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Old 07-12-2016, 12:09 PM   #1
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Default Have you ever been with anyone who refuses to say "I'm Sorry?"

So pretty simple; my ex would refuse to apologize, even when she knew she was wrong. It didn't bother me at first, but as the years went by it became a real problem for me.
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Old 07-12-2016, 12:19 PM   #2
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Yes....but fortunately I'm not married to him. My husband usually just takes a few and then will come around and apologize. I'm kind of the same way.
It really takes two to make compromises and without both of you doing it, I can see why that would cause a stalemate.
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Old 07-12-2016, 12:27 PM   #3
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Old 07-12-2016, 07:21 PM   #4
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In general, I think it's these little annoyances that grow into larger problems as the years go by. It could be lack of willingness to apologize or any of hundreds of other things.

We ignore it at first or we may even find it an endearing flaw. Yet, after 10-15 years it becomes intolerable.
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Old 07-12-2016, 07:25 PM   #5
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Ummmm....haven't we all been with women?
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Old 07-12-2016, 07:26 PM   #6
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Maybe not refuse but you have to force it out of them

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Old 07-12-2016, 07:34 PM   #7
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Maybe not refuse but you have to beat it out of them
You might want to rephrase that before you get lynched...just sayin'
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Old 07-12-2016, 07:37 PM   #8
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So pretty simple; my ex would refuse to apologize, even when she knew she was wrong. It didn't bother me at first, but as the years went by it became a real problem for me.
Just out of curiosity would it have made you feel better about it had she apologized knowing she wasn't truly sorry for it? There is a difference between "I'm sorry" and "I apologize" one admits an error they are remorseful for and the other is "gee that's terrible you feel that way".
I personally don't accept "I apologize" in place of "I'm sorry". Depending on the issue I may drop the argument after an "I apologize", but I do not forgive and forget so that puppy is coming out to play another day
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Old 07-12-2016, 07:38 PM   #9
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cough cough....Jill always does that

actually I will apologise for saying that

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I've found if you choke them long enough they'll say it.
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Just out of curiosity would it have made you feel better about it had she apologized knowing she wasn't truly sorry for it? There is a difference between "I'm sorry" and "I apologize" one admits an error they are remorseful for and the other is "gee that's terrible you feel that way".
I personally don't accept "I apologize" in place of "I'm sorry". Depending on the issue I may drop the argument after an "I apologize", but I do not forgive and forget so that puppy is coming out to play another day
I was never going to get either . . . and yes, if someone does something to please me, even if they don't mean it that mean what they're saying, they are making some type of sacrifice in order to help our love grow. That would have been a huge step.
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Is someone in here implying it's a. "woman," thing not to apologize?
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Apologizing is a sign of weakness.
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Apologizing is a sign of weakness.

Say you're sorry.
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Yep - it's why I am here
Thatís why I am here too (at least part of the reason).

No, I donít think itís just a female issue. I believe itís a sign of narcissism and that trait is seen in both genders.
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