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Old 02-17-2015, 05:06 PM   #26
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I'd prefer to be the unicorn guy and be brought in with a swinging couple. If he doesn't mind me taking care of his wife, cool, but I don't wanna share mine.

So it's not selfish if that's what he wants and as a matter of fact, that makes me a pretty 'giving' person.
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Old 02-18-2015, 11:46 AM   #27
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I always liked the teeter-totter myself
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Old 02-19-2015, 10:12 AM   #28
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Never really liked the idea to be honest, if I'm with someone then she's mine and wouldn't want to share her with anyone else. Plus honestly I think if it did happen it would just cause problems in the relationship down the road
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I believe that requires a lot of respect, trust and communication, for swinging to be successful. Both parties need be confident in their relationship before going outside of it. Not going to happen in my current status.
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I believe that requires a lot of respect, trust and communication, for swinging to be successful. Both parties need be confident in their relationship before going outside of it. Not going to happen in my current status.
Youve greased the friggin ropes again..havent you?
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Old 03-09-2015, 04:56 PM   #32
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That made me feel..........oh so....mediocre
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Us Europeans..right?
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Old 03-11-2015, 12:31 PM   #41
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This is the only way I would swing with my wife!!

Dear God TRX workouts have certainly changed...
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Old 03-13-2015, 06:41 AM   #42
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Never in my wildest fantasies did I think we would do it, since we are both conservative. After 20 years of marriage we were talking one night about being more open, so I took her to a swing club and WOW!
Some of the things mentioned such as jeolousy, being nude around another man and using condoms again were never an issue from day one. You both get turned on watching your spouse enjoying themselves. Before we did it, she didn't think she could relax enough with me there to enjoy the other man, but it was actually the opposite. Couples in the lifestyle are comfortable around each other and just want to have fun.
What really blew my mind was seeing my wife making out with other woman!!! She wasn't sure she would like it and now she will tell you she is Bi. Nothing like watching the wives getting off with each other then having sex with them.

Then after a night of fun, you are so turned on that when you get home, you screw each other's brains out again! I just wished we had done this sooner.
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Swing is nice if you like that kind of music...I prefer the blues myself
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Old 04-07-2015, 07:33 PM   #44
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Old 04-07-2015, 10:11 PM   #45
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Absolutely not!

I'd end up cleaning the house all day, buying new bed linen, making a variety of sandwiches and desserts, and paying too much for the wine.

For what? Some other woman's husband that she is sick of looking at night after night?

And they'd probably use the guest hand towels too.
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I actually thought this meant sex swing (the apparatus, you all know what I mean)
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Oh in that case, it's still no..i'm klutzy these days.
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We've got one of those. It's a beautiful thing
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