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Old 10-15-2008, 03:39 PM   #76
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It amazes me how something so little can get blown way out of the water...
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want me to wash it first?
well of course!!! nothings worse than a dirty vagina!!
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Old 10-15-2008, 03:53 PM   #78
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well of course!!! nothings worse than a dirty vagina!!
why does "a dirty vagina" sound like something you order at a bar?

"excuse me, bartender...can I get a two dirty vaginas...one for me, and one for the lady at the end of the bar?"
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why does "a dirty vagina" sound like something you order at a bar?

"excuse me, bartender...can I get a two dirty vaginas...one for me, and one for the lady at the end of the bar?"
nice!! i don't what would turn me on more...the fact that there was a drink named "dirty vagina" or that someone was actually ordering one for me!!
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why does "a dirty vagina" sound like something you order at a bar?

"excuse me, bartender...can I get a two dirty vaginas...one for me, and one for the lady at the end of the bar?"
That sounds like a drink you would get off the dollar menue...
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nice!! i don't what would turn me on more...the fact that there was a drink named "dirty vagina" or that someone was actually ordering one for me!!
sounds like we need a recipe for a new drink? what exactly would you put in a dirty vagina (yes, I know that is a loaded question)?
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Old 10-15-2008, 04:01 PM   #82
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It amazes me that there is actually a drink named a "dirty pussy." I prefer "dirty vagina" however, it has a bit more "je ne sais quoi"

http://www.drinknation.com/drink/Dirty-Pussy
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sounds like we need a recipe for a new drink? what exactly would you put in a dirty vagina (yes, I know that is a loaded question)?
Tomatoe juice,grapefruit juice,cranberry juice..( wow sounds like a v-8) and a shot of tequilla...
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sounds like we need a recipe for a new drink? what exactly would you put in a dirty vagina (yes, I know that is a loaded question)?
As long as it doesn't have Clamato I'm in!
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Please don't get it twisted...not saying that having common decency for each other is a bad thing. I'm a fan of the Golden Rule like the next guy. We do, however, set ourselves up when we start believing that there are these SHOULDS in the world. Yeah everybody SHOULD be nice to each other. Yeah we SHOULD all get along. Thing is we don't...and that's reality. People are gonna takes shots at each other...we have no control over that. We only can control our behavior and our reaction to the bullshit. Look SW I know you know this all as a former therapist...we can't go around policing everybody...if you're a mean and nasty person you will receive natural consequences....like nobody wanting to associate with you. All that said..I love your compassion and desire for everybody to be treated with respect...it is a great trait and makes you a real special person.
I am not getting it twisted in the least. The fact is, forums are not set up to be open season to take pot shots at people....and I take it personally when people are victims of verbal abuse.as a former therapist. There is no reason for it on a site like this. Words are hurtful, and people on this site are intelligent enough to understand that. Certain people don't seem to care about that, apparently. As a therapist, I would think that you would understand how the recipient of such comments would feel.
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I am amazed that the dispute in here has not found its natural ending. We are all adults, time to move forward.
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I am not getting it twisted in the least. The fact is, forums are not set up to be open season to take pot shots at people....and I take it personally when people are victims of verbal abuse.as a former therapist. There is no reason for it on a site like this. Words are hurtful, and people on this site are intelligent enough to understand that. Certain people don't seem to care about that, apparently. As a therapist, I would think that you would understand how the recipient of such comments would feel.

do you just like to hear urself talk or what...its over!!!! noone is taking "pot shots" at anyone...and since ur not the one these "pot shots" are being directed twards DROP IT.....
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I am not getting it twisted in the least. The fact is, forums are not set up to be open season to take pot shots at people....and I take it personally when people are victims of verbal abuse.as a former therapist. There is no reason for it on a site like this. Words are hurtful, and people on this site are intelligent enough to understand that. Certain people don't seem to care about that, apparently. As a therapist, I would think that you would understand how the recipient of such comments would feel.

