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Old 07-15-2012, 10:32 AM   #1
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Has anyone ever made the jump and met someone from this site face to face?And if you did meet was it no strings attached or a lasting relationship? New and curious.
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Old 07-15-2012, 10:36 AM   #2
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I have met two people off of this site. Both are still my friends and I suspect they always will be.
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Old 07-15-2012, 10:38 AM   #3
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I've met one man from this site and plan on seeing him again in 8 days. I've met a couple of the ladies and plan to still. It is what you make of it.
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Old 07-15-2012, 10:45 AM   #4
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I've met a few, friends and acquaintances both.. some will always remain just acquaintances, and a few will always be my friend...
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I've done both.
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Old 07-15-2012, 10:57 AM   #6
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Old 07-15-2012, 11:09 AM   #7
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I've meet one person from here.. it will be 5 years ago in October.. though we aren't in each others lives anymore, I still look back on our friendship and time together with fond memories and a smile on my face..

everyone comes here seeking different things, some don't know what they are looking for until they find it.. you just have to keep in mind that most of the people on here are married with children and will never be in a position to truly be yours.. so if you do become close with someone, you have to be content with whatever time you do have together..
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I've meet one person from here.. it will be 5 years ago in October.. though we aren't in each others lives anymore, I still look back on our friendship and time together with fond memories and a smile on my face..

everyone comes here seeking different things, some don't know what they are looking for until they find it.. you just have to keep in mind that most of the people on here are married with children and will never be in a position to truly be yours.. so if you do become close with someone, you have to be content with whatever time you do have together..
Secrets you got the right attitude. Thanks for your valuable input!
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I have not met anyone from the site, i don't know if that is an option that is available for me because of my location! I keep an open mind and I suppose that if they were worth it I would make the effort to get closer!
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Old 07-15-2012, 02:09 PM   #11
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I met two people. I would do it again in a heartbeat with the right person under the right circumstances.
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Old 07-15-2012, 02:10 PM   #12
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When I worked in the states I had the opportunity to meet someone here as she lived just 15 minutes away. Probably not for an affair, but I wish now I'd made the effort to meet as she's a really sweet and good person. Yet, at the time I was new all this here.

Now that I've moved back to Europe it kind of diminishes the chance of linking up with most people here.
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When I worked in the states I had the opportunity to meet someone here as she lived just 15 minutes away. Probably not for an affair, but I wish now I'd made the effort to meet as she's a really sweet and good person. Yet, at the time I was new all this here.

Now that I've moved back to Europe it kind of diminishes the chance of linking up with most people here.
Europe has people too
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Thanks for the input Katy! Something to consider.
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Nope I haven't almost did once she lived an hours drive didn't quite make it as she found someone she liked better
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Nope I haven't almost did once she lived an hours drive didn't quite make it as she found someone she liked better
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I haven't but I really want to!
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I have not. I don't see it happening, either. I prefer the cocoon of the online message board. I will occasionally invite preferred members to a conference call. But that's about the extent of my "meeting" people.
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I think meeting in person can be a wonderful experience but not something to jump into. Both parties have to be open and honest about expectations of the meeting. Both have to be 100% comfortable at the place you're meeting, make it PUBLIC. You also have to discuss what you want out of the relationship and be on the same page with each other. Just know that meeting someone can and should be great if it's the right thing to do for you. Saying goodbye or in our case see ya later is very difficult as you just want to hold onto each precious moment you've shared.

Good luck to you.

p.s. you also have to be prepared because at the last minute something can happen in either of your real lives to make the date not possible and that's just how it goes.
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I think meeting in person can be a wonderful experience but not something to jump into. Both parties have to be open and honest about expectations of the meeting. Both have to be 100% comfortable at the place you're meeting, make it PUBLIC. You also have to discuss what you want out of the relationship and be on the same page with each other. Just know that meeting someone can and should be great if it's the right thing to do for you. Saying goodbye or in our case see ya later is very difficult as you just want to hold onto each precious moment you've shared.

Good luck to you.

p.s. you also have to be prepared because at the last minute something can happen in either of your real lives to make the date not possible and that's just how it goes.
Very well said cougarmomma! You hit the nail on the head. Thanks for taking your time to respond. Very much appreciated.
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I've met several people, for a drink or a meal. I'd do that again and if everything was right and we were on the same page, meeting for more would be good. Secrets and cougarmomma both said it well....be realistic.
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Almost ...... TWICE, with the same person.
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Hi redcat, you said it right. Both need to be on the same page and understand each others expectations or what they are trying to get out of this. Thanks red that was very helpful!
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