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Old 02-07-2011, 07:20 PM   #26
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Definitely a strong woman. Being the smart ass that I am, I never know when I'm gonna need back up in a Bar fight.
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Old 02-07-2011, 07:30 PM   #27
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If the choices are strong and dominant OR sweet and submissive I'll take strong and dominant. Sure, most girls want a guy who will care for us and be sensitive to our needs, but sweet and submissive sounds too much like a wimp. A man who is a pushover is VERY un-sexy, IMO.
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Old 02-07-2011, 08:15 PM   #28
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I like manly men .... Men who are too sweet kind of bore me :
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Old 02-07-2011, 08:22 PM   #29
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I aim for an equal balance that compliments my nature....You can't have both people in a relationship with ferociously strong wills and minds, IMO: so, someone evenly tempered when it comes to the craziness of life - I like calmness and composure - but with enough determination to get what she wants from me, without stepping all over me in the process.

I'm not a dominant force: I'm useless at battles of the heart; I can concede a lot for the sake of what suits her best (because that's how I love)...So it has to be someone that isn't tempted to take advantage of that...yet, someone who wants to be coddled and pandered to, too. Of course, I see it more as looking after someone, but someone else might find it awfully suffocating! She has to be emotionally intelligent because working with a sensitive soul has its downsides (tell me about it! - we are both rather sensitive!) - And she can't judge my efforts as weak. Just because I would automatically put her needs first; just because I would often offer no fight, does not mean my masculinity is encroached on...as far as I'm concerned.

And all of this has to operate under the surface, and be separate from sex, with no awareness of power distribution, because those battles don't matter to me......I've blown my cover now, but never mind!
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Old 02-07-2011, 08:38 PM   #30
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Outside of the bedroom I'm as strong as she needs me to be and as laid back as she wants me to be.

In the bedroom I am naturally dominant but I don't want her to just take it, I want her to make me fight for it.
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Old 02-07-2011, 08:40 PM   #31
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I think a combination of the two.. a strong, funny, witty-smart ass type who can take care of a lady(when she needs it)and make her laugh.... but also sweet enough to see when you need sweet and tender.. and who doesnt have to control everything and lets the lady take the lead when needed (especially in bed)..
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Old 02-07-2011, 10:01 PM   #32
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I aim for an equal balance that compliments my nature....You can't have both people in a relationship with ferociously strong wills and minds, IMO: so, someone evenly tempered when it comes to the craziness of life - I like calmness and composure - but with enough determination to get what she wants from me, without stepping all over me in the process.
This is something it's taken me a LONG time to learn. I'm super strong willed & emotional (at times...PERHAPS unreasonabe ). When I've been with people my SAME temperment it starts off as exciting, fun....mental chess you might say. After a certain amount of time everything turns into a competition & when that happens you aren't on the same side anymore and things can become disfuntional. What turned out alot of times is two very good people that just aren't compatable for a relationship.

I think stength can come in many forms. You can come on strong and argue your point. You can not put up with crap. You can be your own person. Sometimes it takes strength to shut up and let the crazy girl vent before ya pounce on her & tell her she's wrong. Sometimes it takes strength to listen to her. And I think anyone that can get me to actually LISTEN to them has a way of dominating me without the whole badass asshole macho crap. It takes a strong man to get me to admit when I'm wrong without making me all defensive about it.

No way could any relationship last with me be allowed to be dominant all the time. I'd run all over him. I test. So it's a delicate balance. I want someone to be the strong one when I'm at my wit's end, to have enough confidence in me & him to let me be the free spirit I am, and to call me on my crap when I'm shoveling it. And ya know, that can be done gently. But he's gotta have brains & liking debate & he can't be scared of me.

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Old 02-07-2011, 11:05 PM   #33
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I like a strong man....but there has to be a side to him that is sensitive, loving, and caring and knows how to show me that side of him without feeling like his manhood is threatened.
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Old 02-07-2011, 11:07 PM   #34
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I dig a chick that is strong enough to pull me up off the couch at 4 in the morning ..... especially when I have no idea where I passed out ... nothing hotter than being bitch slapped around by some angry gal whose afgan you kinda puked on a little bit.
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Old 02-07-2011, 11:10 PM   #35
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I like a mix......but I think it is great when guy is in touch with his feminine side.......makes them more able to relate to us........( as long as he doesn't want to wear my bra, panties or shoes, we are good )

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Old 02-07-2011, 11:13 PM   #36
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Old 02-07-2011, 11:36 PM   #37
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I think a combination of both.
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Old 02-11-2011, 09:01 PM   #38
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I want a strong willed woman, generally. Like someone who rolls with the punches, is feisty, and a great wit. Submissive would be fun for play.
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I really like a strong woman. I also like a woman that's just a tad smarter than I am -
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Old 02-14-2011, 10:49 PM   #41
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I'm going to say both. There are times when I want to be told, but times when I also want to do the telling!
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i love stong women always
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Old 09-10-2011, 05:49 PM   #43
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I like a strong, confident man but someone who has a soft sensitive side to their nature too.
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nah go for weak and willing
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I am in need of a man who is a man, no wishy washy will do for me.. no mental cases.. no says this and does that... a strong man is very intriguing to me... for he knows what he is all about... I have yet to find another like the one I had in my life.. even my OGP wasn't very strong.. but he was strong enough at the time..

I don't want a man who can be wrapped... I want a man who can be a true partner... and he needs strength to be able to allow me to be in his life... not many can do that
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Old 09-10-2011, 06:21 PM   #47
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Old 09-10-2011, 07:41 PM   #48
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I like my men and my women strong Not controlling, but definetly no doormats. I appreciate when people tell me their opinions even if they are different from mine
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A mix, as long as they're neither domineering nor yes-men.
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