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Old 04-20-2012, 11:27 AM   #1
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In general I think no one wants to be mistaken for someone's mom when its your SO/date, but is age really a deal breaker for you?
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Old 04-20-2012, 11:37 AM   #2
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I believe it is more about level of maturity and commonality. You have to have things in common and the same activity level. Something to base the relationship on.
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age doesn't matter at all... after all one of my favorite lovers in the past 5 years is 16 years younger then I am..
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Old 04-20-2012, 11:44 AM   #4
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It's more about maturity and if we have things in common, etc. But, honestly, I've noticed that I prefer older. I guess they just fit what I'm looking for more so than someone my age. The guy I'm seeing at the moment is about 17 years older than I am.
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I can't believe I over-limited the responses on my own poll, lol. In the real dating world I do find it matters to me. If I was in my 20's maybe I would still think that way, but being single and in my mid 40's is kind of different. Do you really start dating someone that potentially wants to have more children? That could potentially have been in school with one of your kids?
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Old 04-20-2012, 11:55 AM   #6
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^^^^^ Sunny... in the last 5 years i wasn't looking for anything more than a good companion in the sack.. I found a few men who meant more to me than I had expected.. now the men that I date, I don't limit myself on their ages.. for the most part.. I will not date a man in his 20's anymore.. they are looking for a cougar.. and I am done training.. but I will not limit myself on the age if he is truly (or I deem him truly) interested in me and not just the sex.. yeah, I have grown.. however, I am not interested in having more kids... I am interested in someone who can make me laugh, feel joy, someone who wants to explore, and someone who I can grow old with.. yes, I do want someone in my life... but I know now that may not ever happen.. so until then.. I date whoever seems to be fun and interesting.. no matter his age.. no matter his taste in music or religion.. or even politics..
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I know that it's such a cliche' but age doesn't matter. While I'll say 10 years younger is ok, beyond that might be out of my comfort zone....although my comfort zone can be easily invaded with a strong connection, similar interest and goals, and great sex......Older? Maybe if he had a great retirement fund...
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I know that it's such a cliche' but age doesn't matter. While I'll say 10 years younger is ok, beyond that might be out of my comfort zone....although my comfort zone can be easily invaded with a strong connection, similar interest and goals, and great sex......Older? Maybe if he had a great retirement fund...
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I dated a 25 yo a couple years back. He was wonderful and we were a good match. He liked to do the same things as me and handled himself in a mature way. The only exception was that he wanted kids of his own. I was done having them. There really was no future for us at that point. So we just had sex and made an arrangment to keep it like that until either of us found a SO.

But on the other hand, tried another 27 yo and all he wanted to do was hang out in the bar and party. Not my gig at 40.
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I've often wondered about the kid thing. Yesterday I was mourning the loss of the thought of not having anymore kids. So if I found someone that wanted a child, the yes absolutely, but it wouldn't be a requirement. And then again, A good slap might jerk me back to reality...ROFL
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Men: Do you prefer younger or older women than yourself?
I am only attracted to older men
I am only attracted to younger men
Age doesn't matter to me mentally or physically

Ok a bit confused here. they poll is asking men what age preference they have in women, as in would I as a man date a younger or older women and yes I would 28 to 45.

So why are all the options asking what age of man am I attracted to?
And for the record I did not officially vote in this poll
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Old 05-03-2012, 09:29 AM   #12
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You have asked the following question.

Men: Do you prefer younger or older women than yourself?

Bur all answers refer to men instead of women. Is this intentional or accidental?
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I think my view points are changing as years go by. When i was young, i really liked to be with women a bit older than me and has several memorable experiences with them. Now i prefer younger
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If you set age boundaries you are in danger of missing out on something special. Treat everyone as you would wish to be treated regardless of age as long as they are consenting adults whats important is that they stimulate you mentally as well as sexually. Lot to be said for many a fine tune played on an old fiddle tho ;-)
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Age not really a factor.........if she can get the Senior Discount at Ihop....well then all the better
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I married a younger woman than me. But I'm thinking a little bit older may be better.
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Both.....although older has an edge, what with the free bus pass and all......
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Age has never mattered to me (within reason obviously). It's more about a match of personalities and who does "it" for you. I've met 45 year old women that behave like 20 year olds and 25 year olds that behave like 50 year olds. So, really, as long as they have a great personality and match mine, it's all good. Oh yeah, and a nice rack.. That too..
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I think it's common knowledge here that I go for older men.

My ex-husband was 19 years older than me and Steve is 10 years older. This isn't something I hunt for, I just tend to connect better with a man older than me, than I do with a "man" my age.

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As a man, I really don't think it matters. And I think it matters less as you get older. As long as you are not going TOO far above or below your age.
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Not very many are older than me now. I used to think younger... just because of the young taut bodies.... but not too much younger now. I don't think I would ever do under 35 again.
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Does she like and want me.
Age doesn't matter
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Its more the chemistry than age
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I'm older than bear. It works for us. He's extremely mature for his age. But he's still young enough to bring out the wild young side of me. Typically I'm mistaken for being in my 20's and everyone thinks he's older than me. Plus he's young enough to keep up with me
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