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Old 10-12-2008, 09:49 AM   #101
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Good question; how are they "discoverable"???
They can be used against you during court proceedings to show that you did or said things.
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Good question; how are they "discoverable"???
I think, and I am by no means an expert, but things that get posted, especially in the flash chat, etc. are first buffered in the program, and there is a history, that is stored. Just closing the program doesn't remove the buffer (on the hard drive). The file may go away, but the contents are still there. That's a big problem with windows in general.

Thus ... it's still there. So, I would reccomend, once again a program called ccleaner ... it cleans out program buffers on the hard drive ... and actually overwrites them.
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Old 10-12-2008, 01:21 PM   #105
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Would like to emphasize what has been said about the chatroom and private messages not being private. I have had some of my chats come back to haunt me recently all because I never expected them to be read by some one in particular. My soon to be ex-husband managed to access and copy certain messages that were in this site that could be used against me as well the other parties involved. So, with that said, I just wanted to say you need to be extremely careful who you talk to you and the context of your conversations. They are 'discoverable' which could prove disastrous to some people.
Only speaking from personal experience.......

Wait........I'm confused. Private MESSAGES are not private? I mean I knew the chat room wasn't so private. Or do you just mean that it leaves a record on your OWN PERSONAL computer? I mean can other people on HERE read my private messages? like the mods? or other computer saavy peeps??????
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Old 10-12-2008, 01:29 PM   #106
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Wait........I'm confused. Private MESSAGES are not private? I mean I knew the chat room wasn't so private. Or do you just mean that it leaves a record on your OWN PERSONAL computer? I mean can other people on HERE read my private messages? like the mods? or other computer saavy peeps??????


Fly .. it really depends on your computer's security. Unless someone REALLY knows what they're doing, they cant' break into nor read what's going on fom the outside.

The reason why things like this can be gathered is if someone hires a detective to read the contents of your chat, etc. from your own computer.

Now, the record is stored on your OWN COMPUTER. PM's are usually safe from anyone who doesn't have the expertise to break in. This is all unencrypted ... so it would be possible for someone who really knew what they were doing and had access to the site to break in ... but that possiblity is very very slim.

I know this is confusing ... but covering your tracks if you're afraid is a good thing to do.
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Old 10-12-2008, 01:31 PM   #107
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Fly .. it really depends on your computer's security. Unless someone REALLY knows what they're doing, they cant' break into nor read what's going on fom the outside.

The reason why things like this can be gathered is if someone hires a detective to read the contents of your chat, etc. from your own computer.

Now, the record is stored on your OWN COMPUTER. PM's are usually safe from anyone who doesn't have the expertise to break in. This is all unencrypted ... so it would be possible for someone who really knew what they were doing and had access to the site to break in ... but that possiblity is very very slim.

I know this is confusing ... but covering your tracks if you're afraid is a good thing to do.

oh.......thanks. I just understand that MY OWN PERSONAL computer might store chats, pm's etc. Just wanted to make sure other outsiders can't read my pm's!!! I assumed they were safe so was not careful with personal information in them. I'd hate to think someone I don't know was reading them!!!
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oh.......thanks. I just understand that MY OWN PERSONAL computer might store chats, pm's etc. Just wanted to make sure other outsiders can't read my pm's!!! I assumed they were safe so was not careful with personal information in them. I'd hate to think someone I don't know was reading them!!!
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Old 10-12-2008, 02:44 PM   #110
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Wow... that is scary as hell.

So, to make sure I understand... unless someone has direct access to MY computer, they can't get the information, unless they REALLY know what they are doing?
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Wow... that is scary as hell.

So, to make sure I understand... unless someone has direct access to MY computer, they can't get the information, unless they REALLY know what they are doing?
Correct. The internet is wide open, and, since I work for a major netorking company, I know that it can be done .. but it takes time, and a lot of effort to break into a live stream. NSA can do it ... but unless the NSA is on your trail ...

Worry more about your personal computer, unless you're doing something REALLY illegal ...
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Old 10-13-2008, 12:01 PM   #112
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I think this is a great site and seems very friendly, but whether I will ever get to 500 posts.... shame that some people spoil a good thing
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Old 10-24-2008, 08:23 AM   #114
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It's easier than you think. Right now you think is impossible but before you know it, you'll be at 100, then 200 and then 500! There is so much to post about on this site plus, if you have a certain situation or topic you would like to discuss, find the right forum to put it under and start your own thread which you can respond to and build that post count. Good luck and welcome!
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Old 12-11-2008, 12:51 AM   #115
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If everything keeps getting more private, then it just becomes harder to connect with people; next thing ya know, everyone is going to be in a glass box with their own space. Then what? lol
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Only speaking from personal experience.......
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Old 01-20-2009, 03:39 AM   #117
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Old 01-21-2009, 05:23 PM   #119
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That's why caznova won't acknowledge me! I was critical but not mean. You know what, if people team up, they could really run a mind game. Or is that the sport after awhile? I can't help but wonder.
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Old 02-20-2009, 08:05 PM   #120
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I was told today that parts of the chatroom conversations can be found publicly online elsewhere. Is that true?
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Not that I know of! But some posts in the normal public forums, ones where guests can look in, can sometimes be found elsewhere on the internet!
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I have been on other sites where you can goggle a topic and your writing automatically appears in a search. I know this site is very public. Any chance of closing it to members only?
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That is pretty freaky that someone can google your conversation. I guess I knew that its a dangerous game any time you join a chat room online but in a way thats also part of the excitement... hoping to not get caught out
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