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Old 05-25-2006, 04:25 PM   #1
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Default BOREDOM:How do you cope with it?

I feel bored some days..I cannot cope with it ..How do you cope with it if feel so?
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I read alot of Books
Or Cross Stitch lol

But I like Reading Books Alot !!!
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Old 05-25-2006, 04:32 PM   #3
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I read alot of Books
Or Cross Stitch lol

But I like Reading Books Alot !!!
That is a creative use of your potential energy I think.Do you think boredom is being full of energy and nor being able to use it?
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Old 05-25-2006, 04:39 PM   #4
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In my opinion i think boredom comes alot from spending too much time alone.
having too much idel time on your hands.
Im alone most of the time , but i find alot to do, house work, video games, and now spending time here and MAF are things i find enjoyable.
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I actually have to pencil boredom between chaos and mayhem. usually occuring around dusk.
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In my opinion i think boredom comes alot from spending too much time alone.
having too much idel time on your hands.
Im alone most of the time , but i find alot to do, house work, video games, and now spending time here and MAF are things i find enjoyable.

But it is in the solitude of consecutive moments that we sometimes discover partial clarity into who we really are
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Old 05-25-2006, 04:59 PM   #7
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In my opinion i think boredom comes alot from spending too much time alone.
having too much idel time on your hands.
Im alone most of the time , but i find alot to do, house work, video games, and now spending time here and MAF are things i find enjoyable.
Are we avoiding contemplation,KissThis?
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But it is in the solitude of consecutive moments that we sometimes discover partial clarity into who we really are
I agree with you.
Without solitude i would go insane.
I enjoy my alone time.
After all, their is no one i get along with better than myself!
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But it is in the solitude of consecutive moments that we sometimes discover partial clarity into who we really are
We are intelligent human beings and we don't like to waste our energies..and time...
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Old 05-25-2006, 05:07 PM   #10
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I agree with you.
Without solitude i would go insane.
I enjoy my alone time.
After all, their is no one i get along with better than myself!
'After all, their is no one i get along with better than myself'I loved this KisThis.Love thyself first later the others...If I loved myself,I would be the happiest man in the world..
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Old 05-25-2006, 05:14 PM   #11
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Are we avoiding contemplation,KissThis?
I usually avoid most things that are serious. I guess its due to building up walls around me , not wanting to get hurt again, and all that stuff.

I've about concluded its just better to stay in my own little world.
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'After all, their is no one i get along with better than myself'I loved this KisThis.Love thyself first later the others...If I loved myself,I would be the happiest man in the world..
Im pretty much cool with myself...
so i think i have to disagree with you
i do love myself, i mean im satisified with myself as a person
and im still not happy...
so it dont work that way.
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Old 05-25-2006, 05:21 PM   #13
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I usually exercise...read or surf the net....or go for a walk...to fight boredom


Cherokee.... Sex is also good for fighting boredom...unless its the sex you are bored with...
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You need teenagers, life is never boring with them around.

I read alot and if the weather is nice I ride my bike. I enjoy my time alone as it comes so rarely.
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I usually avoid most things that are serious. I guess its due to building up walls around me , not wanting to get hurt again, and all that stuff.

I've about concluded its just better to stay in my own little world.
Ther are two feeling we must face on this earthain and pleasure.We usually avoid pain and approach pleasure.I used to avoid pain and approach pleasure but I was not happy.After I met with the deaths of my mom and my wife,I found out that I must appraoch pain also and I am happy now.We have a saying here in my culture:The one who goes to marriage ceremony she or he dances and get fun but the one who goes to death ceremony must cry fr the losses.
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Ther are two feeling we must face on this earthain and pleasure.We usually avoid pain and approach pleasure.I used to avoid pain and approach pleasure but I was not happy.After I met with the deaths of my mom and my wife,I found out that I must appraoch pain also and I am happy now.We have a saying here in my culture:The one who goes to marriage ceremony she or he dances and get fun but the one who goes to death ceremony must cry fr the losses.
you have such a beautiful way of putting things. As for me , i still do not accept pain very well..and i guess i have still not learned to deal with it. Not sure i ever will learn that , so maybe that means i will never be happy.
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I read alot and if the weather is nice I ride my bike. I enjoy my time alone as it comes so rarely.
When we feel bored we shelter to our past memories...It sometimes helps us recover from boring.
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you have such a beautiful way of putting things. As for me , i still do not accept pain very well..and i guess i have still not learned to deal with it. Not sure i ever will learn that , so maybe that means i will never be happy.
You have to my love...you have to...Life and death teaches it to you...When you approach pain,you don't have imaginary fears bur real ones instead.And real fears and real event are more friendly...
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I take a long walk. I love the solitude and the chance to explore my surroundings. I spend time at our pond and watch the ducklings and goslings.... I read a magazine or a short story... sometimes I just pray...




... or I take a nap.
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If I'm bored I usually read or draw or play Xbox... or try to get my wife to have sex with me

That's if I'm at home

If I'm at work I surf... get in a daze... flirt with female co-workers... or try to find some new thing I can learn
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I can honestly say that I have never been bored in my life. My biggest challenge is finding the time to do all the things I like doing. I love reading, riding my bike, playing my piano, cooking, baking, drawing, playing with my son, even just sitting quietly contemplating.
Even as a child, I never whined once to my parents that I was bored. I've always been able to amuse myself.
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Yasar its a huge problem for me... I now drink heavily and play alot of sport. But I tell you the drink is making me fat and is killing me slowly...I also smoke some grass at night so I can go to sleep or atleast change my train of thought...
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Yasar its a huge problem for me... I now drink heavily and play alot of sport. But I tell you the drink is making me fat and is killing me slowly...I also smoke some grass at night so I can go to sleep or atleast change my train of thought...
I should have started this thread as Cotties Boredom then...But read all and have a lesson for yourself...There are very good models on thiz site...But don't forget you are alone at least I am bored when I am not happy with what I do..Hope you will recover...Open your eyes ...open your ear...Jazzy says soemting to you.....Listen to her..
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