back in where you were in the hope you don't get caught or found out, for the sake of a couple hours pleasure you're worried sick or riddled with guilt for days.... I suppose the bigger question is if you were found out could you live with the backlash, would you be happy to lose everything, would you give it all up for these small moments of pleasure.... probably.... yes, were all depraved horny bastards who are not thinking straight... its a double sided knife...
Some dont cheat because they are truly happy and satisfied; some because they are afraid and some because there is no demand. Just my opinon
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Old 11-20-2010, 02:00 PM   #69
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The reason PEOPLE cheat is because something is missing from our current relationship. If indeed you pose yourself with the question, and linger upon it something is truly missing from your current. Then you meet someone NEW, and they are exciting and mysterious. The mystery of the other person fuels that fire.....or that itch that needs scratched. In general we become board and complacent in the current roles we have taken up in our relationship. It is up to our SO to be willing to boarden the horizon, or look into something new and exciting. If you have become board maybe it is not your SO at all maybe its you. You have to be willing to share those inner most secrets and desires with the one you love the most. Either way if guilt reers its ugly head its up to you to deal with its backlash if indeed there are any.


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The reason PEOPLE cheat is because something is missing from our current relationship. If indeed you pose yourself with the question, and linger upon it something is truly missing from your current. Then you meet someone NEW, and they are exciting and mysterious. The mystery of the other person fuels that fire.....or that itch that needs scratched. In general we become board and complacent in the current roles we have taken up in our relationship. It is up to our SO to be willing to boarden the horizon, or look into something new and exciting. If you have become board maybe it is not your SO at all maybe its you. You have to be willing to share those inner most secrets and desires with the one you love the most. Either way if guilt reers its ugly head its up to you to deal with its backlash if indeed there are any.


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There was something missing from my relationship from the time I was married.. but as my spouse was unwilling to have premarital sex, I didn't know until I was already married.. but stuck it out now 16 years... trying to make it work.. and I actually was blessed with 2 wonderful daughters.. however... over a period of time when only one person is happy, a relationship can't sustain itself.. 3 years ago.. I gave up finally and am just waiting for the chance to bow out gracefully... because I do love my spouse.. she's like my 3rd sister now... I just can't afford to leave yet..
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There is something missing. It could be an emotional or physical connection. Perhaps the passion is lost.
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Let me say to start with that I am married to a great man ... But I did have an affair... One day I realised that in being everyones everything, he found it acceptable to unknowling humilate me.. So it was validation as a woman outside the constraints of love ... Just to know that I was still needed in every way not just the normal ways.
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Old 01-30-2011, 10:32 PM   #75
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Well I am seriously contemplating an affair! I am married to the sweetest guy who is committed great father and I do love him but the sex life is close to nil and it lacks soooo badly. I've tried discussing it with him but he gets defensive or comes up with excuses. I'm a very physical sort and need sex more than most to feel satisfied and a deep connection with my partner. Im a very attractive woman and take care of myself. It's killing me inside that I have this intense need being unfulfilled and there is no way I can keep going without. I'd love to meet a man who needs the same things that can be a good friend as well. Meet up in a hotel routinely and be close affectionate but also fuck each others brains out and fill each others fantasies mmmm that's what I'd love one day!!!
I've done the cyber affair and continue this but eventually I need the real deal.
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