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Old 02-22-2009, 03:06 AM   #26
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no. can't feel guilty for wanting to make new friends and share ideas , thoughts, and experiences.
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Old 02-22-2009, 03:24 AM   #28
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nope i cant becouse all i have done is make new friends and having a good time
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Old 02-22-2009, 11:39 AM   #29
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Well, yes, at first! I wandered in here not knowing what to think or feel; I didn’t have any clue why I was drawn here, didn’t want to find anything as such...and felt guilty that I was even socialising without my wife - I’ve been accused of sheltering behind my wife before! Indeed, I recall saying that this was the boldest thing I’d ever done before! It wasn’t just guilt I had, I felt a weakness, and I felt like I stuck out here like a sore thumb. However, as time went on, I found this was mostly in my head. Being here raised more questions than it solved. It was a battle being honest with others and myself; it both lowered and raised my self-esteem at the same time, but I feel fine now if I overexpose myself.

So, while others find this easy and natural, I continue to drag myself through it - to a degree! That’s just the person I am...but I'm sure I was much more uptight when I joined! It was my wife who actually made me feel better, she reassured me that she really wasn’t that threatened, I could talk about it with her, and she thought it would be a good chance for time apart - a break from listening to me! She has her own forums and interests and has never felt awkward if they don’t involve me. We have rules about Internet usage, and we still ensure we get quality time together...so, no, guilt doesn’t even come into it now!

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Old 02-22-2009, 12:01 PM   #31
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I talk with my husband about a lot of my friends here. It helps me because there is so much more to this site than just the flirting. Things discussed here are great conversation starters for here at home, and who said communication in a marriage is a bad thing???
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Old 02-22-2009, 01:17 PM   #32
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My husband just doesn't understand. He thinks this site is full of pervs that just want one thing. He can't understand why I would want to share anything with a bunch of strangers. He doesn't understand that I can come here and NOT flirt at all. Sometimes I just read.....and read....and read. I have tried staying away from the site to make him happy....but I miss my friends too much. He doesn't think they are true friends. I disagree.

So do I feel guilty? Yes because I know I am doing something he really doesn't like. But I don't feel guilty because of any of my actions. It's all very innocent and my heart is with him. I'm not in love with anyone here....I just have some good friends here that I like to have fun with.
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Old 02-22-2009, 03:56 PM   #33
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Absolutely. I feel guilty even when I have told hubby about what happens here. I think it's a character trait of mine that doesn't die easily.
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Hi, Florida1.

I can say that I do not feel guilty because I have done nothing to feel guilty about. I guess it would depend on one's motives if they would feel guilt or remorseful for that matter.

Anyhow, I hope you are able to find whatever it is you are looking for.

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Old 02-22-2009, 05:25 PM   #35
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When I was with my husband and came in here I never felt guilt for being here, but I did feel protective of my privacy and didn't not want him to know what I was doing or whom I was speaking with...I also did not want to get into a conflict about being here...so I never told him nor did I leave any evidence around...
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nope...if I did feel guilty, I would never of come here!
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My husband just doesn't understand. He thinks this site is full of pervs that just want one thing. He can't understand why I would want to share anything with a bunch of strangers. He doesn't understand that I can come here and NOT flirt at all. Sometimes I just read.....and read....and read. I have tried staying away from the site to make him happy....but I miss my friends too much. He doesn't think they are true friends. I disagree.

So do I feel guilty? Yes because I know I am doing something he really doesn't like. But I don't feel guilty because of any of my actions. It's all very innocent and my heart is with him. I'm not in love with anyone here....I just have some good friends here that I like to have fun with.
Based on the fact that he knows about this place, whether he understands it or not, plus the fact you are here for friendship, should unburden you from having any guilt. I'm sure there are websites that he probably visits or places he may go that you don't particularly like either and he still does them. It's all harmless fun. Enjoy yourself.
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Nope. Guilt is a useless emotion. If you feel guilty, you probably shouldn't be doing whatever it is your doing. If you are happy and comfortable with whatever it is you are doing...then why would guilt ever be a consideration? So, to me the answer is simple. Do what makes you happy, and leave the guilt for someone else.
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I think first I would need a conscience and a soul to feel guilty... then again .. compared to everything else I have done this is really small time on the guilt-o-meter.
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I think first I would need a conscience and a soul to feel guilty... then again .. compared to everything else I have done this is really small time on the guilt-o-meter.
Do we need to start a "confessions" thread for you to absolve your guilt-o-meter just a little?
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Old 02-23-2009, 10:31 AM   #41
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Not remotely guilty. I need human contact. It's crucial for me personally and to some extent, professionally.

When I have other emotional outlets, my primary relationships work better.
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Who?...me guilty?
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I have already been to Hell. It is a tourist trap on the Cayman Islands...really not worth the walk.

As far as spiritual Hell, that is just some fictional place dreamed up by the religious oligarchies of years past in order to scare those who always feel guilty.
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No, I don't feel guilty about the website. I really don't think it is so much different from any other social website no matter the name the journey is all what you make it.
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Yes, yes I feel some guilt,,,,,I am NO longer bangin my head against the wall trying to get something I know is never coming!!! Damn it feels good to finally stop!
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Nope, no guilt here but i've had some fun nites that would have been otherwise boring and lonely without this group to chat with.
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Not guilt per say, as much as wishing I was getting my needs met at home.
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No guilt here. I think I've run through the gamut of all the other emotions, but no guilt. I think this site may be one of the best things that has happened to me.
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whats there to feel guilty about?...doing something for oursleves that makes us feel good, make some friends, have some fun, maybe even flirt a bit.....definitely nothing to feel guilty about....enjoy!!!
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