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Old 08-27-2007, 11:06 PM   #26
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If there is a decission to be made, for the most part it's on me to make it solo. I've come to learn that there is no point in running much at all by my husband, the blank stare and "I don't know" may tell me alot but doesn't help with the decission at hand. On the rare occasion that I do run something by someone, it is for advice and not for affirmation.
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Old 08-28-2007, 01:24 AM   #27
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Actually not dealing well at all right now. Have to\wo differnt conselors, who both agree with each other. Kinda got a second opinion. Now it is up to me Ithink. This sucks.
instinct is the best thing and what you out f life, but if you need to chat let me know i'm a good listener......hang in there your friends are all here and pulling for you..........
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Old 08-28-2007, 01:34 AM   #28
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Actually not dealing well at all right now. Have to\wo differnt conselors, who both agree with each other. Kinda got a second opinion. Now it is up to me Ithink. This sucks.
Hang in there and give it everything ya got. Communication lines need to stay open.

My wife and I were on the verge of going in opposite directions just two weeks ago. We talked and talked and found a mid-point; a point to start rebuilding.
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Old 08-28-2007, 03:24 PM   #29
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I pretty much make all my own decisions, but I have always been very independent. It never occurred to me to run it by anyone when I joined the Marine Corps, because no one else was going to have to do it for me. I pretty much always use that same logic with all decisions. If it is something that I am going to have to do alone, then I should be the one to make the decision.
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Old 09-01-2007, 09:22 PM   #30
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I pretty much rely on myself.....I may ask someone's opinion...but very seldom...I will mull over a decision until the answer appears....problem is, it isn't always the right one or the one I want to hear
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I like advise, its usually involves me boucing ideas off someone..They usually add their input but we both know the decision will come down to me.
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Old 09-02-2007, 07:50 PM   #32
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I'm at a crossroads right now, and it sucks..I'm trying to go straight ahead but things are pulling me backwards..and that makes it hard to go in life...but for every two steps forward i make three back..
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Old 09-02-2007, 08:52 PM   #33
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I tend to shift between two modes -- either getting a lot of advice and bouncing ideas off several folk, or making snap decisions that won't bear contradiction.



I probably need to work on a middle way...
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