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Old 07-10-2008, 03:02 PM   #1
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Default Avatar Rules! Also for albums, pictures/links in the forums, sigs and profile pages!

No naked frontals, or able to see through clothing including shapes of what it is.
No touching frontals or anywhere too near , including hands down panties or over clothes. (including no objects touching there either!)
Nothing indicating masturbation.
Naked boobs and butts are allowed.
No one to be touching the boobs or butts. Holding or covering "your own" boobs tastefully is acceptable!
Nothing to indicate sexual activities. Nothing sexually explicit. (Dressed or undressed!)
No bodies touching each other, or hands touching body parts.
No mouth to mouth kissing, since it can sometimes be on the borderline of indicating sexual activities, so this way makes it easier for everyone to understand!
No biting, no licking etc..
No kids at all, not even in cartoons.
No animals in any sexual acts or sexually.
No celebrities. Dead or alive. Or well known cartoons.
No company Logos/Icons (especially those that relate to children) due to possible copyright infringements.
No sick pictures which may offend.

Remember these rules are also for any links posted.

Posting against the rules may result in an infraction and it could mean a short ban too!
Especially if you've been here long enough to know better!

When posting your pictures in your albums (or anywhere else in the site including links), please make sure it is only of yourself, do not include anyone else in the pictures as they may not want to be on the internet and we won't know if they do or not! Especially don't post pictures of your children or anyone else's.
And please do not use pictures of someone else and claim them as yourself!





If you are not online on the site then your avatar may be deleted, if it is considered against the rules! Waiting could be too late!
If you are around then you may receive a PM requesting that you change your avatar.
An infraction may be given if you don't or keep re-posting the ones against the rules!
If your avatar is gone then it has been seen and considered against the rules!
Thank you very much for your co-operation.



If you would like an avatar before reaching 500 posts (Gold members),
send the avatar of your choice to;

marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com
But if I do put up an avatar which is something I am unaware of which is incorrect.. such as a company logo or don't know/ not recognized certain celebrities etc ...... but someone else has picked up on it then it will have to come back down as soon as it is noticed!




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Originally Posted by Penny
I just want to let people know again why this rule is so important. If the avatars are considered porn then this site will also be considered a porn site and then we are basically dead in the water because what you need to do to operate a porn site in this country now is daunting to the point its just not worth it.



Originally Posted by Penny
Some of you may have gotten a PM asking you to change your avatar. Please be nice and understand that I want this site to still be here 5 years from now. I dont want to get a lawyer letter from some stupid more money than God movie star saying they are suing me for using their image witout their permission. Or even worse some porn star that thinks she is the next Grace Kelly getting pissed because I didnt pay a fee to use her image. Its a strange new world out there people. Things that seemed so small and trivial years ago are now a big deal.
Just hiring a lawyer to answer one of these letters could ruin this place so just bare with us

Also as always no kids, none what so ever, animated or real. Also keep them PG13. Touching private parts makes it R even if its over the clothes

If you have to bitch about being asked to change your avatar, go ahead and bitch at me I will listen, give you a hug and tell you everything will be ok in the morning



Originally Posted by Penny
If your avatar is too racey/too sexual it will be changed automatically to
one of the basic ones. Dont get upset and you are not being singled out
but if it contains two people or a kid (cartoon or not) its probably going
to go! .............

Everyone can see them even if they aren't registered. So it is possible
for underage people to see them too.
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Old 12-02-2008, 01:12 PM   #2
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Reminder of the avatar rules.

And also, if your avatar has disappeared it will have been deleted, because it has been considered against the rules!
Notifying anyone is not necessary, everyone will know why it has gone!
If you don't agree, then e-mail me and let me know the reason why you don't.

Remember...
No children at all, not even in cartoons!

Thank you for your co-operation.

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I feel like this needs to be said again, since some do not understand why we have these rules.
This may BE an adult site, but our avatars are seen by everyone including little children who are surfing the internet and accidently, I hope, comes across our site and sees the avatars! For legal reasons to protect the children we are not allowed certain types of pictures! And yes maybe we do go overboard with it, but better to be safe than sorry!
If we cross the line and enter into the territory of a porn site, then this place will have to close, as a porn site will have a lot more involved which we just cannot do!

