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#276 |
the ole girl is back..
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![]() alot of good points here.. all i can say is for me .. i did meet someone not on here.. we didnt intend to get too close.. but over years we did...somehow it got twisted.. confussed and then we lost it .. we let it go ..i think we never expressed ourselves when things got difficult.. I think.. both have to keep checking in with them selves and the other person.. where r u .. how r u feeling about the 'us' of this.. alot of openness.. you can do the only for fun thing its very doable.. or u can do the deeper thing.. but remember if ur both otherwise married .. u have other people that have to be in this equation... even if they dont know .. no getting around it and no u cant go like that lady did and put on craigs list that u want to hire someone to 'get rid' of the others spouse.. u cant get that carried away.....u gotta laugh .. OK .. im done preachin........sorry for the long one
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Well hello Mr. Mister....
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![]() Don't fall in love. Don't get attached. Don't trust anyone. Don't let down your guard for ANY reason.........
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At the edge of the abyss
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![]() I think it's a tough call...many of us are here b/c we're vunerable and looking for a connection at the same time. But I agree with the general sentiment...it's not a good idea to stop feeling in order to stop from feeling badly. For me, the risk is worth taking...
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Super Duper Flirt
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![]() I wear one of these:
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#282 |
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![]() [quote=MrCoy;932559]I wear one of these:
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#283 |
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![]() Hey don't laugh! It works ... but it does have one weakness .. it's kryponite per se
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#285 |
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![]() I wish I knew a solution. Unfortunately I fall under this category, so if anyone has any advice, I'd appreciate it.
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#286 |
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#287 |
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![]() the best way not to get crushed is to not care or not be here. Neither of which I care to do......Take the good with the bad...Always more good to be had...Poet...I know it...
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![]() I wish I knew the answer to this question! The pain can be pretty hard to get thru (speaking from experience) but the memories of the good times that came before keeps me coming back.
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always one to send the knife deep into the heart aren't you? but I happen to agree... finally..
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![]() you can't... plain and simple.. you are going to meet someone here who fulfills your every desire.. someone who really finds out about you... you are going to care deeply for that person... go with it.. make yourself happy for a small time... but be ready to let go when the time comes...
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#293 |
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![]() the first time you cant protect yourself since you have no idea, the second time you should have a clue but you do it anyway, the third time its all you own fault,.....
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![]() Being new, I haven't been subjected to this "torment" but I also think that sometimes I am just one of those people who isn't meant to feel love, or to be loved. I am only 35, and I feel like I am an old man for all the crap I have had to deal with in my life. It's not that I am a bad person, it just fustrates me sometimes how "life" works out sometimes. (Maybe I am being punished for a past life.. LOL) I just want to find someone who gives me affection and appreciates me for just being who I am. Hopefully things work out here....(crossing fingers) |
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#295 |
Back in Meh-Trocity
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![]() There is no better protection than having your own happiness and being happy with yourself first! If you have confidence in yourself and respect for yourself FIRST and foremost than I'm not sure WHO can crush you? You can be sad, disappointed, hurt or any of those other bad things that come from a broken relationship.......but crushed?? Not if you are happy with your own self first, not if you are confident with your own self first....not if you have the strength do anything on your own first.............
Yeah, yeah, yeah.........what do I know.....I always had Chewy helping me right?!
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#296 |
Always Looking For Better
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![]() old saying of no pain no gain applies here for sure
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#297 |
this space for rent
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![]() Don't think anyone can crush a person...damage their ego and hurt them yes...but people heal, wounds heal and even broken hearts heal.....we move on in life
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#299 |
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![]() I've come to the conclusion that with online relationships.....in the end it seems.......you get hurt or you end up hurting someone else ......without it ever meaning to go that way.
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"You mess with me I will F*CK you up with my wicked hottness!" --Ter-MAN-ator I may have issues.....but you're pretty messed up too!
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