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Old 08-18-2007, 05:10 PM   #101
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No, he left early this morning and won't be back until at least 1 or 2:00am. He's working his second job to keep me supplied with bon-bons and champaign.
I am so relieved that someone elses husband works 2 jobs...My poor Hank isn't the only one...

Ya...that's why he does it too, I have to have bon-bons and mojito mix....
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I am so relieved that someone elses husband works 2 jobs...My poor Hank isn't the only one...

Ya...that's why he does it too, I have to have bon-bons and mojito mix....
Sometimes I wonder how he manages! He takes about 3 months a year off, but that man does work so hard to make sure we have what we need.
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Old 08-18-2007, 05:20 PM   #103
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Sometimes I wonder how he manages! He takes about 3 months a year off, but that man does work so hard to make sure we have what we need.
I know exactly...Hank has off Oct, Nov, Dec...but he bust's his ass the rest of the year. My job is so mentally draining that I could not have a second one. I do try and make extra money though by sewing and decorating cakes. Hell its supposed to get easier after the kids leave....NOT !!!

Oh well...we have to roll with the punches and relieve our stress in pleasant ways...anybody wanna f**k...
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Not all that good today...computer at home needed new hard drive...got one...brought it home and the new drive tuned out to be a POS...went back for a new one (on them)...this is already over a week...new one put in...another week...they didn't load drivers like i asked them to...cant get them online...now when I boot is says "hard drive failure"...

Other'n the psychotic tantrum I just threw, it's a gorgeous day...got beer...and lookin' fer trouble...
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Old 08-18-2007, 05:40 PM   #105
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I know exactly...Hank has off Oct, Nov, Dec...but he bust's his ass the rest of the year. My job is so mentally draining that I could not have a second one. I do try and make extra money though by sewing and decorating cakes. Hell its supposed to get easier after the kids leave....NOT !!!

Oh well...we have to roll with the punches and relieve our stress in pleasant ways...anybody wanna f**k...
I feel guilty sometimes, like when I know he's over-tired and Nicky wakes him on Sundays. My job is pretty physical and my health isn't what it should be so there's no way I could even put in 40 hours. It's getting better... at least last week I got in 5 days.

I sure do need that man... along with feeling guilty is also gratitude.
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Jazzy will kill me!! But I have to admit, it has been a boozy food filled day! I know I'll regret it in the morning, but it was a lot of fun!
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Feeling a bit anxious today. My daughter will be leaving us for the first time in 18 years and going off to college on Tuesday. So we're getting her things packed and making last minute trips to get her the things she will need. I have a feeling it will be quite an emotional day on Tuesday. I know things just won't be the same here with her gone.
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I f***ing HORRIBLE!!!! Is this what 13 yrs of marriage really has come to ??
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I am tired....drove home from a funeral for a friend and just plain exhausted.
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Its your turn for some sleep....
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Feeling a bit anxious today. My daughter will be leaving us for the first time in 18 years and going off to college on Tuesday. So we're getting her things packed and making last minute trips to get her the things she will need. I have a feeling it will be quite an emotional day on Tuesday. I know things just won't be the same here with her gone.
Sweetdream...I know what that feels like. The first day we sent our daughter to college was so traumatic for us. It is not like sending them to kindergarten or to high school. She was likewise very worried about her first day. Fortunately for her, she almost immediately made friends while moving in to her dorm room, that she has maintained to this day! I will be thinking of you this Tuesday.
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But you have just woken me up!!! I am ready to go girl!!
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But you have just woken me up!!! I am ready to go girl!!
So much for tucking you in....
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Sweetdream...I know what that feels like. The first day we sent our daughter to college was so traumatic for us. It is not like sending them to kindergarten or to high school. She was likewise very worried about her first day. Fortunately for her, she almost immediately made friends while moving in to her dorm room, that she has maintained to this day! I will be thinking of you this Tuesday.
Thank you Bob. I really appreciate your thoughts. I'm sure things will go well. Just a little scary. We worry about her when she goes out at night and now we won't know what she'll be doing day to day. I guess that's where all the hard work of raising them right pays off.
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I feel drained and lonely. I skipped dinner tonight then tried to get my run in and had no energy for it. Hubby is gone fishing like usual on the weekends. He is either at work or fishing. Not much time for me.
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I feel drained and lonely. I skipped dinner tonight then tried to get my run in and had no energy for it. Hubby is gone fishing like usual on the weekends. He is either at work or fishing. Not much time for me.
That's a lot of fishing hun... have you talked to him about it?
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Yes but I dont mind that he goes sometimes so he has a chance to on wind from working so work.
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Feeling a bit anxious today. My daughter will be leaving us for the first time in 18 years and going off to college on Tuesday. So we're getting her things packed and making last minute trips to get her the things she will need. I have a feeling it will be quite an emotional day on Tuesday. I know things just won't be the same here with her gone.
Aww, I understand completely! I've been through this already with both of our older two sons. The first one was really hard, not just because he was the first, but also because he was attending a college 1000 miles from home. We knew he would come home only at Christmas break and summers.

When we took our second son to start college a year ago, it was almost a piece of cake! He is only about 100 miles away, so he can come home frequently (not that he DOES, but he COULD!).

Two down, one to go (in two more years), and I promise you, it does get easier. Sure, you may shed some tears in the coming weeks, but as you see your daughter thrive, learn, make new friends, exhibit maturity, and become involved in college in the ways that suit her.........pride will replace your sadness. You'll know in your heart that she is where she needs to be at this point in her life.

Keep us posted as to how she (and YOU) are doing!
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I f***ing HORRIBLE!!!! Is this what 13 yrs of marriage really has come to ??
I'm so sorry hun I wish I could tell you everything will work out and be fine, but even I don't have all the answers.

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Aww, I understand completely! I've been through this already with both of our older two sons. The first one was really hard, not just because he was the first, but also because he was attending a college 1000 miles from home. We knew he would come home only at Christmas break and summers.

When we took our second son to start college a year ago, it was almost a piece of cake! He is only about 100 miles away, so he can come home frequently (not that he DOES, but he COULD!).

Two down, one to go (in two more years), and I promise you, it does get easier. Sure, you may shed some tears in the coming weeks, but as you see your daughter thrive, learn, make new friends, exhibit maturity, and become involved in college in the ways that suit her.........pride will replace your sadness. You'll know in your heart that she is where she needs to be at this point in her life.

Keep us posted as to how she (and YOU) are doing!
Thanks Amaretto. I appreciate your thoughts and experience. I will certainly report back on how things go on Tuesday. It should be an exciting day!
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