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Old 11-14-2010, 08:43 AM   #1
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Last night, had "date night" with Mrs. Loverboy...out to a beef & beer, dinner, couple drinks, dancing. It was mostly an older crowd there, and it was nice to go out together, we don't really do this often.

As I looked around a little, I noticed some of the other, mostly older couples touching, especially how close they were out on the dance floor, while Mrs. just seemed to want to keep her distance. The "dessert" for the evening wasn't served until this morning, and even that was sorta distant. But I guess some sort of epiphany was reached last night in mind...I'm not completely sex starved or unhappy, what's missing here is just plain old PASSION.

What do YOU consider to be the one item that's mostly missing in your relationship with a spouse or S.O.?
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Old 11-14-2010, 08:44 AM   #2
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I made a list, but it got caught on my feet and Im tripping on it...
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Old 11-14-2010, 08:45 AM   #3
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At least we're being civil right now. Other than that, everything. Everyone has something missing. They are if they're reading posts here.
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Last night, had "date night" with Mrs. Loverboy...out to a beef & beer, dinner, couple drinks, dancing. It was mostly an older crowd there, and it was nice to go out together, we don't really do this often.

As I looked around a little, I noticed some of the other, mostly older couples touching, especially how close they were out on the dance floor, while Mrs. just seemed to want to keep her distance. The "dessert" for the evening wasn't served until this morning, and even that was sorta distant. But I guess some sort of epiphany was reached last night in mind...I'm not completely sex starved or unhappy, what's missing here is just plain old PASSION.

What do YOU consider to be the one item that's mostly missing in your relationship with a spouse or S.O.?
It's hard to keep the passion alive. I know for myself that is what is lacking. It is a two way street. You both have to put forth an earnest effort.

As for the dessert being served this morning...better late than never, just sayin'.
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Last night, had "date night" with Mrs. Loverboy...out to a beef & beer, dinner, couple drinks, dancing. It was mostly an older crowd there, and it was nice to go out together, we don't really do this often.

As I looked around a little, I noticed some of the other, mostly older couples touching, especially how close they were out on the dance floor, while Mrs. just seemed to want to keep her distance. The "dessert" for the evening wasn't served until this morning, and even that was sorta distant. But I guess some sort of epiphany was reached last night in mind...I'm not completely sex starved or unhappy, what's missing here is just plain old PASSION.

What do YOU consider to be the one item that's mostly missing in your relationship with a spouse or S.O.?

I think we are on the same boat dude!
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Well, hell girl...I wasn't gonna post it, but I even asked for seconds!!!Always the opportunist....
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Pa this is a great thread to post!
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I see those older couples too..the ones who are still affectionate in public and am really jealous. I tell myself..oh, they probably just met a few months ago line dancing at the senior's, so I won't feel bad.

The truth for me is, after years of rebuffs..like," we can't hold hands here, the aisles are too narrow", or his walking off leaving me to get out of the car alone, I have absolutely no desire to be affectionate anymore.

For many years, i came home from work after he did, and the garage lights would be off, the door locked, so I had to juggle my bag, laptop, and whatever crap I collected with keys in the dark. I asked him to try to remember that I was still out, but he would get distracted and lock up "accidentally."

So, i'm not even looking for passion..just some common courtesy.

I met someone who was so completely different that it opened my eyes. Not all guys are cold, self centered, and distant.

To answer the question, I picked wrong and for now I have to live with it.
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