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Old 09-05-2008, 11:35 AM   #1
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Hi to all here if u new what u know now would u get married again? I am keen for any input to this question.
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Old 09-05-2008, 11:46 AM   #2
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Great question. One I'm sure we have all thought about numerous times.
When you say "get married again", do you mean to the same person or just marriage in general?

I would say yes to both. I have a great relationship with my wife and have no regrets. Do I think about what it would be like to be single? Absolutely.
If you were to make a list, there would be pros and cons, positives and negatives, but in my case I would do it again.
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Old 09-05-2008, 01:07 PM   #3
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The one thing I have learned about myself over the past few years is that I am someone who should never have married in the first place. So that would be a no for me.
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Old 09-05-2008, 01:09 PM   #4
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Good question, I probably would have finished school first.
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Old 09-05-2008, 01:44 PM   #5
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No, I was too young, and I chose to get married as a way out of my life. I felt it would be easier, and I was tired (emotionally, mentally and physically) of dealing with family issues...I thought being married would solve my problems and allow me to grow up. It didn't, it just presented different problems and I realize today, that I was growing up, just with a lot more responsibility then what most people my age had to deal with and if I had not listened to my husband, I would have gotten through it.

If there is a next time that I do get married, it will be for the right reasons and not because I need to run away from my life or believe I can't do things on my own.
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Old 09-05-2008, 01:49 PM   #6
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Of course I'd do it all again......I waited until I found my Mr.Right and married him....I'd marry him over and over if I had to!
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Old 09-05-2008, 02:48 PM   #7
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No I do not think so. The security is nice and my kids are unreplaceable but the utopia of marriage is not what I thought it would be. Most of the married friends I have be it M or F feel the same way.

I guess I am just down on the whole marriage thing!
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Old 09-05-2008, 02:58 PM   #8
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WOW, what a GREAT question. Knowing what I know now... no, I would not do it.
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Old 09-05-2008, 03:00 PM   #9
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I would get married but make different choices.
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Old 09-05-2008, 03:05 PM   #10
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Yes, I would.....
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Old 09-05-2008, 03:15 PM   #11
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Welcome Antman.

I have come to a similar conclusion as NotTooGirly's: as much as I love my kids, if I had a "do over", I would (and should) stay unmarried for life.
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Old 09-05-2008, 03:50 PM   #12
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Without the slightest hesitation I say " absolutely positively without a doubt HELL NO!!!"
I wouldnt marry him again even if you paid me a million dollars!
It is just a sham I wasted so many precious years wth him.
Ah well live and learn eh?
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Old 09-05-2008, 03:57 PM   #13
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Of course and probably earlier...
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Married??? At this rate I may not have chosen to be born.
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Old 09-05-2008, 04:28 PM   #15
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I'll just quote myself from another thread. It's easier and still ups my post count.

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If I were single again, I don't think I would get married a second time. I'd be more than willing to get into a long term, monogamous, relationship. But, I would feel no compulsion to get married. Conversely, I would also have fun going out with some arm candy.

On a side note, if my hypothetical single self of the future had the opportunity to travel back and give advice to my single self of the past, I would still recommend getting married. I guess I just have the view that there is a finite window in which to start a family and I'm getting beyond that window.
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Old 09-05-2008, 05:05 PM   #16
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I think I would have still gotten married, but:

1) I would have waited until I was older

2) Not married the man I'm married to now
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Old 09-05-2008, 05:09 PM   #17
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Yeah with the RIGHT guy I would have......
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Very interesting responses...brings out a lot of emotion regardless of the answer.
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I agree with Red...

would've waited a bit longer... and would've made a better choice
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not to the man I am married to now...but I would to someone who truly loved me and treated me well...
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I would still have gotten married, but I would have made some ground rules first. LOL
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In a heartbeat but I would have waited until I found the right person.
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I would have waited longer...and who knows what would have happened in that time.
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I like being married....just not to my husband. I love belonging to and with a man, being a couple....and when I love someone, I am very faithful.
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It is sad that allot of us say if it was to the "right" person. That is my concern, how the hell do we know who the right person is?
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