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Old 04-22-2008, 11:55 AM   #51
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I will dust it off first and send it to you.

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Old 04-22-2008, 12:00 PM   #52
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Just wondering what you guys do when your wife doesn't care to masturbate because she doesn't feel right about it and doesn't care to go down that road? Is there anything you can do about it?
you're not alone buddy. My wife is 32 and has never. I bought her a dildo but she refused to use it. She even tells her friends how "bad" toys are and that you shouldn't use them.

If she could only read my mind. You know i thought of trying the dildo that you make from your penis; maybe she would want to use that.

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Old 04-22-2008, 12:02 PM   #53
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i need to keep up - sounded interesting but not sure what ur talking about
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Old 04-22-2008, 12:16 PM   #55
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I bought her one several years ago. We used it together during sex, but i'm almost positive she has never used it solo.
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Old 04-22-2008, 12:17 PM   #56
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I really wish she would! It may help out the relationship a little.
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Old 04-22-2008, 12:46 PM   #57
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I really wish she would! It may help out the relationship a little.
Have you asked her to and told her how hot it would make you? I've been surprised at how much difference that makes to my wife.

You might also try having it ready at bedside for a time when she's really worked up and try slipping it into the action. (pun intended)

If that goes successfully, you may be able to get her to use it more, or encourage her to use it while you watch, etc.
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Old 04-22-2008, 03:05 PM   #58
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I'd love to know how she sleeps at night! I'd be SO frustrated. (Then again, if you're having sex regularly, she may not need to....you may be enough to satisfy her. I'm not gettin any at home! lol)
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Old 04-22-2008, 03:22 PM   #59
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you're not alone buddy. My wife is 32 and has never. I bought her a dildo but she refused to use it. She even tells her friends how "bad" toys are and that you shouldn't use them.
That is so sad...I couldn't imagine NOT using my toys.
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Old 04-22-2008, 03:49 PM   #60
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It took me along time to feel comfortable sharing that side of me with my husband. I felt embarrassed at first that I would want to do things like that and although he tried to tell me it was ok it took along time to be ok with it myself. It wasnt because I didnt have the thoughts I was just worried about his reaction to them. I love my toys now and dont have a problem expressing myself anymore. I think even sometimes I shock him. I think he might be regretting releasing my naughty side. Now though I never get much attention from him so without my toys I would be one frustrated unhappy women.
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Old 04-22-2008, 03:57 PM   #61
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I love my toys now and dont have a problem expressing myself anymore. I think even sometimes I shock him.
Next time you feel like shocking somebody let me know....I've got a pretty high shock tolerance.

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Now though I never get much attention from him so without my toys I would be one frustrated unhappy women.
Dear gawd, please slap him and remind him that there are starving children in...err, I mean, horny men with frigid wives out there who would kill to be in his place.
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Old 04-22-2008, 04:07 PM   #62
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Next time you feel like shocking somebody let me know....I've got a pretty high shock tolerance.



I wish someone would slap him. I cant remember the last orgasm he gave me. He cant complain though he is well taken care of.

Dear gawd, please slap him and remind him that there are starving children in...err, I mean, horny men with frigid wives out there who would kill to be in his place.
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and I'll keep that in my pocket
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I agree with M... tell her it would please you if you used it on her once.... and caress her body with it... don't just go for the mound... turn her on with it...
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After reading that I imagined a role play with the man dressed up as Zorro ... haHA .. take THAT!
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She doesn't?

I am not sure what to think about that myself.. I mean I wasn't interested in sex for some time myself.. but something inside of me popped one day and man... I want it all the time now...
I'm with you here Scoob. The same thing happened to me. A few months ago something happened to me and wow! All the sudden I want it all the time, in different ways...(with different people...oops, did I say that?).

Maybe it has to do with turning 30...maybe what they say is true! A woman's sexual peak is in her 30s.
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Have you asked her to and told her how hot it would make you? I've been surprised at how much difference that makes to my wife.

You might also try having it ready at bedside for a time when she's really worked up and try slipping it into the action. (pun intended)

If that goes successfully, you may be able to get her to use it more, or encourage her to use it while you watch, etc.
Thanks for the advice. I'll give it a try.
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I'd love to know how she sleeps at night! I'd be SO frustrated. (Then again, if you're having sex regularly, she may not need to....you may be enough to satisfy her. I'm not gettin any at home! lol)
Define "regularly", 'cause i'm pretty sure that ain't me.
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Define "regularly", 'cause i'm pretty sure that ain't me.

Yeah, is that regular like on a regular schedule or frequency.....

Or regular like in the bed as opposed to, say, on top of the refrigerator or in the garage rafters......

Or regular like with just two people as opposed to....well, you get the idea.
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I'm with you here Scoob. The same thing happened to me. A few months ago something happened to me and wow! All the sudden I want it all the time, in different ways...(with different people...oops, did I say that?).

Maybe it has to do with turning 30...maybe what they say is true! A woman's sexual peak is in her 30s.

And, of course, we, your friends here, are absolutely willing to help you with that!

I volunteer!
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I can't imagine how you help someone understand what they're missing. Even in our dry spells...well, especially in our dry spells...masturbating is what gets me through!
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I volunteer!

Thanks Denny....I'll remember that!
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I'm with you here Scoob. The same thing happened to me. A few months ago something happened to me and wow! All the sudden I want it all the time, in different ways...(with different people...oops, did I say that?).

Maybe it has to do with turning 30...maybe what they say is true! A woman's sexual peak is in her 30s.
I say "why ask why and just enjoy the ride" or rides
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Just wondering what you guys do when your wife doesn't care to masturbate because she doesn't feel right about it and doesn't care to go down that road? Is there anything you can do about it?
Same with my wife, I have tried lots of things and nothing seems work. I have tried to talk with her about it, and she responds that "it just doesn't work the same" or "it doesn't feel right" She is happy to have me do it and response if I initiate sex, but she does not masturbate and never initiates sex.
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I say "why ask why and just enjoy the ride" or rides

Lol...very true!
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