I think we are cross talking here. Let me see if I am hearing you. You are saying that it is cruel to intentionally hurt others with words. That words can have a devastating effect on others. It is wrong to hurt others. I agree with all you are saying.

I guess my point is that we live in a world where things happen. It has been very rare that I've seen anybody take an unprovoked shot at another person. What I have seen, mostly, is people being hurt by each other, assuming things, and retaliating directly or passive aggressively. Who are we to go in there and sort al these things out. We are not talking about kids here....these are grown adults. I would rather encourage people to boost their self esteem and ignore those that try to bring them down. Most of the time if you ignore someone they will leave you alone...it's when you take shots back and then act like a victim that it continues.

As a therapist I do see how words can hurt. I also am pleased to say I have helped people develop a healthy self worth and look at such attacks as cries for help from people that do not love themselves and instead try to bring others down to their level.

Thanks for having this discussion with me SW. It is refreshing to disagree and have an adult conversation about it. Tolerance is another one of your more attrative traits.
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I am amazed that the dispute in here has not found its natural ending. We are all adults, time to move forward.
Well sometimes adults need to process these issues. I think we should all sit down and enjoy a couple of Dirty Vaginas...I'm buying.
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I take it someone is on timeout.
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Well sometimes adults need to process these issues. I think we should all sit down and enjoy a couple of Dirty Vaginas...I'm buying.
woo hoo if ur buying..i'm so there!! nothing like a stiff dirty vagina
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I take it someone is on timeout.
That's an understatement... but I really can't blame them... they were smarter than their parents and are quite shocked that my husband and I can figure out most of their lies!!! Hopefully one day they will figure it out and start doing right...
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woo hoo if ur buying..i'm so there!! nothing like a stiff dirty vagina
Heck yeah...it's on me. Have on of your own...I don't share my vagina with others.
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I think we are cross talking here. Let me see if I am hearing you. You are saying that it is cruel to intentionally hurt others with words. That words can have a devastating effect on others. It is wrong to hurt others. I agree with all you are saying.

I guess my point is that we live in a world where things happen. It has been very rare that I've seen anybody take an unprovoked shot at another person. What I have seen, mostly, is people being hurt by each other, assuming things, and retaliating directly or passive aggressively. Who are we to go in there and sort al these things out. We are not talking about kids here....these are grown adults. I would rather encourage people to boost their self esteem and ignore those that try to bring them down. Most of the time if you ignore someone they will leave you alone...it's when you take shots back and then act like a victim that it continues.

As a therapist I do see how words can hurt. I also am pleased to say I have helped people develop a healthy self worth and look at such attacks as cries for help from people that do not love themselves and instead try to bring others down to their level.

Thanks for having this discussion with me SW. It is refreshing to disagree and have an adult conversation about it. Tolerance is another one of your more attrative traits.
I guess we are not seeing things the same way. I have seen people take an unproved shot at another here, as in real life. Do you really feel that turning the other cheek and allowing it to continue to be the best solution to deal with someone who is bullying another? I disagree, as a former therapist.

I have helped many people myself, Hyde, but I do not think allowing a bully to continue is the best way to deal with one. I also feel that such behavior is childish and inapproriate for an adult site. Let's all act like grown adults and not like children. An open forum is not the place to deal with this. PMs are better suited to resolving differences, where everyone is not sucked in.
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Well sometimes adults need to process these issues. I think we should all sit down and enjoy a couple of Dirty Vaginas...I'm buying.
Thank you, but no...not a drink for me
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It amazes me that a forum that I set up for fun and for sharing truly amazing thoughts has become such a source of contention.

Sometimes I'm sorry that I started this. It was meant as a fun place to share little things that amaze or confound us in life, not as a forum for vitriol.

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It amazes me that a forum that I set up for fun and for sharing truly amazing thoughts has become such a source of contention.

Sometimes I'm sorry that I started this. It was meant as a fun place to share little things that amaze or confound us in life, not as a forum for this ...

I'm truly sorry.
Don't be sorry hun. I know your intentions were good. I am sorry it went astray....but it can always be pulled back to it's original purpose.
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