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Old 06-14-2013, 01:39 AM   #1
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Default What Do You Do When The Loneliness Becomes Too Much?

OK--I've never had an affair. Probably never will. I love to flirt and mostly just want to feel that I'm not a complete loser doomed to a celibate marriage. But there are times when I feel so trapped in a marriage that has ceased to have any physical element at all. No sex in years. No kissing. No touching. Nothing. I can't remember the last time I was touched in any kind of affectionate way. What do you do when you can't stand it anymore, but don't feel you could manage an affair and would feel guilty having casual sex? Is anyone else in the same boat? How do you handle it when you're tired of just handling yourself?
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Old 06-14-2013, 01:49 AM   #2
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Old 06-14-2013, 01:59 AM   #3
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This is a great place for you to be - where you can talk with others who will understand how you feel. Just talking about it can help more than you know.
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Old 06-14-2013, 02:56 AM   #7
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This is a great place for you to be - where you can talk with others who will understand how you feel. Just talking about it can help more than you know.
I agree - hang here a while and then you will feel better or do something different.
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Old 06-14-2013, 07:15 AM   #9
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This is a great place for you to be - where you can talk with others who will understand how you feel. Just talking about it can help more than you know.
That's why I am in this Forum...
Trying to find something to help my loneliness..
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OK--I've never had an affair. Probably never will. I love to flirt and mostly just want to feel that I'm not a complete loser doomed to a celibate marriage. But there are times when I feel so trapped in a marriage that has ceased to have any physical element at all. No sex in years. No kissing. No touching. Nothing. I can't remember the last time I was touched in any kind of affectionate way. What do you do when you can't stand it anymore, but don't feel you could manage an affair and would feel guilty having casual sex? Is anyone else in the same boat? How do you handle it when you're tired of just handling yourself?
Well, for anyone paying attention you have described my situation quite well. And I have been doing counseling but that only does so much. It doesn’t fix the other person. Being here and having good friends helps (can never have too many frankly) a bunch, probably more than I realize. But a person truly needs something/someone in real life. Ideally getting involved in outside the house activities is probably the best bet.
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