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Old 02-05-2007, 04:06 PM   #1
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I just have to wonder how many people are here for sex?

I don't have a problem with sex in my relationship. All I really want to find is an emotional, intellectual, romantic connection with someone. I know it's playing with fire, and maybe just sex is easier, but is that the only thing people are looking for?

What made you come to this site?
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Old 02-05-2007, 04:10 PM   #2
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I just have to wonder how many people are here for sex?

I don't have a problem with sex in my relationship. All I really want to find is an emotional, intellectual, romantic connection with someone. I know it's playing with fire, and maybe just sex is easier, but is that the only thing people are looking for?

What made you come to this site?
Nice post... and no, I happen to think sex is just a small part of it, and only happens as a result from 'A connection' that has become romantic, emotional and intellectual ...

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Old 02-05-2007, 04:15 PM   #3
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Nice post... and no, I happen to think sex is just a small part of it, and only happens as a result from 'A connection' that has become romantic, emotional and intellectual ...

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That's the womens point of view. The guys just want sex!!
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Old 02-05-2007, 04:17 PM   #4
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I just have to wonder how many people are here for sex?

I don't have a problem with sex in my relationship. All I really want to find is an emotional, intellectual, romantic connection with someone. I know it's playing with fire, and maybe just sex is easier, but is that the only thing people are looking for?

What made you come to this site?
I think everyone is here for different reasons. Some are perhaps looking for affairs, but I think most people here are just looking for friends that understand what they're going through.

Believe it or not, I actually came here to re-connect with my wife. She's a member of this site too. When I found out she was coming here, at first I was hurt, but then she challenged me to come here too and see what this site was really all about. I'm glad I had the courage to do that.

I think if you spend some time here, let some folks get to know you, as you get to know them, then you'll build the relationships you're looking for. The people who come here just for sex are usually the ones who don't last long on a site like this, because they're not interested in putting in the time needed to have a lasting relationship.
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That's the womens point of view. The guys just want sex!!
I was going to add that, but hey I didn't want to get slated!!!
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I just have to wonder how many people are here for sex?

I don't have a problem with sex in my relationship. All I really want to find is an emotional, intellectual, romantic connection with someone. I know it's playing with fire, and maybe just sex is easier, but is that the only thing people are looking for?

What made you come to this site?
I think most people are on this site to make friends and talk openly about their relationships, both good and bad, in hopes of finding ways to help with the inadequacies and to make a connection with others in a similar situation. I personally have several ladies I have connected with, some with stronger ties than others. It has helped me personally to realize things that should be, could be and may be better in and out of our home relationship. Feel free to peruse the site, you will find alot of heartfelt advice and freely open people to befriend. Feel free to contact me by e-mail
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Old 02-05-2007, 04:23 PM   #7
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I was going to add that, but hey I didn't want to get slated!!!
I'm here for relationships too.......
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Old 02-05-2007, 04:47 PM   #8
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Nice post... and no, I happen to think sex is just a small part of it, and only happens as a result from 'A connection' that has become romantic, emotional and intellectual ...

Welcome by the way...
Thank you. I'm enjoying myself so far.

I have to agree with you on that one, which is part of the reason I put "romantic" in with the emotional and intellectual connection. I think it would be hard not to have romantic feelings for someone that you've made that connection with, however, it doesn't mean you have to act on it.

I like this site, because all the other ones I ran across seem to be overwhelmingly about sex and finding someone to have it with that isn't your partner. If that's what you want, there is a forum here for it, but luckily there seems to be so much more available here.
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I just have to wonder how many people are here for sex?

I don't have a problem with sex in my relationship. All I really want to find is an emotional, intellectual, romantic connection with someone. I know it's playing with fire, and maybe just sex is easier, but is that the only thing people are looking for?

What made you come to this site?
I am not here just for the sex. I think the connection can be almost as much fun as the sex if done right, and a lot safer. Did'nt I just offend you by saying I expect the worst from you a few minutes ago?
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Came here for many different reasons. Was bored at work one day and found the site. Have met some great people who I talk to quite a bit. Even if nothing ever comes from any of the relationships, its a great way to get things off your chest, talk with others, and go home in a good mood.
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Old 02-05-2007, 04:57 PM   #11
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Believe it or not, I actually came here to re-connect with my wife. She's a member of this site too. When I found out she was coming here, at first I was hurt, but then she challenged me to come here too and see what this site was really all about. I'm glad I had the courage to do that.
Thank you for this reply. It made me smile. I find it amazing that you took your wife up on that challenge. I think it took bravery on both your parts. She was letting you inside a world she kept away from you and you were brave enough to peek inside and ultimately stay.

I don't feel so bad for being here now.
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Old 02-05-2007, 05:04 PM   #12
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I am not here just for the sex. I think the connection can be almost as much fun as the sex if done right, and a lot safer. Did'nt I just offend you by saying I expect the worst from you a few minutes ago?
*LOL* Offend? Hardly. You made me curious. I'm putting a picture together in my head of what you're like. So far I have quick witted...dry sense of humor...man who says a lot in a few words...and I'm still working on the rest.
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*LOL* Offend? Hardly. You made me curious. I'm putting a picture together in my head of what you're like. So far I have quick witted...dry sense of humor...man who says a lot in a few words...and I'm still working on the rest.
Wow, you are good. If you asked my friends to discribe me that would be what they would say almost to the word. Now, if you guess my height and weight I will really be impressed.
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Wow, you are good. If you asked my friends to discribe me that would be what they would say almost to the word. Now, if you guess my height and weight I will really be impressed.
That will cost ya...
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Now I am curious!
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I just want it all! Sex and relationships, friends, chat, atta-boys, you name it!
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Oh yea, that post about a blow jobs was very very intense!
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Did I hit a sore spot? *LOL*
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Yeah took me a few times to figure it out. Not as much fun as the hour or power, or the centurty club, but still works.
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I just have to wonder how many people are here for sex?

I don't have a problem with sex in my relationship. All I really want to find is an emotional, intellectual, romantic connection with someone. I know it's playing with fire, and maybe just sex is easier, but is that the only thing people are looking for?

What made you come to this site?
You know ...sex is just never about sex, unless it is a one night stand, and even there I'm not convinced.

For most of us, sex has much more meaning than just the act itself. It's a way of communicating, a way of expressing desire, a way of feeling close to someone, ....

I could go on, but I really think that most people are looking for a connection when they have sex ... if not, they'd just masturbate. The reason we want to have sex with a partner is that we want to have some form of connection to another person .. no matter how fleeting it may be.

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Yes, what price did you have in mind? I'm betting your guess will be way off anyway. Lots of pressure here.
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