So please if a Moderator asks you to change your avatar it is with good reason, please change it as soon as you can, or if I have deleted your avatar already because you are not around, you will know the reason why it isn't there anymore.
They need to be changed before they are seen by someone testing the place!
As always if you have any problems about anything or anyone, you can contact me at....
marriedandflirtingchat@yahoo.com

But never be mad at a Moderator doing his/her job!

Thank you for your co-operation in keeping this site a safe place to enjoy!

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Old 04-06-2010, 09:36 PM   #4
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Please remember.....No children or minors anywhere in the site Please!!!

Not even cartoons or drawings of them of any type!!
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Old 06-21-2010, 04:28 PM   #5
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A reminder about picture posting rules which also applies in the profile messages!

Continuation against the rules could result in a high infraction given by a Moderator which will also bring a ban for a day or more.

Please also remember no children at all anywhere in this site!

Thank you for your co-operation to keep the site going.




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The reason why the rules apply to the profile pages, is because any one of the members could be here to make sure we are keeping the site as it should be and not crossing into any other areas!
Yes, you may laugh at the thought of someone here doing that, especially anyone on your friend's list, but can anyone be really sure that it isn't happening at all?

And also it causes less confusion if the rules apply in all areas throughout the site!
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Reminder of the picture rules!

Please do not upload any pictures which has someone else in it and please also do not upload anything indicating sexual activities!
This is not a porn site!
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Please remember do not upload pictures into your album other than just yourself, especially don't put your children on the internet, not a great idea. Pictures can be copied.
And no celebs.
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Please remember that the rules for picture posting applies to everywhere in the site including the profile pages!
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Do not post pictures of someone else and claim them as yourself!
It isn't right to deceive others in this way, just because you think you will be liked more this way!
I am sure the members will like you even less once they find out you aren't who you are saying you are/showing who you are! And people have been found out before, even though some may take time to be caught out!
Everyone is lovely as their own self, there is no need to pretend to be someone else!
If you really don't want to show yourself either in here or in private, then you don't have to!
But if we do find out that someone has been posting pictures and claiming them as themselves when they aren't, they will not be allowed to have an album and they may even be banned for a while! In some cases your name could also be made known!
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It appears that a few of our members have decided to keep disobeying the rules of the picture postings! Especially the ones with children in them!
Those who are posting against the rules will have found that the pictures have been deleted by the Moderators!
But yet the same people keep going against the rules as though deliberately!!
As if to proof that they can keep doing those things I have asked not to do!
I have not posted rules or asked the Moderators to look out for the forbidden posts for my health!!
You keep doing these things and the site will be closed and it won't be because I or Penny have done it!

Those who keep doing this and have had a warning or warnings will find themselves having a break from here, since it may be what is needed by some, to know that this isn't some silly game we are playing!
I have more than enough to do in here without watching everyone as if they are still in school!
The Moderators are also here in their own time!

Thank you to those who do co-operate with us and help us keep the site going, it is very much appreciated.
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Another reminder!!

Posting against the rules may result in an infraction and it could mean a short ban too!

The moderators have been asked to give anyone going against the rules a short ban as it seems that a few members are posting pictures in the forums which are not allowed, which shows ungratefulness and that they don't care whether they get us closed down or not!
Of course closing it would affect everyone and not just the site team. Sometimes the posts are to give the moderators extra work deliberately! Expect that looks fair to the poster to the people who give up their time for free to help us out!
That is where the ungratefulness comes in.

Of course I would rather that no one has a short ban or infractions so please follow the rules. If you are not sure then don't post it.

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Please people I really have a zero tolerance policy towards that. I don't want to be labeled as a Porn site.
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Please only put pictures in your albums of yourself!
Do not get a picture from the Internet of someone else and cut their face and claim parts of their body as yours!
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Please only put pictures in your albums of yourself!
Do not get a picture from the Internet of someone else and cut their face and claim parts of their body as yours!
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Please take a moment to re-read the picture rules. We have a couple of picture themed threads that are getting out of control. These rules weren't established to kill people's fun. They were put in place to make sure that this site doesn't run any risk of being classified as a porn site, which would likely mean the end of this place. The sad thing is that many of you are well aware of these rules and have been told several times before to cut it out. I'd like to think people would be more respectful of the site owner than that. This place is obviously important to most of you, and it doesn't cost you a dime to be here...is it too much to ask that you follow the few rules we have here?
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