Are you attracted to intelligence? - Page 2

dixiechik · 07-14-2010, 06:01 PM

Intelligence who knows? You can be the biggest dumbass on earth but class and self respect it a must.

Sergeant Pepper · 07-14-2010, 06:02 PM

Somehow I manage to find the most intelligent. Apparently, I am.

Cadence · 07-14-2010, 06:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Rex

It's always relevant to how the intelligence is applied.
Book-smarts, and pieces of framed parchment mean less than critical thinking and logic.

just my opinion

Totally agree. My husband hated school...but I have never managed to beat him in a game of chess. Ever. It's one of my favourite things about him

Yes, I can play. Have taught it, even. No comments from the peanut gallery.

woedude74 · 07-14-2010, 06:17 PM

I don't do the dumb thing. There is nothing that is a bigger turn off... well... except slime in personal spots... but really... that rarely happens, right?

sexychitchat(m) · 07-14-2010, 06:18 PM

no not at all persoanality and humor goes a long way with me

woedude74 · 07-14-2010, 06:21 PM

Ok, I guess i should revisit my initial post. I am not saying I need a frickin' rocket scientist, or a chick genetically engineering a cure for blue balls... but a strong enough grasp of concepts so that we can effectively communicate would be nice... probably required.

Big O · 07-14-2010, 06:28 PM

I agree with Rex. Intelligence comes in all forms. Book smarts to street smarts. I am better with street smarts. As long as I can carry on a conversation with a woman and she can peak my interest in what she talks about then yes, It is attractive to me.

SirFox · 07-14-2010, 06:30 PM

I am afraid that I become bored easily so the lady in question has to have street smarts but also be intelligent and be culturally viable..and curious....

Tiglet · 07-14-2010, 06:35 PM

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Originally Posted by woedude74

Ok, I guess i should revisit my initial post. I am not saying I need a frickin' rocket scientist, or a chick genetically engineering a cure for blue balls... but a strong enough grasp of concepts so that we can effectively communicate would be nice... probably required.

So ya mean like, um, 2 + 2 = 4 (unless you're an accountant) does it for you

wan2b · 07-14-2010, 06:46 PM

I have yet to find a women who hasn't out smarted me in one way or another. I'll take a clever one who can make believe anything that I want her to be.

Loves2Flirt · 07-14-2010, 06:51 PM

I love a man who has some intelligence, but not TOO smart that he can't let loose and have fun. For me, humor is sooooooooo sexy.

redcat · 07-14-2010, 06:52 PM

Oh good greef...now u wont intelugenz too? *goes to sit in the corner, playing with rocks*

woedude74 · 07-14-2010, 06:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Loves2Flirt

I love a man who has some intelligence, but not TOO smart that he can't let loose and have fun. For me, humor is sooooooooo sexy.

Damn. I have the funny bone of a gnat... ON CRACK!

Rex · 07-14-2010, 07:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Loves2Flirt

I love a man who has some intelligence, but not TOO smart that he can't let loose and have fun. For me, humor is sooooooooo sexy.

The best humor, has roots in reality. Intelligence, in it's many forms, may be utilized in pure, raw humor.

And appreciation of such humor, takes intelligence as well.

I hope you're laughing.

Loves2Flirt · 07-14-2010, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by woedude74

Damn. I have the funny bone of a gnat... ON CRACK!

Nice..........bring it! Let's see whatcha got!!!!!

cougarmomma · 07-14-2010, 07:10 PM

I'm attracted to a man with some intelligence sure. I look more for his overall personality and how he treats me. Could be the smartest guy in the world but if he doesn't treat me well, then I'm not attracted to him.

lawdog. · 07-14-2010, 07:27 PM

As long as they can converse and make sense, I'm good

PA Loverboy · 07-14-2010, 07:30 PM

Intelligence? Sure, I love a woman that can hold a conversation on a number of different subjects. And has a good sense of humor & sharp wit.
But over-educated or high-brow? Big turnoff. I work with a lot of these types every day, I truly pity their husbands or boyfriends.

likesbuttons · 07-14-2010, 07:33 PM

smart ,witty and a bit arrogant.....yes may i have some more...

