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Old 02-12-2010, 11:42 AM   #26
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I very rarely ask anyone to be a friend... it isn't that I don't want to be friendly.. but I don't have a lot to say... not one on one.. I prefer to talk to myself...

anyhow.. I do accept people who ask to be my friend.. however.. I do clean out from time to time.. and if I have never had a conversation with you.. you are gone.. if we don't talk for about 3 or 4 months.. I delete.. now..I have accidentally deleted some friends.. people who I would never get rid of.. because.. there are a few who I cherish very much and respect..

but I don't ask people because I don't want to seem pushy.. not that I see that people who ask me are being pushy.. I don't.. I guess... I don't know why I don't ask.. I guess it's like making the first move.. and I am shy.. I don't make the first move..
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I still won't friend request you though! THAT'S how insecure I am! Lol...alright maybe I will. Don't reject me though!!! It will destroy me!

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Old 02-12-2010, 12:36 PM   #28
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I go through my list periodically and remove a few that I've lost touch with.
Keeping my favorites. There are some people I don't talk with as much as I used to, but I keep them because we always seem to pick up where we left off, no matter how long its been.

I think ill do a little early Spring cleaning.
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Old 02-12-2010, 01:09 PM   #29
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I rarely if ever send friend requests. I am very insecure that way. I just assume that the reaction will be "why is this creepy guy bothering me?". .
OMG...we are friends...even online, the insecure (hah!) guys are saying- that one's got to be easy?
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OMG I went to clean out and found I didnt want to lose touch with anyone...lol

A good reason to befriend someone is you really want to be friends...
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Old 02-12-2010, 02:27 PM   #31
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Well I send out friends request to do everything in my power to increase my chances of getting laid. Person has to take advantage of every little detail he can.

Now on to a less serious answer.
I just go by what they post and say. I mean we don't really know who were are chatting with on here. If I get the feeling they are genuine about who they say they are I may request them as a friend. If they take the time to comment on one of my post or threads I'm on them like ugly on ape then. Most everyone that I have on my list has shown some sort of compassion and honesty at one time or another.
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I must admit, I can't resist making friends with someone who has a great sense of humor. I can be a smartass and I love to banter with someone who gets it. If I could have a friends list full of those people I would be very very happy.
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OMG I went to clean out and found I didnt want to lose touch with anyone...lol

A good reason to befriend someone is you really want to be friends...

There are times when some people just send friend requests so they can read your profile messages. Why else would someone send you a friend request when you have never exchanged as much as two words. Oops, the cynic that I am.
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There are times when some people just send friend requests so they can read your profile messages. Why else would someone send you a friend request when you have never exchanged as much as two words. Oops, the cynic that I am.

that would never happen here... no way... pffft... that's all in your imagination...
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There are times when some people just send friend requests so they can read your profile messages. Why else would someone send you a friend request when you have never exchanged as much as two words. Oops, the cynic that I am.

really??? I guess I must really be naive.
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really??? I guess I must really be naive.

Kim, I am sorry to rain on your parade. But think about it...your profile is set to private so that only your friends can read and send you visitor messages....someone sends you a friend request...someone you have never exchanged as much as two words with....why would they send you a request? Say you go ahead and accept the request to be polite and you send a message thanking them for the request and you never get a reply.

Hmm.

Okay, call me a cynic.
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I will send a request if I have a good time posting with someone. I'm kinda shy about sending requests though so I don't often take the initiative.
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Kim, I am sorry to rain on your parade. But think about it...your profile is set to private so that only your friends can read and send you visitor messages....someone sends you a friend request...someone you have never exchanged as much as two words with....why would they send you a request? Say you go ahead and accept the request to be polite and you send a message thanking them for the request and you never get a reply.

Hmm.

Okay, call me a cynic.

Well, you have been here a lot longer than I have and you are probably right but I assumed that maybe someone read a few posts, thought that i was nice, or funny or whatever and wanted to get to know me better. Like I said, possibly naive.


We have exchanged a few words now, can I send a friend request???
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Well, you have been here a lot longer than I have and you are probably right but I assumed that maybe someone read a few posts, thought that i was nice, or funny or whatever and wanted to get to know me better. Like I said, possibly naive.


We have exchanged a few words now, can I send a friend request???

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I've never sent anyone a friends request and never denied anyone who sent me one. I am humbly flattered and consider those requests to be a compliment but I choose to compliment others in posts or visitor messages and let them decide.
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I did once defriend a bunch of people by accidentally checking them off and then I realised what I did...

Fever and Disturbia Girl were pissed...LOL Hahaha
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but I don't ask people because I don't want to seem pushy.. not that I see that people who ask me are being pushy.. I don't.. I guess... I don't know why I don't ask.. I guess it's like making the first move.. and I am shy.. I don't make the first move..
I totally understand where you're coming from, tho it's not because I'm shy. I add someone to my friend's list when it means something to me, whether it is someone I really want to get to know, or even someone with whom I've had a great banter. I have however, stopped accepting friend requests from people I don't have a connection with in order to keep my page more private...and like happy, I do the occasional clean-up. She may even make the cut this time!!
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IDK. Sometimes I send them to help newcomers feel welcome. After the thorough background check of course
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IDK. Sometimes I send them to help newcomers feel welcome. After the thorough background check of course


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hmmm thanks for the sympathy request Xan.
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I've invited people on my friend's list for a number of different reasons: Interesting posts, witty or playful conversational tone, those that I am curious about, and even for those who have interesting AV changes! I need to be sure to keep in touch with them all, though, no matter how busy or distracted I get.
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