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Old 07-10-2016, 11:46 AM   #1
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Default Fate or creating your destiny?

So do you believe in fate, or in creating your destiny?

I'm for creating my destiny, because nothing good seems to happen to me without hard work!

(I wonder whether this is related somewhat to the question of being the chaser or chasee?)
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Old 07-10-2016, 12:19 PM   #2
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A little bit of both. I'm a firm believer in "everything for a reason" but if I see something going in the direction I'm hoping for then I'll give it an assist to make sure destiny happens.
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Old 07-10-2016, 12:37 PM   #3
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This is a topic debated since the ancient Greeks, but I'll side with German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer.
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Old 07-10-2016, 12:39 PM   #4
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This is a topic debated since the ancient Greeks, but I'll side with German philosopher Arthur Schopenhauer.
Wasn't he the creator of anal sex?
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Old 07-10-2016, 12:42 PM   #5
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Wasn't he the creator of anal sex?
Let's not go down that rabbit, er, hole.
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Old 07-10-2016, 12:50 PM   #6
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I believe we all have a predefined journey in life, but what makes it unique to each of us is our "free will" to choose which path we take at each junction to get to the next level or the end. I don't think life is supposed to be about the work you put into it, but more about the lesson's or experiences you learned from it.
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A man can be himself only so long as he is alone, and if he does not love solitude, he will not love freedom, for it is only when he is alone that he is really free.

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Old 07-10-2016, 12:58 PM   #9
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Old 07-10-2016, 01:01 PM   #10
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If the idea of destiny was true then most people could just sit on their donut and good things would just come their way.

Nope. You have to get off your donut and make it happen.
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Old 07-11-2016, 12:34 AM   #11
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The premise is already an oxymoron.
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Old 07-11-2016, 12:43 AM   #12
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Old 07-11-2016, 01:01 AM   #13
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I've always preferred choose your own adventure books to romance novels.
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I agree on creating your own destiny but obviously a little luck along the way helps.
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Old 11-03-2018, 12:20 PM   #15
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God helps those who help themselves.
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Old 11-03-2018, 01:32 PM   #16
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This is an interesting viewpoint related to this subject. What bible are you reading?
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Old 11-03-2018, 03:21 PM   #17
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I believe we make decisions that shape our on destiny... but those decisions are already known and predicted by fate..
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This is an interesting viewpoint related to this subject. What bible are you reading?
It was right there in Zunnidi 4:18
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I believe we make decisions that shape our on destiny... but those decisions are already known and predicted by fate..
I knew you were going to say that.
But you couldn't have known that I knew until after you said it.
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Our talents themselves are what makes us beautiful.

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We can always make choices that shape our destiny, but the choices we are offered are usually a result of fate.
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I believe our destiny is chosen. That the decisions we make just make our journey long and involved or short and sweet.
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