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Old 05-28-2011, 05:20 PM   #1
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How much do you put up with from your spouce? What's a deal breaker for you. When I first started dating my husband I told him what I do not tolerate the one thing that will send me walking through the door. And yet he does it and for some reason I'm still with him. Love clouds (for lack of better words) judgment.
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so what is his deal breaker?
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Old 05-28-2011, 05:29 PM   #3
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Drugs. I have always said I would leave if he went to drugs and yet he does them ad I'm still here.
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Drugs. I have always said I would leave if he went to drugs and yet he does them ad I'm still here.
sorry to hear that.
When I was your age I smoked a lot but that was it. My ex did also.
You are so young. If it bothers you that much and you don't have kids then I would suggest that you leave his ass,,,
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Old 05-28-2011, 05:42 PM   #5
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We have a kid and I don't mind smoking tobaco or pot but hard core drugs I don't like. It cost me out house and his good job. We turned over a new leave but its the same old crap! A part of me wants to leave because I'm ony 21 I could be out there having fun! Sorry about the venting!

But really I'm wondering what rules you break for a loved one?
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Old 05-28-2011, 05:44 PM   #6
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I think we need Dear Abby on this one......just sayin....
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Old 05-28-2011, 05:49 PM   #7
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I think we need Dear Abby on this one......just sayin....
I apologize for the bore fest! Just curious what you all put up with
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Old 05-28-2011, 05:50 PM   #8
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Drugs. I have always said I would leave if he went to drugs and yet he does them ad I'm still here.


Sweetie....you are so young. You have your entire life ahead of you. Being around someone who takes drugs is not the place to be. The drugs will become priority - not you. And if you have children....you are (or will - if you don't have any yet) be endangering them. I know it is hard, because love can sometimes blind you. Look deep within your heart....if you had a daughter and she was with someone who did drugs what would you tell her?.....You know what the answer would be. I pray you find the strength to make the right choices. I pray that you find the life that you so richly deserve.
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right now i seem to be putting up with someone who never seems to be happy. might be menopause though so i will give her the benefit of the doubt and hope she grows out of it
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Sweetie....you are so young. You have your entire life ahead of you. Being around someone who takes drugs is not the place to be. The drugs will become priority - not you. And if you have children....you are (or will - if you don't have any yet) be endangering them. I know it is hard, because love can sometimes blind you. Look deep within your heart....if you had a daughter and she was with someone who did drugs what would you tell her?.....You know what the answer would be. I pray you find the strength to make the right choices. I pray that you find the life that you so richly deserve.
Thank you. I think I'm just hoping that he will stop and yes I do have a son and they have such a great relationship I would hate to come between that.
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Old 05-28-2011, 05:57 PM   #11
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right now i seem to be putting up with someone who never seems to be happy. might be menopause though so i will give her the benefit of the doubt and hope she grows out of it
I have been there before! Gets old to quick. It always ruins my good mood!
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What do I put up with for love?

1. The toilet seat.
2. He snores.
3. He steals my chocolate on occasion.
4. He never washes my jeep.
5. He constantly fusses over me, like I need looking after.
6. He nags.
7. He straightens up my tupperware cupboard constantly.
8. He cooks lousy pancakes.
9. He never puts the laundry away.
10. But I wouldn't give him up for anyone. He has to put up with me.
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Old 05-28-2011, 06:22 PM   #13
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The good almost always over powers the bad!
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Old 05-28-2011, 11:33 PM   #14
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I stopped putting up with it. I put up with a lot for 10 years though!
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doesn't sound like much i know .. but i have put up with his submissive, whiny, puppy-dog, little kid, ways for too long and i am tired of being his "mom"

nicest guy you'd ever meet, great friend, but sadly ... just not what i want / need and i do hate what i am going to do to him... but i have to .. for my own sanity
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...the distance that separates us...
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I put up with a lot. A coyote crapped on my front walkway.......but did he clean it up......NO sir !!! He tossed some sawdust on it and said he did the hard job so could I clean it up.

Needless to say it is still sitting there. I will give him an ultimatum later.
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Health problems, NO sex, laziness, irresponsibilty, lack of affection...neglect.
(I got the whole....you have to get more than you give thing, but at some point it reaches ridiculaus levels.)

Now, NOW I tolorate mushiness at crazy levels. LOL. I know, I have TONS to complain about.
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[quote=Savvyone;2805369]What do I put up with for love?

3. He steals my chocolate on occasion.

He does?? You'd better hide me good next time he comes home, babes!
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I'll put up with everything, until the love runs out. Although, the lousy pancake thing Savvy mentioned earlier would definitely be a deal breaker for me. We have to draw the line somewhere. That's just bad...
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I forgot on my last posting to add the "evil little laugh" after the ultimatum.
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