Tempest · 07-14-2010, 07:45 PM

Very much so. I love a good debate. Or just hearing someone be able to speak intelligently about what makes them happy. Or mad for that matter... But it has to be mixed with a good dose of humor.

Ivan · 07-14-2010, 08:10 PM

drkcloud · 07-14-2010, 08:21 PM

intelligence yeh it can be attractive unless its attached to Mr. Spock

EasyGrin · 07-14-2010, 08:27 PM

Intelligence and confidence are an excellent mix

Simply Just Me(f) · 07-14-2010, 08:37 PM

Yes.. intelligence is good.. makes for an interesting conversation(even sometimes when its over my head).. .. but so is humor very important.. and then mixed with confidence makes a deadly combination .......

~***~ · 07-14-2010, 08:40 PM

Yes. I love being able to have a good conversation with someone that has some intelligence. But someone too smart can be obnoxious!

07-14-2010, 06:01 PM	#26
dixiechik Can you see me now? Join Date: Apr 2008 Location: Where peaches grow and the confederate flag flows Age: 48 Posts: 24,322 Thanks: 7,238 Thanked 9,251 Times in 5,956 Posts	Intelligence who knows? You can be the biggest dumbass on earth but class and self respect it a must. __________________ *If I offend you cry me a river, I'll bring snacks and a raft. I will literally float down your tears while munching on chips and working on my tan.*

07-14-2010, 06:02 PM	#27
Sergeant Pepper . Join Date: Oct 2009 Posts: 4,946 Thanks: 606 Thanked 586 Times in 541 Posts	Somehow I manage to find the most intelligent. Apparently, I am. __________________ The opposite of love is not HATE, it's indifference.

07-14-2010, 06:17 PM	#29
woedude74 I am starving... Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Earth. Age: 44 Posts: 1,387 Thanks: 173 Thanked 350 Times in 279 Posts Blog Entries: 1	I don't do the dumb thing. There is nothing that is a bigger turn off... well... except slime in personal spots... but really... that rarely happens, right? __________________ ~ And there she was..

07-14-2010, 06:18 PM	#30
sexychitchat(m) HW&S with TINK Join Date: Mar 2010 Age: 64 Posts: 9,917 Thanks: 37 Thanked 426 Times in 402 Posts Blog Entries: 3	no not at all persoanality and humor goes a long way with me __________________ ]

07-14-2010, 06:21 PM	#31
woedude74 I am starving... Join Date: Jul 2010 Location: Earth. Age: 44 Posts: 1,387 Thanks: 173 Thanked 350 Times in 279 Posts Blog Entries: 1	Ok, I guess i should revisit my initial post. I am not saying I need a frickin' rocket scientist, or a chick genetically engineering a cure for blue balls... but a strong enough grasp of concepts so that we can effectively communicate would be nice... probably required. __________________ ~ And there she was..

07-14-2010, 06:28 PM	#32
Big O Flirting God Join Date: Jun 2005 Location: no shirt, no shoes, no problem.... Age: 62 Posts: 28,191 Thanks: 3,050 Thanked 3,690 Times in 3,073 Posts	I agree with Rex. Intelligence comes in all forms. Book smarts to street smarts. I am better with street smarts. As long as I can carry on a conversation with a woman and she can peak my interest in what she talks about then yes, It is attractive to me.

07-14-2010, 06:30 PM	#33
SirFox Flirting God Join Date: Oct 2005 Location: Southwest France Age: 65 Posts: 21,774 Thanks: 1,287 Thanked 1,678 Times in 1,424 Posts	I am afraid that I become bored easily so the lady in question has to have street smarts but also be intelligent and be culturally viable..and curious.... __________________

07-14-2010, 06:46 PM	#35
wan2b Flirting Demon Join Date: Jul 2009 Age: 59 Posts: 4,326 Thanks: 212 Thanked 393 Times in 370 Posts Blog Entries: 10	I have yet to find a women who hasn't out smarted me in one way or another. I'll take a clever one who can make believe anything that I want her to be. __________________ THERE IS NO SUBSTITUTE FOR CONFIDENCE

07-14-2010, 06:51 PM	#36
Loves2Flirt Confidently Me Join Date: Jul 2008 Age: 41 Posts: 8,658 Thanks: 2,478 Thanked 1,488 Times in 1,177 Posts	I love a man who has some intelligence, but not TOO smart that he can't let loose and have fun. For me, humor is sooooooooo sexy. __________________ Your time is short, so don't waste it living someone else's life!

07-14-2010, 06:52 PM	#37
redcat Forum Leader Join Date: Sep 2007 Location: Currently NC Age: 62 Posts: 31,252 Thanks: 19,690 Thanked 13,459 Times in 8,573 Posts Blog Entries: 32	Oh good greef...now u wont intelugenz too? goes to sit in the corner, playing with rocks

07-14-2010, 07:10 PM	#41
cougarmomma Ready's lady Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: East coast gal Age: 50 Posts: 12,391 Thanks: 2,640 Thanked 2,884 Times in 2,095 Posts	I'm attracted to a man with some intelligence sure. I look more for his overall personality and how he treats me. Could be the smartest guy in the world but if he doesn't treat me well, then I'm not attracted to him.

07-14-2010, 07:27 PM	#42
lawdog. Flirting Guest I Love It Here Join Date: Apr 2009 Age: 46 Posts: 2,366 Thanks: 89 Thanked 187 Times in 162 Posts	As long as they can converse and make sense, I'm good

07-14-2010, 07:30 PM	#43
PA Loverboy Internet Ho Join Date: Jan 2009 Location: Keystone State Age: 55 Posts: 2,511 Thanks: 696 Thanked 587 Times in 435 Posts	Intelligence? Sure, I love a woman that can hold a conversation on a number of different subjects. And has a good sense of humor & sharp wit. But over-educated or high-brow? Big turnoff. I work with a lot of these types every day, I truly pity their husbands or boyfriends. __________________ Living the dream.....

07-14-2010, 07:33 PM	#44
likesbuttons Flirting Guest I Love It Here Join Date: Apr 2006 Age: 53 Posts: 2,844 Thanks: 148 Thanked 190 Times in 161 Posts	smart ,witty and a bit arrogant.....yes may i have some more...

07-14-2010, 07:45 PM	#45
Tempest Flirting Guest I Love It Here Join Date: Jun 2009 Age: 45 Posts: 13,707 Thanks: 4,980 Thanked 2,883 Times in 2,258 Posts	Very much so. I love a good debate. Or just hearing someone be able to speak intelligently about what makes them happy. Or mad for that matter... But it has to be mixed with a good dose of humor.

07-14-2010, 08:10 PM	#46
Ivan Flirting God Join Date: May 2010 Location: Europe / USA Age: 61 Posts: 12,225 Thanks: 5,360 Thanked 6,618 Times in 4,047 Posts	... Last edited by Ivan; 09-11-2010 at 10:22 PM.

07-14-2010, 08:21 PM	#47
drkcloud live, laugh, love Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: PA Sunny tropical scranton Age: 55 Posts: 4,023 Thanks: 1,206 Thanked 1,016 Times in 747 Posts	intelligence yeh it can be attractive unless its attached to Mr. Spock

07-14-2010, 08:27 PM	#48
EasyGrin Flirt In Waiting I Love It Here Join Date: Jul 2010 Posts: 2,742 Thanks: 571 Thanked 788 Times in 665 Posts	Intelligence and confidence are an excellent mix

07-14-2010, 08:37 PM	#49
Simply Just Me(f) ..... .. 🌻🌻🌻🌼🌼🌼. Join Date: Oct 2009 Location: the best place Age: 50 Posts: 10,932 Thanks: 2,336 Thanked 2,035 Times in 1,676 Posts Blog Entries: 2	Yes.. intelligence is good.. makes for an interesting conversation(even sometimes when its over my head).. .. but so is humor very important.. and then mixed with confidence makes a deadly combination ....... __________________

07-14-2010, 08:40 PM	#50
~***~ Flirting Guest Flirting Gold Member Join Date: Jun 2010 Age: 31 Posts: 548 Thanks: 33 Thanked 71 Times in 57 Posts	Yes. I love being able to have a good conversation with someone that has some intelligence. But someone too smart can be obnoxious!